Dating a bisexual..., would u?? Options

[jEllyBeaNs]

well at me school, there was this guy that i thought was really really cute. soo u kno, i told my friends that i thoguth he was cute and stuff. the friends that i told, they knew the kid, so i was like oMg dont u think he is cute, and then i was like should i talk to him. but then my friends where like umm...u kno he is gay right??!! i was like wut the hell. i was soo disgusted and confused i thought my friends where kidding. they where telling me that i should get with him and stuff. i was like noooo way, i cant cant with no gay guy, that siCk!!! he didn't even seem like the type of guy that would be bisexual. man!!! it freaked me out.

[Chii]

i wouldn't because it'll be so easy for him to cheat. he can be with either gender where as a straight guy will only cheat on you with women.

god, i'm so paranoid

[*mzkandi*]

Nope, I wouldnt but thats just me.

[Atobe_Keigo]

Yes, I'd still date him because then...We can talk about other guys that we like! Ahahahaha! Or just guys that we think are nice looking!

[ichigofan]

I have, its like dating a hetero. I see no difference but I could understand why some people would be freaked out or paranoid.

[_sarcastic_]

i wouldn't, i mean what if i catch him cheating or making out with another guy that'll be very disturbing

[shereyol]

yeah i would. i mean what's the difference he's only bi. unless he starts cheating on me with a guy.

[coconutter]

I wouldn't because it's just weird. I know alot of bis and they've asked me out, which none of them would ever make me like them even if they were straight so it just doesnt' work out?

[*danielle_x3*]

I wouldn't. Although I dated a bi without knowing he was bi until we were going out for 9 months I couldn't tell. lol, i'm bad at those type of things. =(

[topsyturvy]

^ Aww it's ok. At least you know now

No. I wouldn't be able to picture him kissing another guy. Even if i didn't want to picture that, it would pop into mind.

[Cwlplover]

I would date a bisexual. Why not?

[nyctophiliac]

I would...gender makes no difference...just more people to date.

[Ington]

If your dating a bisexual, chances are they like you. If you're a guy dating a bisexual girl, she likes you. What does it matter who she could have liked?

[Ington]

Wow, Danelle, I just noticed that.

Damn this Jellybeans person.

BISEXUAL - LIKES GUYS AND GIRLS

GAY - GUY THAT LIKES GUYS

LESBIAN - GIRL THAT LIKES GIRLS

Now that that's clear, it wouldn't be nasty to go out with a gay person, it would be damn near impossible. You just can't do that. HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU.

Freaking hell.

[shortiiex]

i would not date a bisexual..it's just to werid because if a hot guy passes..he and i would probably be like oo he's cute

[pshaa.shauna]

You sound like an effing homophobe. You use gay to describe everything don't you?


Shut up now.

[heyyfrankie]

well at me school, there was this guy that i thought was really really cute.  soo u kno, i told my friends that i thoguth he was cute and stuff. the friends that i told, they knew the kid, so i was like oMg dont u think he is cute, and then i was like should i talk to him. but then my friends where like umm...u kno he is gay right??!! i was like wut the hell. i was soo disgusted and confused    i thought my friends where kidding.  they where telling me that i should get with him and stuff. i was like noooo way, i cant cant with no gay guy, that siCk!!! he didn't even seem like the type of guy that would be bisexual. man!!! it freaked me out. 

okay...you're not the sharpest tool in the shed are you?

well, first of all: being gay is not "siCk".
and WHY IN THE HELL would your friends tell you go to with a gay guy considering the fact that he's GAY?? whenever they are gay...that means that they like their sex...uh..sexually. so he wouldn't even like girls like that. and he's not bisexual.

no, i wouldn't date a bisexual person.

