Some of my closest friends are well.., bytches is the word!! |
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 Aug 11 2005, 03:20 PM
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Like..I have a few close/best friends and then a bunch of good friends. My close friends are nice to me and then mean and then nice and then mean and yea..it gets on my nerves..i only have liike 2 best friends that dont do that..what should i do??
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Aug 11 2005, 03:21 PM
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 4/5th of all people do not understand fractions. Group: Member Posts: 735 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,498 |
Well them close friends ain't your friends if they be mean to you.
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Aug 11 2005, 03:29 PM
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 I love Havasupai Group: Member Posts: 1,040 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,878 |
Quit calling someone that is mean to you your friend!
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Aug 11 2005, 05:09 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
how exactly are they mean?
maybe they're just kidding around. when i was with my friends we openly called each other b*tches, sluts, whores, etc and lightly made fun of each other. it was all in good fun though. it was never meant to be hurtful. |
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Aug 11 2005, 09:43 PM
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 one.love Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,824 |
my close friends and i are really comfortable with eachother so we're very straighforward and say whatever we want in front of each other. if you and your friends are really close just tell them that they're being catty bitches and to knock it off...or something to that affect. i'm sure they mean no harm and don't have bad intentions.
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Aug 11 2005, 11:34 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
maybe they don't realize that their being mean to you. and if you want them to stop you've gotta speak up and tell them.
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Aug 11 2005, 11:47 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
maybe theyre kidding. if they really mean it, then they arent close friends.
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Aug 12 2005, 10:21 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
one of my best friends r like tht to...what I do is be mean back, I aint takin her bull...
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Aug 13 2005, 01:28 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
Talk to them. Tell them how they're so mean to you. If possible, record what they say to you on your cell phone ( if you have the recording option or a cellphone). Play it back to them. Maybe they'll get the hint. If not, you might wanna start friend hunting.
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Aug 14 2005, 11:31 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
sometimes friends liek to be mean for fun...like i call my friends bitches...but they know i don't mean it and i still love them
if your friends are being mean like treating you like shit...then you should just talk to them or stop becoming friends with them or deal with it |
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Aug 15 2005, 06:42 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
if they're b*tches and you cant stand it, ditch them.
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Aug 15 2005, 09:49 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
maybe they are going through something.. sit down with them..and just have a chat.. or make new friends.. as what some ppl say how can they be your close friends if they're mean to you.. but remember, think of all the good things about them.. and think about what you are gonna say before you act... so dont start calling them b*tches or anything for no reason.
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Aug 17 2005, 09:28 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 |
well; if there mean to you.. maybe they're going through pms?
if they do it alot and you told them then they arent really your close/best friends they're jsut good friends? |
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Aug 17 2005, 04:07 PM
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gah. i have this friend, shes a girl, and as of recently...well since last summer shes been obsessed with these guys from texas that she met at a youth gathering in florida. its so old and she acts like nobody here in missouri matters anymore. like shell talk to her "friends" here but only about these texas guys and she never seems interested in what were doing. i might add that these guys are almost 5 years older than her and in college, not that thats as bad as living in texas...about 15-20 hours away.
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