breaking up Options

[*Tainted Euphoria*]

Tonight I just broke up with my "boyfriend". It's strange, because after all that we've been through, I thought breaking ties with him would be strange and awkward, but it went rather smoothly. Maybe that's a bad sign. I don't know, and quite frankly, it doesn't matter anymore.

What about you?

[silver-rain]

Hmm, well my breakup seemed OK; it seemed mutual and ended on good terms. However, starting the next day, he ignored and avoided me whenever possible...

[latinprep12]

^ dang thats not cool..well if it was me and i broke up with my girlfriend. i will still call her and make sure shes ok with it and try not to turn into a enemy, but back down to a regular friend

[*Tainted Euphoria*]

Hmm, well my breakup seemed OK; it seemed mutual and ended on good terms. However, starting the next day, he ignored and avoided me whenever possible...

I'm worried that that's what's going to happen to us. I hope not. He's a good guy, I still want to be friends.

[*stephinika*]

^^
aw naomi, i hope everything works out for you.

and all of mine have been different. my last one, i broke up with him and he took it pretty harshly...so we didn't quite talk properly for awhile but now its okay if we're in a big group, but we don't directly talk that much still..

[lovescream]

For me, it was really hard. I eventually did it.. and he thought I was joking. But we got everything straight, and we're friends. Not good friends.. just friends. Back from where we started.

[KELLYYY]

For me, it was really hard. I eventually did it.. and he thought I was joking. But we got everything straight, and we're friends. Not good friends.. just friends. Back from where we started.

But he's still obsessing over you, right? :x

[lovescream]

Haha. Yeah. Stalked me until I moved.

[*stephinika*]

^^
creepy. yeah my last ex still has a thing for me apparently thats why my new relationship is kinda...hush hush still.

[dahding]

my breakup with my ex went...horrible. she became like....the satanic *bleep* from nowhere. now she's fine.

and steph, ooh la la. frisky are we.

[Winter]

Most of my breakups have been pretty easy since it's either mutual or I lose interest. The last one however, was a killer. having to break up with someone you love is truly the worst thing to do.

[snoox]

^ dang thats not cool..well if it was me and i broke up with my girlfriend. i will still call her and make sure shes ok with it and try not to turn into a enemy, but back down to a regular friend

yeah. i agree. and one thing...^ i think its pretty cool that u would do that coz most guys today...or at least the guys that ive met are friggin petty, anoying and stupid. u break up with him/ vice versa...they'd act so childish and like start picking on u and be ur enimii.

[BOOGERSHAHA]

actually when i broke up with my boyfriend, it was alright. it was mutual (college stuffs) and we carried on afterwards like normal. of course, minus the holding hands, kissing, etc. but we still talked like normal.

um.
and then we got back together. it was random.

[Nicolatofu]

Awww.. naomi. I'd so go out with you if I were a guy..

I try to make things smooth, but the guys never want to talk to me afterwards. It makes me sad, but I know I tried my hardest to end it in good terms.. so yeah.

[Paradox of Life]

Tonight I just broke up with my "boyfriend". It's strange, because after all that we've been through, I thought breaking ties with him would be strange and awkward, but it went rather smoothly. Maybe that's a bad sign. I don't know, and quite frankly, it doesn't matter anymore.

What about you?

Sounds like a mutual relationship and it was really for the best. No regrets or anything.

And my breakup was horrid. I can't stop thinking about it. Il'l talk to him this Monday though.

[littlewhite]

Never broken up because I have never had one, but I really don't really care about it.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Breaking up is really emotional for me..I feel like sometimes its more emotional for me than the person I break up with...in middle school if I wanted to break up with someone I'd get someone to do to it for me or I'd tell the person do dump me & they'd be like okayy!!...but now I'm really picky about getting into relationships...cause the nexx one I want to really work out...ya knoo?..