[racoons > you]

OH DEAR GOD.

even if he wasnt gay, you're repellant anyway. i wouldnt worry.

sigh. im sure your lovely really. well, no i'm not, but i hav efaith that natural selection would have removed you were you actually a toxic as your posting makes you appear

[FLIPxADDICTION]

No, I can't compete with guys, some are way better looking than me.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

why does it disgust you ? do you find homosexuals repulsive ?

well, if your friends said hes GAY .. then why would he like a girl ? gay meaning boy&boy.

if hes bi , i think you should give him a chance. bi or straight if he seems like a great guy then go for it ;DD

[ParanoidAndroid]

I wouldn't. Most bisexuals would want both genders. I find gay people repulsive for some reason. I mean I don't hate them but seeing gay people in action seems disgusting to me. Oh well that's just me.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^ i know a lot of bi people and theyre a one male/female person.

chances of cheating whether bi or straight should usually be the same.
but in reality , since they could go both for girls & boys i see your point.

i think its sweet to see gay/lesbian couples together.
but any couple consisting of both or same genders tryna make a baby in front of you is not pretty. i know its your own opinion, but i dont see why people find it repulsive.

[ParanoidAndroid]

^ i know a lot of bi people and theyre a one male/female person.

chances of cheating whether bi or straight should usually be the same.
but in reality , since they could go both for girls & boys i see your point.

i think its sweet to see gay/lesbian couples together.
but any couple consisting of both or same genders tryna make a baby in front of you is not pretty. i know its your own opinion, but i dont see why people find it repulsive.

when I meant "in action" I meant when they try to make a baby which you did mention was disgusting... and yeah I understand if you don't see why. I, myself, don't understand what's so special about seeing gay people make-out so i guess it doesn't matter if you understand or not.

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

I wouldnt want to date a bisexual guy...that would seem kinda wierd to me...

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

when I meant "in action" I meant when they try to make a baby which you did mention was disgusting... and yeah I understand if you don't see why. I, myself, don't understand what's so special about seeing gay people make-out so i guess it doesn't matter if you understand or not.

what exactly was your point ?

i didnt say it was disgusting. i said its not pretty, meaning id rather not witness either boy/boy or boy/girl or girl/girl couples having PDA`s right in front of my face.no matter if its two lesbians or two straight people making out no one wants to see other people sucking face. despite that, i support gay & lesbian couples strongly.

theres nothing special about gay people making out. its the same as a mixed gender couple, gay people are no different from straight people. whether or not your in a same gender or different gender relationship it really should not matter. were all the same.

[ParanoidAndroid]

what exactly was your point ?

i didnt say it was disgusting. i said its not pretty, meaning id rather not witness either boy/boy or boy/girl or girl/girl couples having PDA`s right in front of my face.no matter if its two lesbians or two straight people making out no one wants to see other people sucking face. despite that, i support gay & lesbian couples strongly.

theres nothing special about gay people making out. its the same as a mixed gender couple, gay people are no different from straight people. whether or not your in a same gender or different gender relationship it really should not matter. were all the same.

^ i know we are but my point is i am not comfortable with them... it seems weird for me. To me, it's kinda like having sex with your parents. But like I ALWAYS say it;s my opinion

[miss barnes]

i probably wouldnt because he could say that he chillin with his bestfriend but really they are doing stuff..u just never know....

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^ i know we are but my point is i am not comfortable with them... it seems weird for me. To me, it's kinda like having sex with your parents. But like I ALWAYS say it;s my opinion

as you know i also did say it was your opinion. but i dont see why there was a need for the " it doesnt matter if i understand or not" because i wasnt implying that. it was an afterthought.

its perfectly fine if your uncomfortable with it, i know many people are.
its okay to feel that way. ;DD

[H0t.P1nk.L1p5]

I would date a bisexual..hehe a bi with a bi lol the worst match possible...but if he's rockin my socks wat the hell!

[H0t.P1nk.L1p5]

[Ington]

er..
I'm...Suzzette.

Danelle is in my signature

Holy crap. You're right.
Very sorry.

