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| *CJ1* |
 Apr 22 2004, 05:06 PM
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Theres this guy who likes me at church. I wouldn't have a problem with that, except he buys me jewelry. I barely know the guy and we're 12. My friends also said that the jewelry had real diamonds and junk. I'm all confused now. What should I do?
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| *jooleeah* |
Apr 22 2004, 05:09 PM
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eh give it back? i dunno...if you don't want jewelery you should tell him. tell him he can't buy his way into your heart. sounds corny but i guess it's true.
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Apr 22 2004, 05:21 PM
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 Retired Posting Whore  Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,911 |
Milk off him for as long as possible.. Accept all his gifts, pawn them for cash, buy something you really want. If he ever stops, give him a little sugar so he'll keep buying for you...Keep it going for as long as you can...free stuff is great.
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| *CJ1* |
Apr 22 2004, 05:29 PM
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But thats evil!
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| *Kathleen* |
Apr 22 2004, 05:29 PM
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Tell him that it's sweet of him to buy you gifts, but that you can't accept them as i_am_shoe said. If you don't want them, give them back. If you feel that you should have them, however, just accept them and smile. This has happened to me before. But, even as I resisted they wouldn't stop. I gave in, it made them happy. So, if you want to do that, then there's a third option. Wow...I wonder if that made sense.
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Apr 22 2004, 05:58 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
no offense...but if ur both 12, its most likely fake, but either wat give it back if u dont want it n dont accept n e thing else from him, jus tell him that it makes u uncomfortable wen ppl buy/give u expensive stuff [thas tru fa me] may b that'll work
btw, y is this called "sigh i dont like being old?" |
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Apr 22 2004, 06:15 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
Both of you guys are twelve damn....thats super young...well....like to me it seems like it is puppy love to me....cause both of you guys are young and like him buying jewelry is something that always has a cause for return and I mean him buying you jewelry there is always a catch to that...and plz believe no matter how old they are...something always is need
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Apr 22 2004, 06:21 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
if the gift giving is making you uncomfortable then you shouldn't accept it, especially if it is real, i mean it would be a shame for him to be spending all his money for no reason. just be nice to him and say that its sweet but you can't accept
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Apr 22 2004, 08:18 PM
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 mizgeralyn ;D Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,888 |
first off.. what do u mean by the title of this topic? "i don't like being old".. wahts that got to do with the topic?? LOL
QUOTE(CJ1 @ Apr 22 2004, 5:06 PM) Theres this guy who likes me at church. I wouldn't have a problem with that, except he buys me jewelry. I barely know the guy and we're 12. My friends also said that the jewelry had real diamonds and junk. I'm all confused now. What should I do? why take it from him? you'd be giving him the wrong idea.. when accepting it.. don't u feel like you owe him something? by taking it makes him think he has a chance... and btw, are you positive he BOUGHT it himself? what 12 year old can afford diamonds? if by chance they ARE real.. their probably his MOMS.. HAHA-- i had an ex boyfriend that use to steal from his grandma and his mom to give me jewelry! |
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Apr 23 2004, 12:11 PM
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yeah don't give him the wrong idea. give the jewelry back, he might think you got a thing for him :S
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| *CJ1* |
Apr 23 2004, 06:17 PM
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This is called "Sigh I don't like being old" because I didn't have to worry about this when I was younger.
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Apr 23 2004, 06:28 PM
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dont worry about being old, older people are more wise, and they are more respected, unlike adolesents like me, that gets pushed aside and never get taken seriously. be proud
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Apr 23 2004, 06:37 PM
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wow. old at 12, eh? sheesh. try being 20.
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Apr 23 2004, 08:23 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
lol 12 isnt old... wait till ur 16, thats like the climax of ur life lol return the jewelry bak to him and tell him to stop giving it to u cuz if he does it again ur gonna throw it at his face and run lol
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Apr 24 2004, 10:51 AM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
whats the topic of u being old? u just 12!!!
i say u hand him bak the jewelery..and run away from him! 
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Apr 24 2004, 11:29 AM
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hey now... if the jewelry's authentic... SELL IT!! haha. tell him you don't like him (if you don't)... and if he keeps giving you stuff... say thanks and keep it of you like it.
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Apr 24 2004, 07:08 PM
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haha lols. he must be a rich kid. well i say that... just give it back to him. Heck, you can accept like one gift i guess... but i mean, he's going to get the wrong idea!! ONLY accept if he says that it dont matter whether you like him or not.
