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 Aug 29 2005, 07:49 PM
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Okay....I've been dating this guy for THREE years!!!!!!!!!! & thats a FRICKIN long time....but it's like lately i feel that he's not giving me the attention that i want...like he never tells me things like he doesnt want to lose me or anything sweet like that. But its like i know he still loves me b/c he's mom tells me that he talks about me in his future...like he was telling his parents that he's deciding not to go to college...but that i want to & stuff...like he still plans on being with me then(i'm a junior in high school now) But its like i really want him to show me his affection........do any of yall have trouble showing affection but still love a gurl? is this normal or does he not love me anymore? please just tell me what u think! & give advice! ...o yeh...Lately i've been wanting to flirt w/ other people too...like I want other guys to tell me i'm pretty & stuff...do u think this is b/c i'm not gettin enough attention from my b/f?
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Aug 29 2005, 08:07 PM
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 It's anything but cute. Group: Member Posts: 403 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 185,571 |
Mmm...maybe this belongs in relationships? Correct me if I'm wrong.
And yeah you probably feel that way because you're not getting the attention you want. |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Aug 29 2005, 08:12 PM
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Wow, 3 years. I suppose that maybe he thinks you already know how much he loves you and thinks that he doesn't need to show it. Talk to him about how you feel about him not going to college. Convince him, tell him it would make you happy. And don't flirt with other guys
 instead surprise him by kissing him unexpectingly and saying "I love you" hope that helps.and yeah someone needs to move this |
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| *incoherent* |
Aug 29 2005, 09:07 PM
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maybe its the fact that yall have been together so long that he isnt afraid hes gonna lose you and doesnt act all sweet anymore to give you any reason to break up with you. just talk to him about it.
relationships maybe? |
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Aug 29 2005, 09:18 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Ehh, relationships...
But hmm, talk to him about this. 3 years is a long time and you probably do feel like you're not getting enough attention because he probably thinks that you should know by now all that stuff. But yeah, definitely talk to him about this, tell him how you feel and stuff. My boyfriend and I have that problem sometimes, but as long as you talk about it, it can get resolved. |
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Aug 29 2005, 09:25 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
3 years is long so don't let that stop you from keeping your relatsionship strong. Talk to them.
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Aug 29 2005, 09:57 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
like what the others said, he probably thinks that you know he loves you since you guys have been going out for 3 years now. tell him that you sometimes need him to tell you those things to reassure you. you shouldn't let this get in the way of your relationship.
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Aug 29 2005, 11:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
I think his mom is forcing or controlling him to be with you for 3 years.
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| *mipadi* |
Aug 30 2005, 08:57 AM
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Three years is a long time, and relationships don't stay "fresh and new" after that long. Things become routine.
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Aug 30 2005, 09:30 AM
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Uhm,thinking that only Longterms works for me, it should be like this,
1.He is more then sure,he can't loose you for any other men on this planet or is that kind of guy who doesnt feel so good telling you those stuffs,he feels better if he tells those things to his mother/friends,etc, maybe its shy dunno,but for sure,dont just stand there and wait for him to tell you all those things,TALK,that's the only thing that keeps and relationship alive,not even "sex" or any others material things,if you both dont cumunicate,tell eachothers your feelings,what's happening with you or things that you wish to know,it might no work,and you both will endup searching for someone else to talk with or just cheat.:/ 2.Its just you growing`up. PS:3 years its not too much. that's all i can say. |
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Aug 30 2005, 09:45 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
you should talk to him.
maybe it's because since you've been with him for so long, everything's become sort of...routine-like. |
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Aug 30 2005, 10:22 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
communication always helps. talk to him and inquire, but don't be all pokey and proddy.
and no offence but...relationships aren't all fairy tales and every single day is a beautiful day where he holds u and says some cheesy love line from some romance novel about how he compares the color of your eyes to something or whatever. gotta work at a relationship, it's not just a given. |
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Aug 30 2005, 10:32 AM
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WarPath Leader. Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,721 |
"Communication" and that's all about`it.
PS:put him infront of a computer then you jump on another,if he is too shy to tell you all his feelings face-to-face,maybe over the net will workout better for you both :P |
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| *mipadi* |
Aug 30 2005, 02:08 PM
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QUOTE(Claudel @ Aug 30 2005, 11:32 AM) "Communication" and that's all about`it.  Careful, sprinkle-the-stars might beat you for stealing "her line". 
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Aug 30 2005, 07:47 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
aww of course he loves you!
 that's so sweet...but ask him why he never shows affection anymore, and he'll probably start again |
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Sep 5 2005, 11:37 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,391 |
listen here f**k i am a gurl with a penis so i guess i can give u guy advise maybe your bf dont fuckn like u cuz iu say LIKE LIKE LIKE to many fuckn times if it was me i woulda fuckn sdtuck my cock in your ear and made u eat it u fuckn loser and ......sory i gotta go my penis is falling off.......DOCTOR!!!
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Sep 5 2005, 11:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,641 |
I think you shoudl just let him f**k u in the ass and everything will be ok you wont feel LIKE LIKELIKE LIKE ya by the way u said that too much f**kin ass muncher!!so LIKE ya suck his cock and eat out his ass beyotch
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Sep 6 2005, 12:24 AM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
Hey guys! reply to my topic!
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