[Mireh]

well at me school, there was this guy that i thought was really really cute.  soo u kno, i told my friends that i thoguth he was cute and stuff. the friends that i told, they knew the kid, so i was like oMg dont u think he is cute, and then i was like should i talk to him. but then my friends where like umm...u kno he is gay right??!! i was like wut the hell. i was soo disgusted and confused    i thought my friends where kidding.  they where telling me that i should get with him and stuff. i was like noooo way, i cant cant with no gay guy, that siCk!!! he didn't even seem like the type of guy that would be bisexual. man!!! it freaked me out. 

what's so disgusting about gay guys?

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ANYWAY, maybe i would. If i REALLY liked the guy, then what the hell, why not?

[gelionie]

Ummm no.
I just can't accept that.

[IamRad]

id be afraid that they'd be having a boyfriend and doing stuff while he was dating me..eep

[ThePrincessofTKD]

that`s kinda sad that you feel that way about gay people. he doesn`t deserve you. go find someone else.

[AngryBaby]

what guy was this angelica?

[jEllyBeaNs]

If your dating a bisexual, chances are they like you. If you're a guy dating a bisexual girl, she likes you. What does it matter who she could have liked?

huh? im confused right now. i said i was the 1 who thought the kid was cute, then 1 of my friends said he was gay! im srry if i dont understand, jsut right me back and explain to me! thanx

[jEllyBeaNs]

that`s kinda sad that you feel that way about gay people. he doesn`t deserve you. go find someone else.

wow, all u ppl that think i hate bisexuals, r krazy, all i said was that i thought it was weird for me to like a bisexual guy. it surprised me, cuz i didn't think he was bi. and what r u talkin about go find someone else, i wasn't dating the guy, he didn't even know that i liked him, i jsut told my friends that i liked him. im jsut sayin that i will never date a bisexual person because thats jsut nasty!!! im srry, but thats just my opinion!!

[sadolakced acid]

what's wrong with bisexuals?

i'd date a bisexual, if she liked me.

[demolished]

Bisexuals date 2x genders (boy and girl)

[jEllyBeaNs]

..Wait..you said he was gay. Then you said he was bisexual.

Anyway...I wouldn't. I mean..he's..gay.
He prefers males over females.

How could he really like you?

well to me gay is gay. if u like both sexes, ur still gay. cuz liking a guy if u are a guy is gay, and if u like gurls too, then that still means ur gay. right?? i think that ppl jsut use bisexual, as another term for being gay, but i understand what u are saying!!

[mai_z]

well to me gay is gay. if u like both sexes, ur still gay. cuz liking a guy if u are a guy is gay, and if u like gurls too, then that still means ur gay. right?? i think that ppl jsut use bisexual, as another term for being gay, but i understand what u are saying!!

In standard, gay refers to homosexuals (only likes people of the same sex), soit doesn't quite fit the definition of bi.

Either way, I think I would date a bi guy, although they have double the opportunity to cheat (edit: that came out wrong, that's supposed to mean that they can cheat with guys AND girls as opposed to just girls) It would be pretty awesome, because I've always wanted a gay best friend that I could check out guys with, but still give me a guy's point of you. Dating a bi would give me double bang for my buck! (<I meant that in the least sexual way possible)

[JlIaTMK]

Ummmmmmmm so seem pretty damn ignorant there, girl.

I'd have to say, that gay does not = bisexual, to start. That personally makes me feel somewhat like crap just to think that you would actually discriminate like that.

The fact of the matter is.... HE'S FRIGGIN BISEXUAL. He likes males and females. AND FEMALES. =] Have fun with that idea.

You actually stopped liking someone because their bisexual.... I don't think you liked them in the first place.

[jEllyBeaNs]

Ummmmmmmm so seem pretty damn ignorant there, girl.

I'd have to say, that gay does not = bisexual, to start. That personally makes me feel somewhat like crap just to think that you would actually discriminate like that.

The fact of the matter is.... HE'S FRIGGIN BISEXUAL. He likes males and females. AND FEMALES. =] Have fun with that idea.

