Guys can be so confusing..help Options

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

I'm so confused right now about guy's it's unbelievable.

There's this one guy who I happen to work with, and he's adorable. And he talk's to me a lot, like whenever he can. And i got the feeling that he liked me you know, because he would tend to flirt, and still does sometimes... then the other day i went to a party and one of the guy's who went to my school this past year transferred to his school, so i asked if he had a gf. And the guy said he did at the begining of the year but has no idea if he does...now. So I have no idea, I dont understand why he wouldent mention her you know while we were talking. Then yesterday we were talking about cell phone's and he showed me his..and his background was set as this girl, because he said it was a picture phone so im assuming, it's his girlfriend but never asked...i was just hurt so i handed it back to him.

Then there's another kid. Nick, he's my age...but goes to a school close by but..not as close as the one i work with. And he dosnt drive so i can only see him when his friend john come's up. Which latly isnt very often... but nick like's me and i told john like 4 weekend's ago that i liked him...he was surprised but now..I like brady, the one i work with. So what do u think i should all do...focus on the one i work with although he might have a gf, im not sure yet. Or Nick...although i might not be seeing him for a while.

Also if you been reading my past entry's... about my x bf..he's comming back the end of this month. And im so scared to see him....

Thank's for reading this, and all your advice help's. I really look foward to reading it. <333 Thanks u guy's.

[*anubis*]

the guy you work with obviously already has a girlfriend, so if you wanted to stick with him, it'd just be endless flirting that never really meant anything because he's already taken.

if you already have a boyfriend, why would you go out and start being interested in other guys?

and besides, why don't you just stick with nick (that is if you don't have a boyfriend) because he's already said he likes you---so it's mutual.

[aera]

you shouldnt be hurt that he had his girlfriend as his background. after all, he never said he liked you. and since you dont like nick anymore and the one that you like is taken, i think you should give up unless brady breaks up with his girlfriend.

shouldnt this be in relationships?

[Fallen Fairy]

I hate it when that happens.
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fallen fairy

[sheddingtears]

find out if the guy you work with has a gf, and if he doesnt, then i say stick with him. if he does, go with nick.

[blah_28]

Hey,

I have a problem, please help! Well there's this guy i like, and we hooked up a few times over the summer holidays but when we got back to school he didn't talk to me and i didn't talk to him. If i said something he would reply but seemed really shy or something. But then out of the blue a few weeks ago he texts me saying all this flirtatious type of stuff, and two weeks after that we hook up again, but again.. he wont really talk to me at school and i wont either. I'm too shy, but is he just ignoring me? he only really talks to me at parties when he's drunk! Plus he has a girlfriend, BUT he still cheated on her with me a few weekends ago. He said he like her... I'm confused! I really like him, but does he even notice me?

help fast!