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post Aug 31 2005, 01:01 AM
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Do you cry at funerals?

I've got to admit I've never cried before but I got pretty sad. I don't know why but I just don't.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 01:03 AM
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Well...funerals are about mourning the loss of someone close, and that makes people sad...and when people are sad, they cry.


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I've never been to a funeral before; I don't know if I would be moved enough to cry.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 01:12 AM
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I never cry at the funneral because i never been one.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 05:21 AM
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I've never been to a funeral, except for my grandfather's.
I didn't really cry for him, because I wasn't close to him and such. But I cried when everyone else started crying. mellow.gif
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 07:03 AM
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I've been to one and it was my uncle's. I didn't ry because I didn't really know him well and I met him on his death bed. If I'm close to that person I will.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 08:01 AM
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i've only been to one, but no i didnt cry.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 09:01 AM
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depends on who owns the casket.
sometimes my parents drag me to funerals of people i didnt know and despite the heavy sadness i dont cry.

i tried not to cry at all my friends funerals, but its hard. so yes i cry at funerals.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 09:14 AM
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QUOTE(saMieRa @ Aug 31 2005, 6:21 AM)
I've never been to a funeral, except for my grandfather's.
I didn't really cry for him, because I wasn't close to him and such. But I cried when everyone else started crying. mellow.gif
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Same here. The only funeral I've been to was my grandmother, but I wasn't really close to her. I didn't cry until everyone else was crying... But like XKali_chik_4_lifeX said, I would probably cry if I was close to the person.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 10:06 AM
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Never. I went to a funeral twice. My grandpa.... he died when I was turning 2 years old. I'll probably cry at this age now. The 2nd one was my friend's dad. I didn't cry because I didn't really know him that much.

And he died in a weird way. He got drunk, and started harassing this girl. And starting hitting on her. so the girl's boyfriend got the beer bottle and threw it at my friend's dad three times. then he died.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 12:53 PM
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I've only been to two funerals and one was my great-grandma's whom i didn't know that well and wasn't close to so i didn't cry. The others was my Tae Kwan Doe instructer who commited sucide. I almost cried but held it in i guess. That was an incredibly sad funeral.... sad.gif
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 01:15 PM
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I've never been to a funeral.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 01:21 PM
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If it's someone really close to me, I will cry. But if it's someone that I didn't know that well or wasn't that close with, I won't cry.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 01:40 PM
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I never went to a funeral.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 02:12 PM
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same here..welll i have only been in one funeral...like i didn't cry but i was sad
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 02:13 PM
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I've never cried in funerals. I am not the crying type but the MAIN reason why I don't cry in funerals is because the funerals I've been to are just old relatives who I've only seen once.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 02:15 PM
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I cried at the three funerals I've ever been to... My great grandmother's, my friend I knew from school... and my best friend's baby boy who was never able to live and be brought into this world.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 02:18 PM
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I have been to like, only two to three funerals in my life and they were for people I didnt know that well. I am sure I would cry my eyes out for someone I know and loved very much.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 02:55 PM
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i do...because i was close to the people whose funerals ive been to.
 
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We'll I've never been to one, and I hope I never do cause I know I'll just burst cry.gif
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 04:10 PM
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I've never been in a funeral thank god
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 04:44 PM
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nope. i don't cry either...weird. blink.gif
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 04:44 PM
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my parents never let me attend a funeral. i dont know why. they wouldnt even tell me that someone died. =\
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 04:57 PM
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Depends. I've only been to one funeral and I wasn't even remotely sad at all. I never really was that close to my grandfather anyway. I went and partied right after (I left early). I know I sound so insensitive, but that's the truth. If it was someone I loved, I would've cried most definitely.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 05:25 PM
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I've been to about ten or eleven funerals, and I think I've cried at almost all of them. I'm a pretty sensitive person at times, and most of the people that had passed away were very close to me. The only one that I don't think I cried at was a funeral for one of my mother's high school friends that I didn't know.
 