[*Tainted Euphoria*]

It's always good to try to work things out, but if there's no more spark, then there's pretty much no point.

[annalucky]

Haha. Yeah. Stalked me until I moved.

How creepy. I'm currently with my first boyfriend, but when I think about a possible breakup, it's hard.

[alincute28]

i'm with my 1st bf too.. we have been for couple of years.. and breaking with him is my worst 'nightmare' that i have too face... i had fight regularly and sometimes we almost approaching my 'nightmare'....

dont worry... he is not meant for u.. u will find a better man soon

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

It's hard to break up with someone without hurting their feelings so much

[sheepy]

well at this point, i franky dont give about him anymore.

[pyrochick19770]

My last one was fast, quick & painless.
I never really liked him anyway.. so I decided to end it.
But now we totally hate each other.

[mzislandpinay]

hmm i only had one break up.. so i didn't vote.. cuz there's nothing to compare with that..

But wen he broke up with me.. i never knew that i was so "into" him and i creid it out for lyk three days.. but i mean i couldn't stop crying.. the tears just fell out .. ya knoe..

[x-klutzibabi-x]

I just broke up with my bf (now ex) today. He took it pretty easy and told me to have fun being single. Then all the waterworks went out when he came back to give me a necklace which was suppose to be saved for tomorrow, since it would've been our anniversary.

[inthemudhole]

My first one was about as nice as it could get. We had both been talking a lot about things lately and eventually decided that it would be best if we moved on from the relationship and just became friends. It was a very good break-up, and we're still friends to this day.

My second one sucked. We basically just drifted apart and didn't speak for a while, and that's really about it. We still haven't 'broken up', but I've figured it out by now.

[PinkTrash]

I didn't really care for my first boyfriend when we broke up, or else I wouldnt have done it. Later, I did care and I realized ignoring him wasn't a very good idea and it made us awkward friends for awhile.. we've gotten back together unofficially many times, although Ive wanted an official one. I guess if I hadnt broken up with him so hard it could've happened, but oh wells.

[*jeanna*]

i have been thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend for months, i have been going out with him for 6 months now, and i just keep on holding it back. everytime that comes up, he starts crying and says. YOU'RE GOING TO BREAK UP WITH ME AREN'T YOU? he is super sensitive and is too clingy to me. that is why i have spent all this time thinking about it. now that school is starting up again and i know we won't see eachother every day or other day, [which is the main reason i wanted to break up with him is because he couldn't spend one day without me and i just wanted some alone time.] that we will eventually break up. which is a good thing on my part. i just can't imagine breaking his heart. even thinking about it makes me hurt.

[*danielle_x3*]

my past relationship's break up was hard for me. but the rest were easy :D

[misz tery us]

i totally break down and go crazy =x im VERY emotional which is a horrible thing i wish i could stop. hopefully another breakup won't come along =P

[Levy2k6]

i've only breaked up twice and once.. it was basically a... yeah.. w/e letse break up.. nothing is going on

the other was... wild.. that one involved violence and kicking and running.. its funny tho.

[da_SALSA]

i just broke up with my "boyfriend" about two days ago. and...i'm feeling the effects of it right now. it's torture for me--tears just keep coming out. haha--i'm trying my best though. if he's happy i'm fine.

[pinacoolada]

My recent break-up was easy. I broke up with him 'cause I really didn't feel a connection. Then we went back to being really good friends.

The one before that though, the one that happened 2 months ago really hurt me. Right now I hate him and we really don't know how to deal with each other. It was a really messy break-up.

[sexthybeans]

for me it wasn't a real big deal cause i was the one to break it off with him. it only took me like, a week to just move on. but the thing that makes it difficult is that we share the same friends, [i have lots of best guy friends ] and they're telling me that he still has feelings for me....

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so now, instead of being friends with him like i want to, it's really awkward.

[Nymphetamine]

My current boyfriend and I broke up for a while. Actually, I broke up with him. I ended up crying. I never thought I'd cry for a guy and I never thought a guy'd cry for me (he did).

