mi boyfriend's friends doesnt trust me...., and now his mom doesnt trust me either.. |
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 Jul 24 2005, 04:58 PM
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i have a problem... mi boifriend's friends doesnt trust me...just because i hang out wit guys alot...but i dont like mi guyfriends like dat...i like mi boifriend more... but mi boyfriend's friends kept on telln bad lies and crap about me to his parents..and now his parents doesnt trust me nemore... and idk wat to do..and so does mi boyfriend...wat am i goin to do?
plz and thank yoo! ^^ |
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Jul 24 2005, 05:04 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
your bf don't trust you anymore? then it's probably gonna go downhill. you gotta make him understand that he's the only one you're interested in. and his friends are assholes for making up lies. so just make sure he knows you won't stray.
oh and i notice that this happens a lot with pretty girls..the boys just kinda swarm.. |
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Jul 24 2005, 05:40 PM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Wait your boyfriend believes all the stuff that his friends said about you? Well have you told him YOUR side of the story? If he doesn't bother listening to you then just dump him, it's not worth it.
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Jul 24 2005, 06:02 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(xldubaliciousx @ Jul 24 2005, 2:40 PM) Wait your boyfriend believes all the stuff that his friends said about you? Well have you told him YOUR side of the story? If he doesn't bother listening to you then just dump him, it's not worth it.  i agree  if you really like him, tell him to not listen to them. if not, it's not worth it
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Jul 24 2005, 06:52 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
COMMUNICATION
Talk with your boyfriend. Let him hear your 2 cents. Frankly, you're getting the chopping block side of this. p.s. My is spelt m-y not m-i. |
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Jul 24 2005, 06:54 PM
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srry..i meant mi bf does trust me...but...he also doesnt knoe wat to do as i am too...cuz his friends and parents doesnt trust me... so i onno wat to do...
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Jul 24 2005, 06:58 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Gain their trust. Become an Angel. If you seriously want to stay with him, you would figure something out. But if you dont, then, frankly, what use is it then? It depends if you wanna be with him.
If you do- Become an angel. Do nicer things. Don't do things parents would frown upon. If you dont- *sigh* Break up. I suppose. |
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Jul 24 2005, 07:20 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Read Maugham's story The Judgement Seat. It provides a good answer to problems like this.
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Jul 25 2005, 01:25 AM
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Talk to your boyfriend and express how you feel more for him than your guy friends. If he can't accept the fact that you like hanging out with both him and your guyfriends, it might be time to start looking for a new boyfriend.
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Jul 25 2005, 01:26 AM
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Talk to your boyfriend and express how you feel more for him than your guy friends. If he can't accept the fact that you like hanging out with both him and your guyfriends, it might be time to start looking for a new boyfriend.
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Jul 25 2005, 09:42 PM
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maybe theres a good reason why HIS FRIENDS and HIS MOM dont trust you...
so maybe you should lay off your other guy friends for a while and start earning their trust if you like your boyfriend so much. |
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Jul 25 2005, 09:47 PM
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QUOTE(xldubaliciousx @ Jul 24 2005, 6:40 PM) Wait your boyfriend believes all the stuff that his friends said about you? Well have you told him YOUR side of the story? If he doesn't bother listening to you then just dump him, it's not worth it. Yes, I agree. Trust is important in a relationship, and if he's easily persuaded by rumors, it's not worth it. |
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