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 Jul 19 2005, 12:37 PM
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 between your smiles and regrets  Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,217  |
i like this boy and he likes me. but my friends likes him, but he says he has nothing in common with her. what should i do? i`m afraid if my friend will get mad at me
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Jul 19 2005, 12:40 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
oh em gee.
comˇmuˇniˇcaˇtion Talk to your friend. Talk to this boy. Settle it and move on to your relationship or whatnot. I dont mean to sound like a bitch but seriously, what other option do you have? I'm serious. I'm going to write a whole thread about communication and how to use it. |
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Jul 19 2005, 12:47 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
^ yeah. just talk to each of them about it. if you & the boy like each other, than you should go out. your friend shouldn't have a say just because she likes him. the boy even said that they didn't have anythig in common.
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Jul 19 2005, 12:48 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 19 2005, 11:40 AM) oh em gee. comˇmuˇniˇcaˇtion Talk to your friend. Talk to this boy. Settle it and move on to your relationship or whatnot. I dont mean to sound like a bitch but seriously, what other option do you have? I'm serious. I'm going to write a whole thread about communication and how to use it.  True that. Why would you ask people on the internet before considering the options and alternatives YOU think are right? Have you tried anything already? Talk to your friend; talk to this boy. Settle things and move on. |
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Jul 19 2005, 01:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
WOAH im going through that!
except...i havent talked to the girl yet.... cause well its complicated. but we're gonna tell her later on . we're kinda dating now but its not official until we tell her... =) plus..you and the guy like each other, it just so happens your friend likes him too. but he doesnt like your friend right? its not like they dated before so go for him~ 
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Jul 19 2005, 02:11 PM
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 My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
no matter what, no lies. that is all i have to say.
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Jul 19 2005, 02:16 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Who gives a f**k about what your friends think?
GET WITH THE GUY IF YOU LIKE HIM. If they mess with your relationships, they're not even good friends. |
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Jul 19 2005, 02:18 PM
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QUOTE(maia_dc @ Jul 19 2005, 1:16 PM) Who gives a f**k about what your friends think? GET WITH THE GUY IF YOU LIKE HIM. If they mess with your relationships, they're not even good friends. ...so much for loyalty.  isn't that what girls do? if both girls (best friends) like the same guy--neither of them can go out with him? |
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Jul 19 2005, 02:51 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Best friends talk. They dont piss eachother off. Sry maia, but i'm disagreeing with you.
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Jul 19 2005, 03:54 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
if u two like each other then go out. He dont like ur friend so she should be the one to get a different guy.
QUOTE Who gives a f**k about what your friends think? GET WITH THE GUY IF YOU LIKE HIM. If they mess with your relationships, they're not even good friends. somewhat agree. I mean if ur friend was ur friend, then she wouldnt get mad since u two like each other. she should be happy. |
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Jul 19 2005, 07:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
well dont mind your friend.. its kind of a battle who gets the guy.. in this case, you get him since he like you... but in the other hand, that would be totally mean ...
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Jul 19 2005, 08:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
just tell your friend that you really like this guy and you want her to be happy for them..and if she gets mad say you know i will do the same for you why can't you do it for me?
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Jul 19 2005, 09:04 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
well it's very interesting. see the friend could be like, if you're a good friend you wouldn't go out with him. but you could be like, if you're a good friend you'll let me go out with him.
think about how much you like this guy. is it worth it? i'm not sure. |
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Jul 20 2005, 06:28 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
talk to your friend. if hes like you and not her its not your fault. i think you should go out with him.
but get her okay first. even if shes not, tell her that he likes YOU and not her, so she shouldnt be mad at you for going out with someone who doesnt even like her. if she gets mad and huffy .. thats her problem. you shouldnt let it bother you or be with someone who could possible be really good for you. |
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| *incoherent* |
Jul 20 2005, 07:11 PM
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talk to your friend. if shes not understanding about it, you dont need her, youll have him.
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