kissing, is it ok on the 1st date Options

[baby-girl2987]

i say it is but some of my friends say its wrong. what do u think. if u picked it depends what does it depend on?
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[monxcheri]

i picked depends..

+ depends on whether you really like your date
+ depends on whether you`re ready or not

[seriouslynikki]

Yeah, it depends. if i really liked the guy and if the first date was amazing..then yeah..kissing would be good.

[Angel_Cece]

i picked it depends.
(1) depends on if you feel hassled into kissing
(2) depends on the conversation you had
(3) depends on if you actually talked to that person before deciding you like him/her.
thats my opinion.

[elaboratedream]

It depends how long you've known the person before going out in my opinion... and like ^ said it depends if you feel like you're being pressured into kissing them.

[*mzkandi*]

I have kissed on the first date, it usually depends on whether I am really feeling the guy though.

[parallel]

It depends. I mean. You don't wanna move too fast now. You'd get a bad rep. then.

[shortiiex]

depends if the date sucked or it's just a fling..say you barley knew your date and you just kiss him..^yeah and it does give you a bad rep

[#1distortion]

i don't usualy go out on dates and stuff but i think it would be okay... i mean i've kissed guys i didn't even know at partys so i unno maybe yu shouldn't listen to my answer lol

[*danielle_x3*]

it really depends. for my first bf, we didn't have our first kiss until like 4 months into our relationship. lol

[Xprezsion]

Yea it depends if...
you like him
he likes you
both of you are ready

[ichigofan]

If you just met the guy and its your first date a kiss on the cheek is good but if you know the guy for more than 2 weeks than a peck is fine, well thats what I do on first dates

[pyrochick19770]

Yea, as everyone has said, it DEPENDS.
--situation, mood, etc...

[bbyunique]

No, I don't believe so. I like to wait it out. If he really cares, he wouldn't mind.

[ThePrincessofTKD]

i think it`s okay. if you two really like each other, then it`s okay as long as the parental units aren`t watching.

[sweetest-emotion]

you kids are rediculous. of corse its alright to kiss on the first date! unless you hate the guy, no prob, mack away! its not like you're giving yourself to the guy. its no biggie (well its always a step above just a hand shake..lol). hell, i kissed a guy even BEFORE we went out. its totally kool. go in for the kill. think like a guy for a change, its no BFD.

[pawprints2570]

it all depends if you feel ready.

i guess that all of us hopeless romantics believe in that "right moment" where you just.. *know* that you're ready.

[actionaction]

sure its okay! if you feel like you two have really connected, why follow that stupid, " i dont kiss on the first date" thing! eff that!

[dragyn]

Well, I think it depends on a lot of things. For instance: How long have you known each other before the date? I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and I didn't get to go on a date with him until about a month ago. Of course we kissed.

How well do you know him?

Do you want to kiss him?

That kind of stuff.

[x0x0_kelly]

I think it should be when you feel right, I kissed on my first date but get to know him just a bit and then kiss.

<3

[x3Death.By.Knife...]

-> depends

Yeah, i haven't gone on my first date yet.. but i guess you could still hear my advice. It depends.. How much do you like him? if you really like him sure. But don't feel like you absolutely have to kiss him, becuase its not required.

[xbby_charmz]

it all depends...I kiss on my first dates most the time but if there real sucky dont they dont deserve

[islandkiss]

For me, I guess it mainly depends on whether or not you feel a close bond with your date

[blah1234567]

it depends if im ready or not

[angelrevelation]

it depends on how much you connected with the guy

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Jusst make sure you do it with a guy you want too..Don't do it if your friends say you should it's your decision...

[mzislandpinay]

if you're ready then go for it..

[lilliannnn]

I NEVER GOT THIS. IF YOU KISS ON THE FIRST DATE IT MEANS THAT YOU LIKE THAT PERSON, THAT THE DATE WENT WELL. NOT THAT YOU ARE A SLUT, YOU'RE EASY OR ANYTHING TO THAT EFFECT.

