kiss approach Options

[iamunderpaid]

okay, i want to kiss this girl now, but i dont know when or HOW i should do it...???

[SpedMonkee]

wait till you think the time is right, say u are both sitting there or something, then you slowly lean in a bit. and see how she reacts to that. you should lean in about 90% of the way and if she wants to kiss you back she will go the other 10%

or you could always ask her lol

[*mipadi*]

you should lean in about 90% of the way and if she wants to kiss you back she will go the other 10%

Someone's been watching Hitch.

[SpedMonkee]

[Hell-Rell]

get really close to her face and stare for some seconds then probably she'll get the message and set it off

[*anubis*]

wait for the right moment. or set a mood

maybe some barry white music... or not

and then it just... happens.

really hard to explain it. i can't really sa much because usually i'm not the one that makes the first move.

but it just...happens.

but there's ONE thing for sure that could work.

my ex-girlfriend brought me a box once around christmastime when it was snowing and she told me to remind her to have me open the box before she leaves.

so we spent a day playing in the snow, and when we got back, by the time we were alone, she told me to open the box.

and inside, was a little mistletoe. and she held it above our heads.

obvious enough?

and girls would find it romantic if you did that.

[maia_dc]

Just KISS her. Just do it, and don't think about it. I mean... as long as it's a kiss, it doesn't *have* to be romantic. This isn't a marriage proposal; it's a kiss.

[Shahin]

Grab the girl, say ''I've been wanting to do this since the second I asked you out'' and do the damn thing.

[elmogurly]

maybe some barry white music... or not 

haha. good advice!

[Bobblehead425]

hmmm i dunno. just "kiss the girl" lol like in the little mermaid!! haha how funny i am...not really.

[great pretender]

do that hitch thing or just just grab her...

if you want more specific approach anser this first & mayba i can help you w/ it...

what kind of kiss do you want to do??? what kind of girl do you want to kiss??? (i mean her culture??? like is he a conservative or not???)

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Just grab her and kiss her. Dont overcomplicate it. Dont let your hand wonder though....

[Latina Babii]

Just grab her and kiss her. Dont overcomplicate it. Dont let your hand wonder though....

Hand wandering may aoccure and then the kiss may end muhahaha. Good advice althoug she may a be a bit statrled if you just yank her, lol, tha'ts what one of my boyfriend's did, and I forgot to breath before and choke muhahaha talk about natural.

[teeners4]

haha do the mistletoe thing! give her a box and be like " i know its not christmas but..... i couldnt think of any other way to ask you..." haha then tell her to open the bo and kiss her

haha i dont know

[topsyturvy]

^ I agree, the mistletoe idea is sooo cute.

[technicolour]

Barry White? Ok That worked in Win a Date with Tad Hamilton but Hitch's advice still stands.

wait till you think the time is right, say u are both sitting there or something, then you slowly lean in a bit. and see how she reacts to that. you should lean in about 90% of the way and if she wants to kiss you back she will go the other 10%or you could always ask her lol

[heyyfrankie]

cliche = wait until the time is right. just like, look into her eyes and touch her face then go in for the kill! XD
^ i'm sure it will work, though! :)

good luck!

[silentxcries]

Someone's been watching Hitch.

haha yeah do the hitch thing..

[aznxdreamer]

^^ wow.. would definetly want a guy to do that to me. thats just hot.

[sheepy]

depends on what kind of approach you want. maybe when you guys are having a really good time, and getting silly and stuff, just lean in and kiss her. that'll be so romantic(:

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Or you can do the thing on Fresh Prince of Bel Aire.

You Say: "Finish the rhyme. Miss Me Miss Me, now you gotta _____"
She Says: "Kiss Me"
Then ya smack her one.

[its_annah]

^AHAHA.I remember that episode.
The mistletoe idea is cute. go for it.

[Azn_Angel13]

aww the mistletoe idea is so cute and sweet! i would want a guy to do that to me! aww! u can alwais ask her, but that's too obvious, or u can try doing some of the things everybody said. if u want to do something romantic like the whole mistletoe thing, then i think she would love it! good luck! and go for it!

[aera]

you should lean in about 90% of the way and if she wants to kiss you back she will go the other 10%

the problem is, if she doesnt, there'll be somone in her face and it'll be a little awkward. like what sheepy said, when you're having a good time with her, lift up her chin and kiss her [if youre taller than her, that is],

[lilliannnn]

My second kiss was under the mistletoe.. God, I love him.


