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| *[2]Nekked* |
 Apr 25 2004, 01:08 PM
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A serious problem i've had in mostly all my relationships is that my boyfriend never tells me what he wants.. what he needs... what he's thinking.. what's wrong... its just this continuous cycle of him being moody, and i ask him whats wrong or what he would like me to do to make him feel better, but he just shrugs me off and says "nothin."
It seriously PISSES me off! And then weeks later, he breaks up with me saying theres no communication, or that we grew too far apart. like that's really my fault >.< So guys... this one goes out to you... You're girlfriend needs to know what's going on in your life, so that she doesnt feel left out, or left in the dark about things. If they ask "what's wrong" its only because they care, and they'd like to be there for you if something happens. So what's the big deal? just tell them..the two of you will probably love each other more because of it.. you'll become closer. If your girlfriend has does something wrong... TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT. dont just act pissy towards them without giving them a reason, or letting them know why; giving them no chance to fix things. that's not fair. |
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Apr 25 2004, 06:37 PM
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 doot doot doot  Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
OmG i so agree with you!!! my bf gets moody sometimes and he FINALLY told me that its cuz he thinks of the past and gets pissed off at something that happened in the past.. but i knoe it has nothing to do wit me, but i still wanna help u knoe ? and its kinda weird to be mad at something that happened so long ago
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Apr 25 2004, 06:41 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
i swear to goodness i make my bfs tell me what is wrong with them if not i be like find you know what don't even talk to me....i mean like i get it out of them for real...but i mean like i totally agree with you on that
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Apr 25 2004, 06:45 PM
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Hmm...I hope I never meet a guy like that...I would say I'm more like that. Haha. No, I don't act whiny...
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Apr 25 2004, 06:47 PM
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Well I'm a guy that's never been in a serious relationship so this could come in handy. Thank you for telling us what's on your mind and for giving me advice that could be helpful in the future
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Apr 25 2004, 11:35 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
QUOTE([2) Nekked,Apr 25 2004, 8:08 AM] A serious problem i've had in mostly all my relationships is that my boyfriend never tells me what he wants.. what he needs... what he's thinking.. what's wrong... its just this continuous cycle of him being moody, and i ask him whats wrong or what he would like me to do to make him feel better, but he just shrugs me off and says "nothin." It seriously PISSES me off! And then weeks later, he breaks up with me saying theres no communication, or that we grew too far apart. like that's really my fault >.< So guys... this one goes out to you... You're girlfriend needs to know what's going on in your life, so that she doesnt feel left out, or left in the dark about things. If they ask "what's wrong" its only because they care, and they'd like to be there for you if something happens. So what's the big deal? just tell them..the two of you will probably love each other more because of it.. you'll become closer. If your girlfriend has does something wrong... TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT. dont just act pissy towards them without giving them a reason, or letting them know why; giving them no chance to fix things. that's not fair. i agree with ya there |
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Apr 26 2004, 01:09 PM
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Nice n' Slow Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,451 |
i dunoo...wut do we want from u
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Apr 26 2004, 01:46 PM
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QUOTE([2) Nekked,Apr 25 2004, 1:08 PM] If your girlfriend has does something wrong... TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT. dont just act pissy towards them without giving them a reason, or letting them know why; giving them no chance to fix things. that's not fair. A HA! I remember in the old days, that woman use to do that. not only in the old days, but now a days too. women get mad at their men, but they won't tell their men what they did wrong cause they want them to figure it out for themselves. but for a guy to act like that, thats wierd. |
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Apr 26 2004, 07:06 PM
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 Mileage Runner Group: Member Posts: 1,316 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,458 |
QUOTE(Chopstikx @ Apr 26 2004, 1:09 PM) i dunoo...wut do we want from u Thank you, Chopstikx! 
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Apr 27 2004, 05:20 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
christina... u a design staff? whoa hahaha conqrats! hehe newais that's so sad that u break up wit him... i told u... u shuldve done the ninja style on him... for a lil payback.. i mean it seems like u reallie liked him a lot...hehe so yeah go for it! YAY GO CHRISTINA!!
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Apr 27 2004, 05:43 PM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
okay not saying this is every guy, but just me.
i'm very vocal as it is, but when it comes down to the talks about what we want.. maybe i always pick the wrong girl or i have bad timing? but it's not what they want and so i choose not to speak to end any quarrels that could come. enjoy the time being. usually i like to solve problems right away and get it over with, but sometimes the problem is we shouldn't be together. hey it beats the hell out of being lonely |
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Apr 27 2004, 05:45 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
yea you should remember to estalish that from the beginning with the people you're with .. communication is key for keeping that relationship going ..
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Apr 27 2004, 05:55 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
=o =o =o !! CHRISTTINNAA! that's so true =D keke..
or should i say.. Trish? hehe. wow you're in design staff!! the first i've seen O_O_O! wowow.. wow. |
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