confused wif life Options

[djduplicated]

dont know if this diserves da boys lockerroom or realtionships lockeroom or da loser hall....lately im juss been confused bout how lifes turning..im juss a normal guy im 15 highscool gonnabe sophmore i neva had a real gf, technically i never asked anyone out either, i neva kissed, (i dont wannt think to much of myself) but i mean im a really nice guy im not tooo shy im kinda spontaneous do crazy thing..get along wif ppl great.im talkative.itz juss da ppl i no and see have had gf/bf and have kissed i juss feel left out..dont no maybe im juss hella ugly! sigh but ppl i no always tell me dont think dat way look on da good side..right now to me der is no real good side..? im asking for help? opnion? maybe a plastic surgeon iono...

[angelrevelation]

i doubt you're ugly... lots of people don't really 'blossom' until later on in life. don't worry, you're still young. some people don't date till college anyway.

maybe you should build up the courage to ask a girl out. you never know until you try right? the girl will feel flattered, possibly go out with you, and see what a great guy you are, and be your gf, and all that good stuff good luck (btw don't just ask any random girl to be your gf just for the sake of having one)

[technicolour]

*sigh* You dont need a plastic surgeon to be beautiful or handsome, in your case.
I just turned 15, i've never been kissed, my last boyfriend was a slimy ass jerk who called me fat and his bitch. All of my friends have boyfriends, and they wonder why i stay home and dont go out with them. I am in the same situation though. You dont need a plastic surgeon, you need self esteem. And that you have to find inyourself. Not through a doc with a knife.

[*CrackedRearView*]

Hey man, don't worry about it. Relationships in high school are very overrated, and often times very heartbreaking.

Take it from me; I know.

[avalon*]

Don't worry about it. Maybe you're waiting so long now because you'll find someone awesome later on. Don't rush it

[supahstah_luv]

Hey man, don't worry about it.  Relationships in high school are very overrated, and often times very heartbreaking.

Take it from me; I know.

aww.. so true.
you're only 15, so no worries..
the most important thing is that you get along with everyone..
sometimes friendships are probablly a lot better than those relationships everyone talks about..
it can be even more confusing than your current life lol
you just keep smiling and joking...
one of these days your princess will come along
--
god. i sound like such a sentimental crackpot.. but whatevers. it's what i believe sooOOo i'm proud haha..

[elmogurly]

don't worry! everything will turn out. remember that we have to go through the tough times to appreciate the best times!

[emaleth]

you're only 15...
i sound cliche..but you DO have lots of time and potential still.

you still have to grow up and find out who you are..not be so caught up on having a gf or not.

no matter what; just be yourself...if you can't love yourself no one will.

[Chii]

i don't mean to be really rude but just get over it.

it doesn't matter if you're ugly or whatever, even ass ugly people can find someone, beauty within beats out beauty on the outside.

i know people who haven't even had their first real kiss and they're going to be 17 soon. don't worry about it so much, look at all of the people who have relationship problems in this forum, is all this stress what you really want?

[djduplicated]

goin on chii's question yes..i actually do i wanna feel stressedand crap itz all on "expierece" to learn more..dats why most ppl go out..we all no ur not gonna go out wif da furst person u date..but ppl go out for expierence to learn more bout da opposite sex right? and if u get into situations, u learn from dat expierence..which can help u if sumthing lyk dat happens again

[*mipadi*]

Here's what you gotta do, man: find some girl you like, and ask her to a movie. Who's going to turn down a movie, right? You don't have to "go out" with her long-term, you don't have to make her your girlfriend, just go on a date. Have a good time. Get your foot in the door. But the key is: ask. That's what it takes. You say you get along well with people, so no doubt some nice girl would love to spend an evening with you. Give it a shot. It sounds like all you need is a self-confidence booster, and if you just ask someone, you'll hit it off eventually, and you'll see that you're a great person with a lot of great attributes.

[djduplicated]

haha well movies is coo but lyk juss recently summer school i met this girl talk to her every once in awhile asked if she wanted to go get a drink..she said nah..i said my treat she said..nah itz to far..(IT WAS 2 BLOCKS)..i was lyk ill carry u.we laughed.. but yea in da end no

[*mipadi*]

Hey man, whenever you get shot down, just remember: even Jennifer Lopez got dumped by Ben Affleck.