Anyways, like everyone else said - Just go for it.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

just lean in a little, and kiss her on the cheek. if she doesnt beat you up/off or if she approves you can kiss her on the lips next i guess.

[*incoherent*]

you should lean in about 90% of the way and if she wants to kiss you back she will go the other 10%

the love doctor has seen hitch

my advice: just do what you feel is right.

[HoodieObsessed]

just lean in a little, and kiss her on the cheek. if she doesnt beat you up/off or if she approves you can kiss her on the lips next i guess.

That's good advice ---^

I don't really have much adivce because Iv'e never been kissed before but errr....how do I make this not spam

Well, I guess I'll just say that the hitch thing MIGHT work, but it is a bit awkward if this is like her first kiss and she DOESN'T lean in the rest of the way. then you're like standing there with your face stuck in hers haha. That would be funny

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Well I say let it come natural that's the best feeling!!...& ask her if she's ready..Have you talked about it with her?...I think if you know both of you guys are on the same level in the relationship I say go for it!!...I asked for my first kiss & I'm a girl..What can I say?!?!...I know what I want & how to get it...

[topsyturvy]

Well, I guess I'll just say that the hitch thing MIGHT work, but it is a bit awkward if this is like her first kiss and she DOESN'T lean in the rest of the way. then you're like standing there with your face stuck in hers    haha. That would be funny

You're right. I never thought about what would happen if it didn't work

[CrazayChristian]

Well, if it's after a date. Then she'll stall some how to stay outside. That's when you go.

If it's casual. Then do this:

Play with her hair. Just with one hand, kind of twirl her hair in your fingers and comment on it. Look at her lips, and if she continues to let you do this and even smiles. Then, she's ready to be kissed. If it's y'alls FIRST kiss, then yes, do the 90% thing. If not, then you kind of tease her a little bit, instead of actually kissing her, just brush your lips against hers and lean back. Continue talking, and then do it again, this time, hold it for about 3 seconds, and repeat. This will build up a tension inside her, and eventually, SHE will choose to kiss you all the way.

Same concept, just diffrent approach, don't rush, but don't wait.

[Paradox of Life]

^ Wow, you seem very 'kiss' educated.

Um, if you're not comfortable kissing her, you're not going to do it right. If you are comfortable, it should come naturally.

[CrazayChristian]

^hahahah, would you belive I have virgin lips?


Edit:this however, doesn't mean I haven't found ways to test this

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^ lol what do you test this on ?

&how do you know such a good kiss move w/ those virigin lips of yours lol ?

[WhiteLotus*]

Hold her close ( like you guys were huging) and softly place your lips on hers. It's that simple.

[gOODpIRATE]

Barry White? Ok That worked in Win a Date with Tad Hamilton but Hitch's advice still stands.

yep, the hitch advise seems more sinsible. i mean, i don't prefer the whole barry white thing (lol), but if a dude was about to kiss me, if he went 90% of the way, i would catch on and do the other 10%. but...i'm kinda shy though, he might have to go 95% for me.

[Frizzank]

I reeally like the wait until you know. Because if shes right, you will know. Just give her a hug, a really passionate one. Then look her in the eyes and you should be able to tell.

[EriaNight]

I reeally like the wait until you know. Because if shes right, you will know. Just give her a hug, a really passionate one. Then look her in the eyes and you should be able to tell.

That was really good advice---it's true--a lot of girls let guys know whether they want to be kissed or not by like the way the talk or their physical movements (blah forgot the term for it).

Haha my first kiss was like a peck and then the next time i saw my boyfriend (then) I told him "Martin, we have to do a real one this time" and he laughed and it was really cute.....and...okay...*shutting up*...my boyfriend now though is an AMAZING kisser....OMG *slaps self*

[REBELnDISGUISE]

okay, i want to kiss this girl now, but i dont know when or HOW i should do it...???

the way i do it is the kinda strange way...I offer the person gum...and transfer the one in my mouth into the other person. But I only do that when I'm sure the other person likes me.

[yupimchuck]

maybe like if you go somewhere. you can do the whole flirty thing and kiss her forehead. and if she doesnt back away then wait a while and then jus lean in for it i guess. shed get the idea.


HAHA or you could do it like that one crazy girl on "NEXT"
be like hey smell my nose.
and if they say what. say SMELLMYNOSE.
and then theyll lean in to smell your nose and kisss her!