You actually stopped liking someone because their bisexual.... I don't think you liked them in the first place.

im glad you think im ignorant jsut because i think that gay is the same as bisexual!! its my opinion, right?? i mean seriously if u like both sexes u are still gay. god didn't make adam and steve, or eve and jane. how are u gonna say that u like both, but say ur not gay, gay and bisexual is the same thing, and u kno it!! seriously what is the difference?? u dont even kno me, how u gonna say that i didn't like this kid? your the 1 that seems pretty ignorant 2 me!!!

[xlitoxb]

Oh wow.. I dont' see how you can say that gay and bi are the same thing. Have you not read a single word these people have said? If you're a guy and you like another guy.. that means your gay. You like people of the SAME SEX as you. That's completely different than being bisexual. A bi likes both sexual preferences.. TWO! Not just one.. but TWO!! Do you not get it? And well, we all seem to know that being gay and being bisexual are two different things. You just don't.

Anyways, about your question. I'd date a girl any day. It'd be an experience. She'd have to be hot though because yeah, I'm sort of shallow. I wouldn't date a bisexual guy though, because like the other stated, he could cheat on me with like one of my guy friends, and well.. I can't handle that.

[yupimchuck]

my boyfriend is datign me. and im bisexual.

[Aoiro]

Sure.
I mean, it isn't anything bad.
I wouldn't mind at all.

[ParanoidAndroid]

You know, I KINDA want to change my opinion right now since ALL bisexuals are actually stereotyped to cheat on you. I won't date a bi because I think he'll cheat on me but because I am uncomfortable with bis and gays. But if I REALLY care for a bisexual, I'll date him (maybe love can surpass those kind of innate feelings?)

[Paradox of Life]

well to me gay is gay. if u like both sexes, ur still gay. cuz liking a guy if u are a guy is gay, and if u like gurls too, then that still means ur gay. right?? i think that ppl jsut use bisexual, as another term for being gay, but i understand what u are saying!!

Gay means homosexual. Homosexual means same gender with same gender.

Bisexual means opposite with opposite or same with same gender.

Straight means heterosexual. Heterosexual means opposite gender with opposite gender.

Please get your facts straight. Bisexuals (that aren't lying) have different mind-settings from homo or heterosexuals. I don't think it's fair to say more 'open-minded' because it's just something you're born with.

I wouldn't feel comfortable dating someone bisexual. It'd seem like I was competing with everyone else. I think I'd rather date someone who shared the same sexual preference.

[misoshiru]

Wow, Danelle, I just noticed that.

Damn this Jellybeans person.

BISEXUAL - LIKES GUYS AND GIRLS

GAY - GUY THAT LIKES GUYS

LESBIAN - GIRL THAT LIKES GIRLS

Now that that's clear, it wouldn't be nasty to go out with a gay person, it would be damn near impossible. You just can't do that. HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU.

Freaking hell.

hahahah ariel, you make me laugh.

i'd date someone who was bisexual...of the opposite sex. i mean, they like you, that's why they want to date you.

[*lolita kitty*]

chyeah. i dont see anything wrong with it.

[sprezzatura]

I don't know which time of the year would he turn straight or gay. Just no.

[apple.]

i wouldn't because it'll be so easy for him to cheat. he can be with either gender where as a straight guy will only cheat on you with women.

god, i'm so paranoid

I agree on the cheating part..haha

[WindSorcerous]

Well, I have these two really close friends. The guy is bisexual. When he told his girlfriend, she didn't care at all because they're both so in love with each other. To me, I don't think it would matter because it's the same as a regular relationship, except for the fact that one could have dated someone of the same gender but didn't. They really love and care about each other and they make such a cute couple! When he told me I was like, "Um, so what?" Because I knew that he loves his girlfriend to death and it wouldn't change their relationship anyway <3
Think about it...if you're bisexual, but you're dating someone who isn't, it's like the same as a regular relationship except for the fact that I suppose the other one had more people to choose from. So to the person who is straight, it's kinda like a compliment since they chose you out of EVERYONE; and that's literally. Haha.

[WindSorcerous]

You shouldn't be dating anyone who you think might cheat on you anyway, y'know...

...that's not a good relationship.

