no fighting good or bad?, is it bad if u don't fight Options

[lovelyjeni]

I never fight with my boyfriend I hear it's a bad thing and it'll lead to alot of problems do you think its true?

[*Azarel*]

In the past, I've had three relationships like that - we didn't fight for months, but once the first big fight that came up, he split.

Disagreements lead to progress.

[Ilaem]

I think it's good you don't fight
Although...
Me and my ex bf NEVER fought
But it was becuase he never told me stuff
AARGH
Like, he wouldn't tell me something was wrong unless i said something first
I thought it was stupid

ANYWAY
I guess it's good you guys don't fight
uugh
Good question

[mzislandpinay]

if you don't fight then it's okai.. you guys just get along with each other.. i don't think that's awsome if a couple don't fight! it's cuz you guys either knoe how to comparmize.. or maybe you guys don't talk about stuff.. i think it's more likely the first one..

[silver-rain]

Well, I think that no fights isn't too healthy, it either means that you're keeping information from each other and don't talk about that or you're really open with each other and accept everything you do. It really differs with each couple though.
Although, like Azarel said, if you do fight it can lead to progress in your relationship and make you two figure out how to make it better.

[mouse_3k]

Well me and my bf just started havin disagreements for the past 2 weeks. Like one after another after another. it makes us stronger but I mean, whateva doesnt kill u make you stronger.

How long have yall been datin NE wayz

[*RiC3xBoy*]

If you don't fight, it means you don't care. I remember hearing that somewhere.

[absinthe]

^ i agree w. that. most arguements are usually jealousy based on some level. lol ... so yes.

as much as i hate arguing w. my boyfriend, i know that they are inevitable. in a way, it helps strengthen our relationship. so i'd say disagreement/arguements are good depending on the basis of them.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

Fighting causes problems in relationships, but thats when most of the real feelings and things on peoples minds come out, So its not technically bad....

If you and ur boyfriend dont fight, thats GREAT! dont wish for an arguement lol, But just make sure everything is in the open, because if people dont say anything and hide it from each other afraid it may cause problems, that causes more problems.

[kpx_danny]

i think bad. becuz fighting leads to sex

[shereyol]

i agree with mouse_3k, i don't think no fighting is very good, i guess some fighting in a relationship is pretty alright as long as it doesn't go overboard. i mean my bf and i are starting to fight pretty often but we kinda do get over it quick (i think).

[angelrevelation]

it shouldn't be a problem... yet. if a big argument comes up then you two won't really know how to deal with it, since you've never fought before, so it might tear you apart. i guess

[silver-rain]

i think bad.  becuz fighting leads to sex

Err, that's not true... perhaps in your case(s) it does, but not usually.
Anyways, I think that some fights are healthy in a relationship.

[LittleLulu]

i think it should be a part of a healthy relationship.

well my and my bf never really "fight" we have little debates about stuff but im laughin the whole time. like how we disagree on the fact of who's the weirder one. i think he's weirder, and he thinks im weirder, and we talk about that for a long time XD *sigh* we're like little kids. but in the end, i still care about him just as much. its rather nice actually. sometimes i'd get mad at him, but when he asks if im mad, i always say "no" and then he says sry n goes "my bad" n stuff. its really rather cute of him. <3 =)

i say, not that much "fighting", just "arguements" =)

[ParanoidAndroid]

It's actually good you don't fight. That means you do care for each other and respect one another.

[HongKongDong]

If you don't fight, it means you don't care. I remember hearing that somewhere.

Yea, I heard that too. Never fight? You guys can't always agree on everything. You guys must be hiding something from one another.

[_sarcastic_]

^i agree. a little fighting wont hurt a relationship, you can't always agree on the same things, i mean every couple has their differences

[kill.t3h.r0cK]

I never had fights w/ my ex...We were really open, but the relationship got so tiring because it was boring. Errm, we're still good friends.

I like a fight, it shows where your relationship truly stands and how strong your bond is together. Unless you break up...that obviously means it wasn't always meant last.

[SimplicityGirl]

Hm...I wouldn't say that never fighting with your boyfriend is necessarily a good thing. Because it means that you don't care enough about each other. If you fight, it only shows that you care enough about the other person to yell at them. Basically, a little bit of fighting never hurts anybody in a relationship; fights can help you two to understand each other better and in the process, strengthen your relationship better.

However, keep in mind that too much fighting isn't good either. Good luck!

[xTINAA]

It's good to fight; healthy. If you don't, I'd be a little worried that maybe you guys aren't at that level of comfortableness or whatever to truly say what you think and get in an argument. Fighting and being able to get over them helps make your relationship stronger and almost like moves it to this new higher level. If you never, ever fight, it's like you're always at this same level, no change or anything. I'm not sure if that makes sense. But yeah, fighting is good. It's good also because like Anna (Azarel) said, if you don't fight for a long time, it's a greater chance that the first time you do fight it will be big and you two might break up over it. But for sure, fighting too much isn't a good thing. That probably just means you two aren't compatible or are both really stubborn.

[audory]

fighting, to a reasonable extent, is good for a relationship. but in all of my 5 previous relationships, i've never had an arguement or a fight. and all my friends complain about their bf's or some arguement they've been having and i really believe that it helped their relationship. but the problem for me is that i never have anything to fight about; though i wish i did.


all in all: fighting--> stronger relationship. :)

[demolished]

It depends on the situation. You fight for something good that would benefit both of you guys, not one person. In order words, selfish and greedy.

[topsyturvy]

It depends. If you don't fight because you're keeping things from each other, that's bad. But if you don't fight because you agree & compromise about everything, then that's awesome.