is it better to be have loved,, or never loved? Options

[kraziegrl]

welll.. if you were once loved, its great, but if you find out they're suddenly cheating on you.. dont you feel like your lfie is ruined? [for a while] or get reallyreally frustrated..? or.. what breaks the relationship apart??

if you havent loved, then you might think something is wrong with you.. but you can have frends i guess, and not be in pain from a past relationship.

ehh.. i dont really know but people always say it's better to have loved..

[*Kathleen*]

I think it's great to have been felt that bond with someone at one time. It's better to experience something oppose to not experiencing anything at all. That's what I think about this, although I think very few people actually encounter true love.

[*CJ1*]

I don't think theres such thing as never loved. Do you mean true love? Well, I don't know. You should always love, even if you don't know them. =) Yup.

[asdf]

yeaa i thik its better to have been loved. knowing and remmbering all the times together. wen u find out someones cheating on u. u can lose all ur trust and feel like u never were there. it'L be hard to trust the same person agen.

[huihead]

i think you can't love at one time or have been loved at one time cuz it wouldn't be love then. of course one wants to be loved.. but love is rare?

[Winter]

I think to have love. Coz even though maybe it's gone now, you still have the memories of it. But if you've never been loved, then you have nothing. And even if you did get hurt, you'll heal with time right?

[conster]

To have loved - cuz at least u felt something in ur life that made ur spine tingle hehe and if u ever felt hurt after being love, then u'll know that love hurts lol

[DrNick311]

I think it's better to have never been loved. That way you have nothing to worry about and you have more freedom. If you were once loved, then you will carry around pent up feelings of depression and possibly even hate for quite a while.

[dT@k]

eh... i never had a girlfriend.. -_-; got rejected like.. 2-3 times? because of some dork asss friends make up all dis shit about me.. cuz then i have to kick their asses.. but it dont really matter that was like 6th grade..

[tinababy143]

i think its definetely "better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all" Yeah it may seem like your world has fallen apart, but at least you had the experience of being in love and you should know that, that feeling of depression or a lost love will go away sooner or later and you can move on with life..if you never find love in life, think about what you're missing out on..

[kraziegrl]

i think its definetely "better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all"

THAT WAS THE QUOTE!! i coudlnt think of it in my head ill cahneg it pwahaha

edit* i cant..?

[*AngelicEyz00*]

i made a layout for my xanga on that, like a couple of weeks ago... here's a pic of it http://img30.photobucket.com/albums/v90/An...ovelayout11.jpg I guess you can tell where I stand on the whole issue. I think the layout's cute

[eboarder2020]

I once wrote an entry about whether or not it was better to love then not have loved at all.Heres what I wrote and what I believe

"I had the opportunity to fall in love. I had the opportunity to love someone with my heart, to care for someone with my all, and to share memories that cant be replaced. I, Me, RJ Quero Jr, had loved someone, and for 8 months she was here. For 8 months she made me complete. I had it all. I had my wishes come true. I was with someone who was beautiful in every way, and perfect in everything she did. For once in my life I looked past imperfections, and for once in my life I experienced true happiness. And for all of this I should be very thankful. I know realize that some people out there don’t even know what true love is, let alone fall in love. Many people don’t get dream to realities, or have the opportunity to have something so great. Some don’t get their first kisses, first dates, first dinner with family, first cuddling moment. I had all of those for 8 months. I should be thankful that I had an opportunity. I am now happy and content with being single, for the sole fact that I fell in love once, and right now that’s all that matters to me. Not only do you have to be thankful for the things you have, but also for the things you’ve had. Be thankful for the things you want, be thankful for the dreams you desire. I am now thankful that I had it all, even if it’s only for just once."


So in short...Be thankful for the relationship you had... Sometimes, people dont ever get to experience love, so be happy that you had your chance.

[starling]

wow. you took the words right out of my mouth.

[*Kathleen*]

This is the whole theme to that movie I was talking about - Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind! But the question is: can it be considered love if they obviously broke up with you...not your soulmate? Heh did that make sense?

[*CJ1*]

i made a layout for my xanga on that, like a couple of weeks ago... here's a pic of it http://img30.photobucket.com/albums/v90/An...ovelayout11.jpg I guess you can tell where I stand on the whole issue. I think the layout's cute

Wow. Thats nice. I like the tapey looking effect

[angel-roh]

haha i have loved this guy...but he dumped me cus of his college work, so he wasnt cheating on me... hmmm if i loved someone so much...and if they were jus cheatin` on me... haha ima get my homie`z and we all gona jump on him and start takin` off his clothes off...and hang all his clothes up in the tree...MUAHAHAHA... and let everyone see him all naked nd` all muahahaha jk... hahaha i wish lols