Bitchin' a-hole of a friend, what do I do about the situation? Options

[crocodilo]

I have a friend called Matthew.
He is always bitchin' and is a control freak (Most probably due to his conrolling position at the dumbass army cadets which he used to have) and he always has a temper tantrum or "bitch fit" when he doesn;t get his own way. What a moron

He also has tried to ruin mine and several of my friends relationships with girls out of pure jelousy and has spread untrue rumors concrning one of my friends sexual activity, claiming my friend sodomized this girl we know, again out of jelousy

He is also a drunkard, a chronic alcoholic, politically uninformed and a heathen yet he feels the need to criticize me and several friends for smoking Marijuana on special occasions

He also regularly maliciously criticizes the groups tastes in music as he dislikes Reggae and Metal and he even disrespects Bob Marley with his blasphemous comments

matthew's dumb ways are creating a problem within the group and everyone is becoming pissed off with him
However if we dissert him he will have no friends due to his idiotic ways

What should I do about this situation?

[angelrevelation]

you should kick him out of the group. it's his fault he's being a freak

[ParanoidAndroid]

If I were you I'd drug him and dump him in Wisconsin (If you live in a place that ISN'T Wisconsin... nothing offensive or anything) JK JK JK JK. If I were you I'd get rid of him in the gang ciricle.

[Lightner]

well u gotta think about something. Dont ask urself the question= How could i leave him all alone? but ask ur self this, Does he deserve to have friends like us? the answer is plain and simple. No. He takes you for granted, and he wants to control whatever you do so he doesnt have to worry about you doing something he dislikes. Slowly stop talking to him, seeing him, or even talking about him. If he still refuses to leave you alone, it is time for more drastic measures. Block him out of your life, if u see him, either ignore him, glare at him, or find something that he dislikes so much that he would nevr forgive you.

That may sound somewhat harsh but, has he ever been good to you? Nope. Has he ever done anything that u love? Possibly, but is he worth it in the end? Is he worth your friendship with other people. Obviously not, so make a decision. In time you will forget about him, and forget he ever existed. So besies my lecture, kill him. JKJKKJKJ lol dont kill him but leave him forever.



[Edit]

hehe u should say "You are the weakest link, GOOD BYE" (walk away and nevr talk to him ever again) =D

This post has been edited by Lightner: Aug 28 2005, 04:58 PM

[Tiffany_Prep_Gir...]

if I was u, the best thing to do is to go until him, say to him all that u feel about him and after, kick him out of the group saying: "bye, bye, looser, u r out!".

[jennyjenny]

maybe you should talk to him about all of this crap he's doing and if he's not gonna change or do something about it, then it's his fault for not having any friends.

[mouse_3k]

beat him the hell up and tell him he aint in the group no more. tell him face to face that no one likes him and he should save a baby and kill himself

[_sarcastic_]

^haha agreed. he doesn't deserves friends like you guys, you should just tell him straight that he's too controling and that no one likes him, it's either he change and calm down or you guys aren't gonna be friends with him anymore

[demolished]

Guys/gals, that dude can kick her ass if she say something like what you guys just say.


If someone is piss off, that person cannot think straight and does something wrong such as punching in the girl's face.


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Anyways, if you're willing to take someone's comment, get a guy friend for protection.

[Chii]

he sounds so creepy...like this guy i knew's friend. he said that his friend said that if a girl ever cheated on him, he'd stick a gun up her p*ssy and pull the trigger

i think that you should get all your friends together and discuss the situation. gather up all your opinions and try to come up with an answer. all of you and your friends' feelings of that guy should be taken into consideration and since none of us know you, we can't possibly be able to come up with an effective solution.

[demolished]

^
That's so .. evil.

I know there's a way to break up, find a girl that will flirt with him so his gf will shout out " you f**king TWO-TIMERRRR !" and pretend to be mistaken.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I don't usually say this but...ditch him.