Sorry for capitals. Gkljrlaks.

[Nicolatofu]

If the date went well and there's a mutual attraction, then why the heck not??

[inquisitive_]

Like many people said, it depends on how the date goes and how well you connect with the person.

[Aoiro]

It really depends.
It depends if you feel romantic, or go to that rule where you can't kiss on your first date.
You decide...

[cutielilsuga]

it depends on how the date went and what happen
also if she is feeling him and theres a good vibe between them.

But for me I always kissed guys on the first date, because
it went well and I liked them.

[tequila_sky]

depends.I actually read all about herpes and I am glad I only read it till now I am married. haha Cause if I had read it b4 I would definitely never have kissed anyone till I had known them for at least a year! Fears aside... I guess its nice to kiss if you feel him but it is much nicer when you wait it out cause it adds a nice sort of electricity to the time you guys are together. I like the feeling of touching his hand for the first time...sigz:::

[KissMe2408]

I always thought it wasn't good to kiss on the first date. 3rd date was more appropriate....Call me crazy, but i like it best when the guy doesn't kiss you for like 6 months into the relationship and waits for the perfect time and moment, and you both KNOW you care about each other and then the moment is special
So on the first date...i mean you don't know anything about each other.

[cfaye3char]

depends on how the date goes....if I like him or not....I don't kiss on the first date to much I am too busy talking trying to get to know them....the guys don't seem to mind it....too bad if they do they can wait

[Joss-eh-lime]

its depends on you AND him cuz some guys arent even ready. i probably wouldnt just to make him wait.

[5ayuri]

I think it depends.
You don't want to kiss a guy that you didn't like at all (well I would't)

[xheartbroken_chi...]

I have done it.

[ecargnmyst]

well if u just met the guy and decided to go out on a first date..get to know him better before the kiss...but if its a guy uve been crushing on since forever and u two are finally going out..i guess youd know him well enough by that first date and wuold be dyyinng to kiss him before even teh first date..loll

[steezahh]

depends i WOULD tho! hehe...thats just me...

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Yes.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

I put yes.
Obviously you must have liked the guy to either agree or ask him on a date, so just a little kiss wont matter.
If its like making out then that i guess would depend on the date and how it went or whatnot.

[Endless_Love ...]

it depends, but its not like its wrong. it just depends on how ur feeling about each other

[*stephinika*]

^^
thats what i think too. it really depends i guess.

[Bridget_rules_4e...]

if u want to play hard to get i guess kissing on the first date would be no.

[NgocQuyen]

i'd say it really depends on whether you're feeling the "connection"

[ktsou11]

agree with everyone else. it really depends. sometimes you want to, sometimes you dont.

[Soleil]

It all depends if your comfortable or not

[upf147]

it depends, depends on how well you know each other and if you really want to. i know me and my girlfriend kissed on our first date after we first started going out but thats because we had known each other for a long time so we knew each other pretty well and we reallllly liked each other for a long time, so it just came along naturally. but if you just like met the guy or dont really know him, i say ehh...no, even if you just like him based on the date, is that really enough to want to kiss him? How do you know hes not playing nice guy to try and get in your pants, believe me, i have a lot of a**hole buddies like that and many will do that to you.

[grab-it]

i think its ok.
but someone else might not.
it really depends on the person and who they are with and if they really like them.. just like everyone else is saying.

[FoxBandCutie08]

I think its ok, but it all depends on how the date's going and how logn you've known each other, blah blah blah.

[Smoogrish]

It really depends how well you know the guy and how comfortable you feel. Different people have different comfort levels.

[PrincessAda]

Yes.

I`ve done it before.

[xFaith]

Yes, its ok. If you want to kiss him... why not? Life's short.

[miss-_-guitar]

ya if u want to and he wants to. ive kissed guys who ive never gone out with. but i have problems. my first kiss was with an older guy who did drugs outside my religion class. and i never kissed my first real bf.