But, isnt it kinda awkward to accept a gift from someone for no reason? It is for me...
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Apr 24 2004, 08:23 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
hahahahahaha o mai`-_-;; hehe i told this to jackie..
"the cruel susan's past" hahahaha well there was this guy who had a crush on me and he bought me this realllie expensive necklace-_-;; but hes reallie poor, so i... returned it and gib the money back to his mommie... so yeah haha... i asked him where he got the money and he said that he was savin' it up for me-_-;;; o man i felt very bad...-_-;; no more playin` wit guys~-_-;; |
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| *jooleeah* |
Apr 24 2004, 08:31 PM
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oh, also, one more thing, if you keep on accepting them and do nothing with him, he might be somewhat...ignorant i guess and say that you're greedy or something because you keep on accepting his gifts and you're just giving him a hug or whatever....like he might start thinking youre one of those girls that just want the gifts and such....
sorry if you didn't get that....ehh that was kinda hard to say in words... |
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| *NatiMarie* |
Apr 24 2004, 08:36 PM
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You can say, "You don't have to give it to me, thanks anyways.."
I mean, dang you guys are young...so young. It's all puppy love as mentioned before, he'll get over you in a couple of days :-D...so then he'll have another person to give the jewelry to...-->me, j/k...whoa, that did not sound right. Just forget what I said. If he gives you jewelry, it's probably fake. To see if it's a diamond, just scrape it against glass and if the glass breaks, then it's real (haha, I highly doubt that you will do that, never mind..don't do it! It was just a suggestion...a bad suggestion )...another thing, just avoid eye contact and pretend he's not there...he'll hopefully get over it. Good luck! |
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Apr 25 2004, 01:53 PM
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i doubt a 12 year old can afford real diamonds...and if your acceptin it he thinks you must like him...so give it back and tell him you cant accept it
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Apr 25 2004, 08:55 PM
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Don't listen to them..Accept the gifts..Take them with pleasure..THEN CRUSH HIM!!! MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
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| *NatiMarie* |
Apr 25 2004, 10:30 PM
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Don't listen to Lq_darksoul! Don't turn bad...haha. Okay, maybe you can take the gifts but don't crush him...he'll get crushed when he sees you have no love for him (not love...haha, such a strong word...you have no liking for him). *looks at lq_darksoul* you should be ashamed of yourself
lol..j/kYou're a guy, it's normal <--haha *runs before she gets told* |
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Apr 25 2004, 10:48 PM
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 ::<YuMMIES>:: Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,479 |
daaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyuuuuuuuumm that is hecka young! wow 12 years old! well i dun think that u should accept anymore of his gifts. becuz if you keep doing that then hes gonna think that u want him and want to be with him thats why u are accepting his gifts. its kinda strange that he can offord to buy all this jewelry and give it to you just like that....it seems like not rite. if u do like him try to find out HOW he got all of that and was his parents cool with it because if its athentic....well tha means hes pruddy rich. or hes just doing some bad things to get you the jewelry. I dun think u should have anthing serious u guys are both really young! think about it first! and gurl U are not old! real life starts when ur at least 15 or 16 lol and u dun want to get dere believe me
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Apr 25 2004, 11:48 PM
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QUOTE(LQ_Darksoul @ Apr 22 2004, 5:21 PM) Milk off him for as long as possible.. Accept all his gifts, pawn them for cash, buy something you really want. If he ever stops, give him a little sugar so he'll keep buying for you...Keep it going for as long as you can...free stuff is great. i'm with darksoul oh and maybe he's selling drugs or stealing. when you don't like him anymore rat on him to his parents |
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Apr 25 2004, 11:56 PM
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 createblog.com n00bie Group: Member Posts: 620 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,321 |
Me too! Haha...
He's a goldmine. Mine him until he's depleted. But you're both 12, the gifts are pretty much fake stuff, unless his dad's a druglord. |
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Apr 26 2004, 12:03 AM
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I wonder where he got all those stuff from?
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| *CJ1* |
Apr 27 2004, 04:44 PM
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QUOTE(xjjajeengx @ Apr 24 2004, 8:08 PM) But, isnt it kinda awkward to accept a gift from someone for no reason? It is for me... Oh yeah, I forgot to add that part. He gives it to my brother to give it to me. My poor brother is his friend. I had to tickle him to know who gave it to me. |
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