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I have been going out with my girlfriend for a week now, i really love her alot. Last night i was at hers and she asked me if i would start shaving my legs for her, as she doesnt like guys with hairy legs... now i was abit freaked out... she asked me to think it over and tell her next time i see her... I dont know what to do, as i love her lots, but i think its weird a guy shaving his legs... any advice please...
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I prefer guys shave their legs as well but I think if you are not comfortable with doing it then dont. She should understand if you decide not to.
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![]() show me a garden thats bursting to life ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 ![]() |
Now days guys shaving, that becoming like a fad or whatever.
If you really like her and want to stay with her, razors are on aisle 5 at walmart. But if you decide not to, then really, she should understand. |
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![]() TOISU!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 ![]() |
HAHA. I thought she wanted you to shave her legs. Grosss. l0l.
Well. It's your body. Do whatever you want to it. But if you don't wanna do it. Then don't. Even if you "love" her a lot. |
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![]() Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 ![]() |
if you dont want to dont.
but if you really want to do it for her, then do it [: |
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![]() All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 ![]() |
Yea, it really is your decision, after all, it is YOUR body.
But yea. She'd understand if you didn't want to if she really loved you back. Personally, I think it's kinda freaky. |
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eW gShErRz ShO gRoSs GuYz ShOuLd ShAveEE~~@!!1!.
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If you want to shave your legs than go ahead but if you dont and she doesnt understand then move on
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im thinker than you smart i am. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,093 ![]() |
if shes says "i dont feel like going out with you because you dont shave your legs" then break up with that bitch.
if you feel pressured if she ever loooks at your unshaved legs, tell her you dont want to shave your legs or that if she really cares that much about it, she needs to get a life. |
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shaved my legs in the end, shes worth it i reckon
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^Whoa, okay.
I guess you made your decision already. ![]() |
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i think she should understand that u choose not to... afterall its only been a week for u guys being together.. how'll things be later on if u start doing things against ur will from now?
besides... she should compormise and you shoudlnt sacrifice... or is it the other way around ;) ur call! |
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![]() CB Pimp ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,662 ![]() |
go for it. its not that bad. lol you might even like it.
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if u don't want,then don''t
i think she will understand u=] |
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I think you should think about and if you don't want to, tell her why and she should understand. If she doesn't understand I don't think its worth your time to be with her although you love her. If she loves you back she should respect your decision and the fact that its your body. I have seen some guys shave their legs and it looks normal. You could try trimming it a bit or something.
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![]() livin up to the name. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 ![]() |
tell her you love her & all but youre not comfortable changing for anyone. even if it is your physical apprearnce.
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![]() <33 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 ![]() |
I prefer whatever. I like both. depends on the guy.
anyways, do the thing that you want to do. if she has a problem with you not shaving your legs, or shaving your legs (or aka your opinion) then I say that's not a true girlfriend. hope I helped ![]() |
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if you don't feel comfortable shaving your legs then don't. if she cares about you the way you care about her, then she shouldn't mind. just tell her you're uncomfortable with it.
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![]() unify and defeat... divide and crumble ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 ![]() |
If you don't want to do it, then don't. She'll understand if she likes you as much as you like her.
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questions make me blue. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 ![]() |
i agree with everyone. she should accept you for who you are, not how you look.
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![]() All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 ![]() |
EEK, ya shaved em.
Woah. |
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Just wondering if anyone knows how long it would take for my hair on my legs to go back?
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QUOTE(Wh1t3_w0lF @ Aug 10 2005, 12:52 PM) it won't take too long, maybe a week? i don't know i don't shave my legs because the hair is really fine and unnoticeable. personally, i think it's creepy if guys shave their legs...men are supposed to be hairy. you should have just trimmed it. god, if you just gave in at the snap of her fingers what else is she going to change about you next? your hair? your clothes? your friends? |
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![]() I love you more than sex appeal. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 ![]() |
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![]() unify and defeat... divide and crumble ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 ![]() |
depends what you mean by "growing back" You'll probably start to see stubble within the week, but it could take anywhere from a week to 2 months for it to all grow back.
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![]() bahhhh ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,327 ![]() |
you could always get them waxed... jkjkjkjk. that's just really weird.
personally, i don't really care if guys shave their legs or not... i kinda like it when they don't. but it's up to you. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,273 ![]() |
just tell her that yuu're not comfortable shaving... i'm sure she'll understand. she loves yuu, and it shouldn't make much of a difference.
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I highly doubt you love her since you guys have only been going out for a week.. but what do I know?
Ummm, I'd say that if you don't feel comfortable doing it, then don't. Just tell her you don't feel comfortable and don't. I don't like it when guys shave their legs, it just.. I dunno. I just don't like it.. ![]() |
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![]() straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 ![]() |
If you don't want to, don't. If she cares about you, you not shaving your legs shouldn't be a problem.
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 ![]() |
1. u cant be in love in a week...
2. if you two were REALLY in love, she wouldnt pressure u to shave ur legs |
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