i need advise, should i still talk to them |
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 Aug 1 2005, 12:56 PM
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ok this guy i liked for yrs i mean i fell in love woth him well he led me on and told me he liked me and that he loved me all this stuff. we never went out b/c he said he wasnt ready for a relationship. turns out he had a girlfriend for about a yr and a half. i let that go. then he went out with my best friend. the way i found out was they were making out with each other in front of me on our psot prom trip. now he felt the need to tell me that he was taking her to prom but not that he wanted to date her. well we all get in this big arguement and soon she stopped talking to me even after i forgave her for going out with him and i still wanted to be their friends being the kind hearted person i am. well i havent talked to either of them in like two months then out of the blue the guys best friend calls me and tells me i need to call the guy and make sure hi is ok. turns out him and the girl broke up and hes in love with her. so we get to talking again and come to some agreements and all that. then about two weeks later she calls me and i try to figure out why she stopped calling me after i kindly didnt kick her arse after what she did and she cant give me straight answer.
what i need help with is should i continue to talk to him and should i patch things up btwn me and her. i still love him and he did make it a point to apoligize to me but she is just a... well lets just day she barks. this is them at prom [attachment=12369:attachment] |
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Aug 1 2005, 01:04 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
You seem older, old enough to know this is silly and childish.
God. I'm going to copyright this phrase. COMMUNICATION, SING IT WITH ME Patch things up. Group hug. No more of this. |
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Aug 1 2005, 01:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
this is called a love triangle... and usually love triangles dont work out right... all im telling you is to get yourself out of this love triangle.. its obvious that this dude can decide which girl he want to be with b/c it sounds like hes giving you them mixed signals... you could talk to him, but knowing what will happen, its best to move on... [thats what happened to me]
lmao^^^^ ["COMMUNITCATION, SING IT WITH ME"] |
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Aug 1 2005, 01:23 PM
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Explorer Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,034 |
ok i have talked to him and we r just gonna be friends but i tried talkin to her seeing as how she was my best friend and it didnt go well. and as for moving on i tried but like i said two months later they popped up. what makes it worse is shes going to college in two weeks and hes going in a month. they r leaving state im staying here for school.
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