[*xcaitlinx*]

i think it all depends on the person. i mean, i've never been on an actual DATE persay..so i can't really tell you from personal experience. i think that if you're on a date with someone that you've known for a while, then it's fine to kiss him on the first date. if it's a blind date and you've never met the person before, then i wouldn't kiss them.

[loveneko]

i say it is but some of my friends say its wrong. what do u think. if u picked it depends what does it depend on?
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I think that if the date is going really really well, and personally for me. If my date steals a kiss on the first date then its okay. If he askes for one then its okay, sometimes. But other than that if the date only went okay, then there is no kiss. If it was horrible but we enjoyed ourselves, no kiss. Maybe a little smuche on the cheek.

[iheartsimba]

I think it's fine on the first date. I don't know about anything more..because they guy could just be a jerk..and only in it for one thing..But I think it's smarter to save it for later, so you can be sure the guy isn't just in it for the wrong reasons. ?

[AnnahhbeL]

i would sya no.
because if he really cares, he'll listen to your side of the story.

[flc]

Yeah. I think a kiss is harmless. It just shows that there is potential for this relationship.

That's just me talking.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

It depends, I think a kiss on the cheek for a nice goodbye is sweet. But making out by the first day is OD.

[mznikki]

i picked depends. becuase to me it depends on the person, how the date was, the connection you had, if you actually feel that its right and not having the feeling of being pressured into kissing, and how long you've known the person.

[-sincerely]

depends on how well the date went.

[Serendipity]

I'd say it depends on how long you know the person - and whether you trust him/her or not.

[femmefatale4160]

I said it depends. If you really like the guy and if you feel a connection, then it's fine. But just an innocent kiss. If you slam him up against a wall and shove your tongue down his throat, that's a bit much.

[Synthetic.Love]

There's no right or wrong answer to this question. You just do what you feel's right.

[Stefanny]

If you feel comfortable around the person & you're old enough to kiss then yeah, it's okay.

[SimplicityGirl]

Depends. With a total stranger heck no. But as for me and my bf...

We were close friend before we got together officially. We spent a LOT of time alone before we were together...so in a way it already felt like we were "dating". So when I asked him out...we kissed and it felt right.

It really depends on the situation/how well you know the person/how "right" or "comfortable" you feel with the person.

[lovescream]

depeeeeends.
and pretty much everyone else explained why.

[timeflies51]

The question was whether it is OKAY to kiss on the first date, so I say yes.

That doesn't mean you HAVE to.

A goodnight peck on the cheek or lips is fine on the first date.

[*Infinite.*]

Depends, if you both have known each other for a while. Perhaps a yes, but if you just met, then I would lean more towards a no. Easpecially if there was a high chance of a second date

[miss kate x33]

it depends on a lot of things..

like the mood you are in.. if you know your ready.. if you think hes ready.. ect.. pretty much what everyone else said

[*a painefull euphoria*]

a sweet kiss is ok nothing hard core or ill think the guy is a crazed sex fiend

[Intercourselyts]

I voted no, I personally think if you kiss on the first date your kind of giving yourself away a little to fast.

[voguelove]

hmm..its fine.

if you really like him or something. but dont do it just because he leans in first.

[*x1227x*]

It depends. Do you really like him? Does he like you? I voted "It depends."

[multifaceted]

on the lips: i don't think so unless you guys really like each other and start dating
on the cheek: yes
on the hand: yes (for a guy)

[ldyxluvable]

depends

[michellerrific]

depends, unless it's those 'goodbye' kisses or something.

[bob_shmob]

It depends how much I like the person I guess!

[verycoolclips]

I put no but it depends on how old you are I mean like if u are only 16 or 17 it basically isn't okay but if u are past the slut stage and older it might be okay.

[megggnasty]

it depends.
i'd say it's wrong to kiss on the first date if you're doing it just for the sake of getting it over with.
but if you're in the moment and it feels right, go for it. c:

[troublemaker36]

of course its okay. its just kissing..to me its not any more personal than hugging.
but i dunno if you like the guy then go for it..if not then dont. no biggy..