Should I be mad?, my part... Options

[mouse_3k]

Ok, well my bf went to Florida for 2 weeks. Hes been there for a week in a half now. And since he went to Flordia, He always told me he would call me when he gets back from the hotel from goin to downtown disney or w/e.

Well, each night he would call me at 12:30am or later (Which means he gets home LATE)...Im the jealous/worry type gf so when he calls later then 11pm then I get mad. I dont like him goin out, in a different state, for that long...and I have been cheated on before so thats always on my mind but I know he wouldnt do it..I trust me but not the girls.

now should I be mad or just let him have fun and do w/e he is doin.......?

[pinayprincess]

hey if you really like your boyfriend, you would atleast trust him.. sheesh, that the point of a relationship [in my words] trust&honest[&love] but in this case, since hes in another state, dont get mad just b/c hes calling last, chill out hes on vacation right? atleast hes calling you... my ex bf did the same thing, but he did call me everynight and we talked alot, in the end i realized that i really missed him... thats what YOU are going through right now.. you just miss him, thats all

[yukichan]

Hmm..I understand that u have been cheated on like that before..But he isnt the person who treated on you before, so I guess you should trust him more, and let him have fun..If you still feel worried then I guess you should talk to him and explain how you feel..

[dahding]

have a litte faith. yeah, it hurts to have been cheated on, and it does impair ur judgement and faith, but just hold on and trust him. after all, what's a relationship without any trust?

and he at least calls. let him have some fun, but if it really bothers u, ask why he comes home so late.

[sheepy]

you should trust him, but maybe you could tell him how you're feeling and maybe he'll tell you something reasonable?

[*mipadi*]

Let the boy have his fun, and have his space. Making him call at 11 PM won't keep him from cheating anyway, so until you know something solid, don't make assumptions.

It may have happened to you before, but remember that not all of us guys cheat on our girlfriends.

[xldubaliciousx]

Give him a chance. Just because you've been cheated on BEFORE doesn't mean he will too. Why are you taking your resenment towards your exes out on him? And I don't know about him staying out late.. Is he with family or..?

[*anubis*]

aww... quit giving him such a hard time about it.

if he doesn't have time until 12:30am, then it's not his fault.

don't you want him to have fun? if you keep him on such a short leash, he's gonna start to get annoyed pretty soon.

just don't bitch about it, be glad he's not cheating on you, and let the boy have his fun.

besides, you could always punish him for being bad when he's back

[technicolour]

Alright. Not going to sound like a bitch, but, COMMUNICATION. Talk to him about your fears, your worries..whatever's bugging you. It'll letcha learn more about him too...

[emaleth]

i agree with what most people have said.
keeping him on a short leash will actually make things worse...he'll feel suffocated in the relationship and turn to other things. the issue about not trusting other girls isn't really an excuse. maybe girls will try to make a move on him (or i don't know what else you're worried about) but if you trust HIM he will not let anything happen...cheating involves TWO people. i wouldn't get mad at him for calling you later than what you expect him too..he is on vacation afterall and i think he should be allowed to have fun without always having that "chore" of making sure he calls in time...maybe he can text msg you if he plans to stay out late?

[elmogurly]

remember: he's on vacation. at least he calls you! that's a good thing!

[aera]

i wouldnt worry too much about it. maybe he's crazy like my brother and his friends, who go out at 11pm to eat and walk around... or maybe he's clubbing .. my point is, dont worry about it. if hes interupting your sleep, tell him to call earlier.

[F4lling]

maybe the time zones are different..

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^ yeah the time zones. it might be only like 9 where he is. which is actually prettty early

i dont think you should be mad. you dont know if hes cheating. if you accuse him things could get bad. let him have fun. if you know he wouldnt, you shouldnt worry. seems you have a good trustworthy boyfriend.

[*incoherent*]

just trust him. he's on vacation which means theres really no "certain curfew". i mean let him live it up while hes there, beside making out and having sex. i mean, after all its VACATION.