is it weird to feel as if you like ur gf/bf more, than they like you? Options

[LittleLulu]

from a while ago i've been feelin asthough i like my bf more than he likes me

im not sure if its just me but from the beggining i felt like i was always the one to make the first move..weather tellin him that i like him i the first place...first kiss..when we usually hold hands and so on.... n blah n blah

not that he DOESN"T...i just feel as if most of the time its me'

i have yet to tell him that i think its weird how he doesn't do anything when we go to see movies.(maybe i've watched too many movies but isn't the guy suppossed to hold the girls hand or SOMETHING?) we've been going out for over 5 months (1 month im in china but still ).............hes told me hes shy to express his feelings. ..and since i've been to china hes even admitted that hes been thinking of me less

i dont know what to think

i cant help but thinking about him all the time. hes in my dreams. hes like the first theing i think of when i wake up iin the morning and the last before i go to bed. sometimes i feel like...its not worth it. because i care too much..in comparison

i dont know if its just me...or maybe im being paranoid again. but i need help.
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ok some of you guys have said that hes just takin things slow. Well,i guess i forgot to mention that we started..doing..stuff...like after 2 moths of dating. you know...like the bases n all that stuff.. we never went all the way though. Anyways, but like after we had one breakup things just sorta stopped..even after we got back together we took things bit more slowly. and now im just not sure whats going on.

[Rachel]

Actually I have read that guys tend to fall in love first, but they are too afraid to say it the women they date. [/end random]



But, he sounds like he is losing interest because you are gone

[shereyol]

^agreed. ask him, and tell him you want to know how he feels, and don't like guessing it

[topsyturvy]

No, it is not weird to feel that way. But yes, it feels weird to feel that way.

Anyway. Ditto ^x2, truth is most girls feel the same way you we do right now. It's pretty natural, but it just depends how much of it the girl can take. If you're really unhappy, TELL HIM. Then dump him (if you're considering dumping him at all). But tell him first.

[shortiiex]

girls are more loving for guys...he probably like to take things slow...real slow

[o0olaalaa]

yeh guys are real slow at expressing their feelings =/ girls are more lovablee ^^

[mouse_3k]

I hate that feeling. When your the one calling al the time and stuff. My current bf love me as much as I love him but with my other Ex, I KNOW i liked him more cause he made no effort to talk to me or w/e...it w/e

[silver-rain]

Yeah I know how you're feeling; sometimes I feel like that too, how it's almost always me initiating something. I suppose girls are more romantic and loving towards guys whereas guys have a hard time expressing themselves. But I suppose you should talk to him about this, bring it up or something and see what happens.

[aera]

maybe youre thinking of him this much is because youre afraid that he isnt thinking of you.

[technicolour]

This happened to my brother. He fell 'in love' with his girlfriend, and when he told her she got all scared/paranoid and they broke up. Ah. I never liked her anyways.

[LittleLulu]

whoa..i thought i was just weird. but i guess its alright

and i HAVE talked to him about it. but he just tells me to "express it less" but should i really hold back telling him how i feel ? i've told him much less lately but ...it doesnt stop me from wanting to tell him

btw im going back to canada in uhh...5 days or so. he hasn't really expressed that much "excitement" or w/e to my coming back. but then again..he doesn't really express much except hunger..tiredness...

but i guess GUYS are always GUYS...although my ex expressed how he felt alot more...too bad i dont like him. *sigh*

[teeners4]

yea some guys just cant express it

[topsyturvy]

but then again..he doesn't really express much except hunger..tiredness...

but i guess GUYS are always GUYS...

My god, you are so right. My guy once told me the three best things to do in life (for a guy) would be to eat, sleep, and shit. Literally. -______-;

It's funny when you really think about it. Guys are like dogs. Though sometimes it seems like a lab would treat me with more affection than my guy

[ichiban]

Guys are just like that. like for some of my guy friends, i feel like the only things they ever think about are their yugioh cards or food or tv or whatever. he probably just wants to take it slow .. or maybe he's just not that committed to the relationship. wait a few more weeks/months and see what happens..

[sweetest-emotion]

he's not taking things slow, it looks like he may have just wanted a physical relationship! i dunno, i totally feel ya with the "i think i likehim more then he likes me" thing. for me it was a bad sign. well, he was giving me physical signs (like less hand holding, less smiling, just less contact and physical attention). so then i confronted him about it, and thats when we broke up. crap. i kno. but i dunno, since you're away in china...thats tough. you may be exagerating things. wait till you get back. lay it on him gurl!

[sheepy]

with my ex yeahh..

[*incoherent*]

no, but somewhere you gotta draw the line because if they arent attached like you are, theyre gonna drop you and youre going to feel completely lonely because you liked them more than they liked you.