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QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Aug 31 2005, 2:57 PM)
Depends. I've only been to one funeral and I wasn't even remotely sad at all. I never really was that close to my grandfather anyway. I went and partied right after (I left early). I know I sound so insensitive, but that's the truth. If it was someone I loved, I would've cried most definitely.
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Actually, that's pretty much what happened to me. Well except for the partying. I've only been to my grandfather's funeral. It was when I was young, and I honestly didn't know what was going on... now i feel kind of bad about it. But yeah, I wasn't too close to him. I'm sure I would have cried at the funeral of someone I was really close to..
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 05:35 PM
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I have been to a funeral, but I was only 2-year-old, so I really couldn't cry at all.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 05:35 PM
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I went to two last year, and I cried because I knew the two people well. And I went to my grandma's when I was a baby, but Im sure I didnt cry because I was too young to know what was going on.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 05:37 PM
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I've been to... ermm.gif 3 funerals, and a few prayer services. They used to make me cry when I was little, but not anymore. Actually, one time I was sitting ni a row on the VERGE of bawling my eyes out (it was like, 3rd grade), and so was this other little boy. We turned it into a competition, seeing who could casually wipe their eyes more discreetly. Inappropriate, I know.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 06:30 PM
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ive only been to my grandpas funeral and it was sad and i felt like crying but i didnt until everyone else started crying. i cried a little. im not a big crier.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 07:52 PM
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I've only been to one in my life, and I cried. A lot. She was someone really close to me, so it was really difficult. I didn't cry that much when I found out she actually passed away, but when I went to the funeral, I guess that's when it hit me that she was really gone.
 
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I've been to two. The first one, it was my greatgrandmother's funeral & I was like two .. So I guess I didn't cry cause I probably didn't even know what was going on. Second one.. I think it was my cousin? I don't know him to well. I wanted to cry and all, but I held it in..
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 08:02 PM
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I have only been to one funeral.
It was one of my moms mother that had died, and I was around 5 and wasn't really sure what was happening.
So no I didn't cry.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 08:03 PM
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ahh eys i always cry at a funeral. it makes me so sad.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 08:07 PM
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They go away. It can't be helped, what are you supposed to do? You can hold it in, or you can let it all go. All of the funerals i've been to. There has only been one that I didn't cry at, which was my grandpa's because I hardly knew him. I talked to him over the phone once, and that was it.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 08:42 PM
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QUOTE(linke3 @ Aug 31 2005, 10:14 AM)
Same here. The only funeral I've been to was my grandmother, but I wasn't really close to her. I didn't cry until everyone else was crying... But like XKali_chik_4_lifeX said, I would probably cry if I was close to the person.
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Same here.. The only funeral I've been to was my Grandfather.. but I didnt know him too well.. he had Alzheimers and he didnt speak much and yeah.. and I didnt cry... but when everyone else cried.. I did too.
 
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The last funeral I went to my best friend died, she died in a car wreck and the person causing the car wreck was my cousin, and her dad died too because my best friend was like only 8 or 9. It was the saddest funeral I had ever been to. I couldn't believe she was gone like that and when it happened I thought, "no that could could happen, she's alive I know she is", but she wasn't I couldn't help but cry.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 09:10 PM
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ive been to funeral things at CHURCHES before ...but most of them i dont really know the person ..so i never really cried..

but if it was someone close ..they yes, i would.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 10:26 PM
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I wouldn't really cry if they weren't close to me.
At my grandmother's funeral, however, I cried. ;[
 
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I've cried. I saw her big framed picture and remembered that stuff that I did with her.. and cried. Yeah, it got me really sad. 'Cause she was smiling in the picture all happy and full of life and yeah.
 
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I've never been to a funeral before, but if I did, I'd probably just feel all empty and hollow inside.
 
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I've never been to a funeral before. :x :x :x :x
 
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it depends on who's funeral it is.. i've only been to 3 funerals... and i only cried when my grandpa died because i was close.. the other two weren't close to me so i didn't cry..
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 03:38 AM
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The last time I went to a funeral, I didn't cry. I don't pretty much know him. And he's still young. But, I sometimes cry if that person touched my life.
 
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i'm a pretty emotional person. i would cry during the strangest movies (big daddy, lilo and stich, etc) so yea i cried at the funeral i went. it was a great uncle of mine, who i wasn't too close with, but he did walk me home when i was in elementary school. it was really scary to just see him lying there... >.<
 
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yes i do, but it really depends on who the funeral is for. i went to my friends' grandmother's wake, and he started crying. i didn't know his grandma, but i felt like crying as well.
 
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Well, I never been to a funeral before..but if it was someone I was really close to..I'd probably cry for them. But I dont know there's this thing. Whnever I see alot of people I know that started crying like my mom and my aunts at the airport when we was leaving, I felt like I was bout to cry too.
 

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