[sadolakced acid]

bisexuals are coolio, if you ask me.

and sure, i guess you could say a bisexual was gay as well as straight, but that just makes it really confusing.

[tmauze]

yes i would

[tmauze]

yes i would

[sheepy]

maybe, if i like him a lot. i mean i dont know actually, i want a guy to only like ME if we're dating. so if the guy really only likes me, then he's temporary not bi. but whatever.

[nyred]

nah. i wouldnt.

[rinchan089]

I have... it was in 7th grade...

My first and only boyfriend so far in my life was indeed bisexual. I didn't know until a month into the relationship. I didn't break up with him even though he developed crushes on 6th grade boys in school or when he became obsessed with 8-year-old male cartoon characters. Why? I was naive, in middle school, and he was my best friend.

Of course, he broke up with me for some other girl. Jerk lol

I think he's a closet case now...

I'd never do it again, just because it was really creepy talking about hot guys with my boyfriend.

Rin-chan

[Midnight Faerie]

I would. If he liked me, it wouldn't matter. I also wouldn't mind if I saw him kiss a guy, because in my opinion, that's hot. But anyway, it wouldn't matter to me. I mean, he's still the same guy. His interests are just broader than mine.

[nerdxcore]

i would. it wouldnt matter as long as i liked him.

[why_256]

I would date a bisexual. Why not?

yeah...i agree with her...

[alicekyli380]

I dunno... if I can resist...

[tinymonkey]

[B][FONT=Geneva][SIZE=7][COLOR=purple]I think that dating him would be really weird, and you would never enjoy being with him.

So, I would just be his friend, cause ya never know how a person is without actually knowing them?

And did ya ever think that your friends were lying so they could date him themselves? I find that highly likely......

well, im bored, but plz take my advice!


-Sarah

[islandkiss]

why not. My current boyfriend is bi. It doesn't bother me. to me, the only difference about being bi is that you have a larger variety and more options >.>

[mzislandpinay]

i wouldn't date him.. cuz it would freak me out.. but i'd stil lbe his friend! and i'll help him find a boiifriend of gurlfriend.. w/e..lol

[Serendipityxx]

Mind You. I really don't see the problem here. Gay and bisexual..., ya`know if you look at the definition those words would have different difinition. I would definitly go out with him. *cough* if he liked me*cough* I'm not saying he doesn't like you, but he may if you dislike his sexual prefrence.

[Atobe_Keigo]

im glad you think im ignorant jsut because i think that gay is the same as bisexual!! its my opinion, right?? i mean seriously if u like both sexes u are still gay. god didn't make adam and steve, or eve and jane. how are u gonna say that u like both, but say ur not gay, gay and bisexual is the same thing, and u kno it!!  seriously what is the difference??  u dont even kno me, how u gonna say that i didn't like this kid? your the 1 that seems pretty ignorant 2 me!!!

Goshies...He likes females and guys! Gays loves guys! So, if he's gay then he wouldn't be dating you because you're a girl.

[Ington]

im glad you think im ignorant jsut because i think that gay is the same as bisexual!! its my opinion, right?? i mean seriously if u like both sexes u are still gay. god didn't make adam and steve, or eve and jane. how are u gonna say that u like both, but say ur not gay, gay and bisexual is the same thing, and u kno it!!  seriously what is the difference??  u dont even kno me, how u gonna say that i didn't like this kid? your the 1 that seems pretty ignorant 2 me!!!

No, fuckwad. You can't have an opinion about it, because its already a fact. Its like saying that your textbook is pregnant.

No one said you don't like him. But we did say that you're a stupid peice of shit for thinking it would work out with him.

[Julie Ann]

Never date a BI, if only for STD problems

[xXgWenZilLaXx]

bi people are hella cool. one of my best friends is bi and hes just like a regular guy

[eli5e]

i think i can never get to know a bi person ..but that's just me ...i owuldn't wana date one :p

[xXYouMeBedNowXx]

It's been done.

And it didn't exactly work out.

EDIT: Meet me.