[topsyturvy]

^ Hey, he's right.

[SMiLEEFORMEE]

give it some time and you'll probably find someone.

[SpedMonkee]

you sound exactly like i did a year ago. i was in the same situation. sophomore year was when everything turned around for me. thats when alot of things changed for me. i got my first girlfriend, my first kiss, my first feeling of loss and rejection.

what u did by askin that girl out was a good thing. you were rejected. rejection usually leads to better things. mainly you wont focus your time on people like her wondering what if's, when she would never go out with you in the first place.

after i broke up with my first girlfiend of 5 months, i felt crushed... like nothing was going for me, then everything turned around. i mean right now i have never been this outgoing or felt this confident in my life! heh, i even think im decently good looking now lol.

so just cheer up and dont think about it as much, things tend to work out for people like me and you.

[maia_dc]

This is the reason why you don't have a gf.
BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT CONFIDENT. I can't stress just how important confidence is.

Maybe it's nothing to do with your looks, but get some confidence. If you can't be confident about your looks, be confident about your personality. Be cocky. Give it a chance. You'll attract girls if you're confident, believe me.

[*anubis*]

look at it this way. you're lucky in a few cases.

i'd rather be in your situation than to have my heart broken so many times.

[*mipadi*]

look at it this way. you're lucky in a few cases.

i'd rather be in your situation than to have my heart broken so many times.

'Tis better to have loved and lost...

[heyyfrankie]

don't worry about. like justin said...high school relationships aren't THAT great. they are usually filled with drama & all of that stuff that is annoying. and you're not ugly.
and be patient...when you meet the perfect person, you will know. ;D

[Paradox of Life]

There's on point in having a relationship in highschool. A lot of relationships in highschool never make it to a successful marriage. If you find the one in college or past college, you're at the peak of your maturity and you've probably made the right choice. Don't worry about it. And who cares about girlfriends anyway? You should focus on your career, your schoolwork and other important things.

Don't waste money on going to a plastic surgeon. If they do make you look incredibly drop-dead gorgeous, do you know how many girls will like you only for your looks? And then you'll not have as many people that like you for who you are.

[*mipadi*]

There's on point in having a relationship in highschool. A lot of relationships in highschool never make it to a successful marriage.

Why do people feel that all relationships are supposed to end eventually in marriage? You should date because it's fun, not necessarily because it will ultimately result in marriage. Life isn't always about the goal; sometimes it's about the journey there.

[technicolour]

Why do people feel that all relationships are supposed to end eventually in marriage? You should date because it's fun, not necessarily because it will ultimately result in marriage. Life isn't always about the goal; sometimes it's about the journey there.

I was wondering the same thing. Gees. We're only kids. Marriage, that's like a thing you'd act out with little Barbie dolls.

[Shahin]

Why do people feel that all relationships are supposed to end eventually in marriage? You should date because it's fun, not necessarily because it will ultimately result in marriage. Life isn't always about the goal; sometimes it's about the journey there.

Exactly, relationships are purely for fun at this stage of life. Marriage ain't the goal.

[Blank-OuT]

Don't worry about it...I never had a real gf/first kiss either, but it's ok. I'm 16 gonna be a junior this Sept.

Just look at this time in ur life to be hangin out with ur friends instead of being occupied with a relationship...cuz once u're older, u won't be able to go hang out with ur friends anymore (ex: job, marriage, moving away). And havin fun with ur friends isn't something u'd wanna miss.

So for right now, have fun...save all the relationship crap for later on in life.

[pinayprincess]

aww poor baby... dont worry, your time will come =)

[sheddingtears]

dont feel rushed or pressured seeing lovers holding hands and stuff... its hard not to notice, but if youre patient... good things will come to you. im nearly 16, but i know i dont need a boy to make me happy. high school relationships, most of them are just flings. hang out with friends now and go out and have fun, dont worry about not being in a relationship. you dont need a plastic surgeon. its just a waste of money and you should be grateful for what God gave you. dont waste your time moping in front of the mirror about what you look like or relationships... build that confidence and if you really want a girl, go for it.

[yukichan]

Don't worry about it..My brother is in the same situation..
Wait for the right person..And don't give up easily..If you get rejected once, keep on trying..