my parents, ..divorce Options

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

I know that many kids have had their parents get a divorce...but right now I'm crying & it's because my Dad cheated on my Mom...& the woman he had sex with is now pregnant & I have a half brother or sister on the way!!... ..& I don't know what to do..I'm trembling..I mean this isn't even the worst part of my life...but I don't know what to do...& I jusst wannt some comfort by people on CB who understand what I'm going through or have some words of encouragement to say... ...Thank you!!..

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

ooh im sorry.

thats not good. just try your best to keep your head up. be strong. and try to be nice to your new half-sibling. dont make them feel guilt or anything for being borned. i know some kids who did that and their half-sibling is full of hate and whatnot cos they have the thought they were a mistake and not wanted and thangs

its probably going to be a hard time for a while. but feel free to pm me ANY time you need anything. i may not know exactly what to say but most of the time i assure you i will have words of comfort and an ear to listen and a shouler to cry on.

[*anubis*]

man. i am SO sorry that had to happen.

when i was 8, my parents fought violently every single night---and basically tried to kill each other--for real. and it was pretty scary for me and my sister.

but, 3 year later, they finally got divorced when i was 11. i was very sad about it---because i didn't want my family breaking up.

but then i realized---now (4 years later) that i am more than happy that this had happened.

they just weren't meant for each other. and now, instead of being forced to live together--my parents are each happy with their own lives. my mom got remarried and my dad is happy the way he is.

and--although i can't imagine going through the whle affair thing--and getting another woman pregnant, i can at least try and relate a little.

just... what your dad did... was just SO LOW..

how could he do that?

especially when he had a wife and kid(s) at home?!

...the world these days.

i'm very very sorry. i hope things are getting better.

i know they will get better.

[ShinHwaFreaK08]

yeahs. all this happening puts you in a bad situation. what your dad did wasn`t right .. but then again, what is right and wrong ? people make bad decisions .. mistakes. but things happen for a reason and there`s nothing you can do about it. it might take some getting use to, but i know that in time, you`ll realise that what happened is for the best. you may not think so now, but .. it`s life. you only have one, so try and make the best of it. have fun .. try to get your mind off of it. it`s hard, yes. but, what doesn`t kill you will only make you stronger .. feel better. can`t let things other people do bring you down.

- Christine

[teeners4]

yea i went through that. and i have a half-sibling too due to err cheating. and well be nice to your half-sibling. and well yea... i dont know what to say really. just accept it as it comes, even though sometimes you wanna break down.... i mean yea your and my dad made a bad decision, but now what? sure you can hate him and loathe him and never talk to him again but what will that accomplish? yea... just accept it as it comes. dont be mean to the baby, cause well yea. not good.

[dahding]

life blows doesn't it. what's past is past, so just deal with what's left.

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

man. i am SO sorry that had to happen.

when i was 8, my parents fought violently every single night---and basically tried to kill each other--for real. and it was pretty scary for me and my sister.

but, 3 year later, they finally got divorced when i was 11. i was very sad about it---because i didn't want my family breaking up.

but then i realized---now (4 years later) that i am more than happy that this had happened.

they just weren't meant for each other. and now, instead of being forced to live together--my parents are each happy with their own lives. my mom got remarried and my dad is happy the way he is.

and--although i can't imagine going through the whle affair thing--and getting another woman pregnant, i can at least try and relate a little.

just... what your dad did... was just SO LOW..

how could he do that?

especially when he had a wife and kid(s) at home?!

...the world these days.

i'm very very sorry. i hope things are getting better.

i know they will get better. 

my parents are just like that. they fight every night and they really shouldn't be together but tehy say they stay together because it's asian or some bs like that and it's been going on for a long time. my brother ( the oldest) is 21 and its just been that long. they argue every freaking night and one of them always leaves and i feel like i have to attempt to mold things back to gether no matter how easy it would be just to let my dad walk out on us because he's what screwing everyone up because he starts with us. anyway, things might be better that this happened. things happen for a reason and maybe it's just something thats gonna end up being valuble to u in the future =) oh and personally, try not to be mean to your half bro/sis cause it really isn't their fault and don't hate them because of what he/she is a product of...just think positive =)

[aera]

my parents are just like that. they fight every night and they really shouldn't be together but tehy say they stay together because it's asian or some bs like that and it's been going on for a long time. my brother ( the oldest) is 21 and its just been that long. they argue every freaking night and one of them always leaves and i feel like i have to attempt to mold things back to gether no matter how easy it would be just to let my dad walk out on us because he's what screwing everyone up because he starts with us. anyway, things might be better that this happened. things happen for a reason and maybe it's just something thats gonna end up being valuble to u in the future =) oh and personally, try not to be mean to your half bro/sis cause it really isn't their fault and don't hate them because of what he/she is a product of...just think positive =)

same here. i know my parents want to divorce and they both have thought about it several times. but my mom says they're [or maybe just her] to get divorced when i'm in college.

i can't believe your dad would go that far. it would be okay if they just divorced because they knew that they couldn't live together, but having an affair? maybe he wanted more but having an affair... it's stupid. i hope you'll feel better soon, maybe with the arrival of your half sibling.

[demolished]

whoah whoah, having a new child with another women while he already have a family. That's sick.

Anyways, you'll feel better after the fight is over. You wouldnt hear anymore of those nonsense between your parents. you can sleep much better after a couple of days after this topic. good luck.

[triggerX]

o gosh >_<;; sorry to hear that!

my parents got divorced too ._.;; it was acctually because my dad liked another woman and starting to dislike my mom ALOT =__= like they fight EVERYDAY and you get the rest xD;; and after they got a divorce my dad got married to that woman ._.;; but that happend when i was like 7, xD;; so im kinda over it now~

but i guess theres nothing you could do~~other than knowing that they're still your parents no matter what ._.;; its kinda unfair when you think about it, how a mistake made by your parents made you suffer more than them ? >_<;; but yeah~ dont worry. you'll get through it ^__^ just make sure your mom is ok ._.;;

[sheddingtears]

damn, im sorry to hear that.

you can cry, but dont keep the sadness inside you forever.

things change, and these things always happen in life.
just don't hold on, keep living your life and try to make the best of it.
life goes on.

[shortiiex]

i am sorry....but i think my parents are going to get a divorce too
but for a different reason..my dad is risking his marriage for business....bunch of lies and other stuff..yesterday he threw a chair at this glass display...broke guessing $1000 less or more of stuff