Really, I don't want to go through that anymore.

Although, I have this ONE ex boyfriend who's still in love with me! He's too sticky.

[scottypottyboi]

guys treat you girl like a goddes cause breeak-ups suck ass!!

[xforgottenlove]

ahh my first breakup was pure emotional torture.. i wasn't myself for a few months even i tried not to let it show. but i'm all better now [:

[illriginal]

LOL He gave you something AFTER you broke up with him?!! HAHAHAHAHAHA wow...

I've never been dumped but we've broken up in a mutual kinda way... we just lost interest in each other. Quite honestly she changed and I didn't like it and she claimed that I was not spendin enough time with her... even though she was always busy, oh well :)

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

difficult and emotional torture.
I know that the one that I am in now is going to be hell and a half to deal with. I guess thats what tells you that you really care about the person if it is difficult to let go of them in any way shape or form.

[nycaf12]

oh god. breakups. yes thats the worst part of relationships..and what hurts the most is when u see her flirting wit another guy in front of u when u still have feelings for her =.=

[lyin_in_wait]

my past breakups...well ive done them all. the relationships never lasted longer then maybe 3 weeks, except one with lasted a month. i never really kept touch, i see no need to after we split really. if i dont like the person i dated why would i want them as a friend, but thats just my outlook on it. i couldnt be friends with someone who put me through hell, nor could i be friends with someone if i put them through hell. its just so many boundaries that have been crossed.... but i dont think i could shrug off the current relationship im in now...even when i dream we break up i start to cry...i feel so pathetic

[goodcharlotte]

They are usually pretty easy. Sometimes when you go out with someone for a long time and you both feel it breaking apart it isn't as hard. But when you still have feelings for the other one it hurts like no other. Especially seeing her flirt with other guys and go out with them. Not fun.

[*Azarel*]

My last break up, during the conversation, he said that it was "a peaceful break up, if there ever was one."

Most (see all) of the other ones weren't as peaceful and typically ended up with someone in tears (usually not me, lol).

[*digital.fragrance*]

My last breakup was terrible...

We still have feelings for each other.

[butterfly113]

[font=Arial][size=3]lately i've been getting with guys that are immature and unexperienced i dont knoe why either. my last two ex bfs ended up as being my close friends. one of them still likes me and i tihnk im falling for my last ex

[*Uronacid*]

Well, one of them was horrible, and two of them were alright. ;]

i have been thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend for months, i have been going out with him for 6 months now, and i just keep on holding it back. everytime that comes up, he starts crying and says. YOU'RE GOING TO BREAK UP WITH ME AREN'T YOU? he is super sensitive and is too clingy to me. that is why i have spent all this time thinking about it. now that school is starting up again and i know we won't see eachother every day or other day, [which is the main reason i wanted to break up with him is because he couldn't spend one day without me and i just wanted some alone time.] that we will eventually break up. which is a good thing on my part. i just can't imagine breaking his heart. even thinking about it makes me hurt.

OMG, you need to either talk to him about it or breakup with him... it's only going to get worse if you ignore that.

[Mizz1Exquisite]

Oh my advice give it to him straight its best to do it now then later when he is going to start falling madly in love with you then your really going to break his heart then.So basically make up your mind tell him you need some time alone or break up with him.

[Trinie]

when i broke up with my bf a while back. i was such an emotional wreck!!!!!!!!!

[mznikki]

it was okay hard right after but we don't talk anymore and i really don't care... lol

[*My Cinderella.*]

It's kinda bittersweet. Sometimes it's heartbreaking and then some days I feel like I'm over it, but then it just goes back to heartbreaking.

[tokyo-rose]

My first one (and so far only) was pretty easy. I thought I would be more affected by it, but I guess it's because I didn't like him that much after he asked me out. It was strange. But we still talk occasionally.