i want her to like me Options

[urbz]

okay, i really like this girl and i really havent ever talked to her, she is the most popular student in school and i am just a normal student, i wear preppy clothes as usual and so does she, i mean preppy things are supposed to turn on girls... do girls like it when guys wear pink... i just want her to notice me sometime soon... how though???

[*anubis*]

dude.

why are you making like 324598761348756238745 topics???

[*Azarel*]

dude.
why are you making like 324598761348756238745 topics???

Guys that wear pink don't stand out. You know what you can do to get her to notice you though? Talk to her. Seriously. It works. :o

[xoxoxx]

dude.

why are you making like 324598761348756238745 topics???

he wants posts? or he's just bored.

anyways, since i dont want to spam. I think girls don't really care about clothes. well they do like you can't wear very dorky overalls or other crap. from experience, girls like guys who are funny, but don't make it look desperate. try to acquire her sn and chat to her online, then at school talk to her a bit, but not too much. make sure she goes to you and talks also, or else she will see that you like her. And if they find out, they will feel awkward with you and it will be almost impossible to build a relationship if she doesnt have feelings for you yet.

[elmogurly]

uh..try to talk to her and get to know her really well, then see how things go from there?

[Brianna_Bell]

Talk to her, it works.
Not trying to be rude, but I am the most popular 5th grade girl, and when a guy likes me he just starts to talk to me.


I only think that pink looks good on some guys.
Most of them I don't think b/c pink is more of a girls color then guys and it sometimes looks wierd when guys where pink.

[lost_destiny]

uh no, just confront her and say hi

[angelrevelation]

i thought you had a gf... if you DO, then break up with her if you don't like her anymore. the other girl is probably smart enough to know not to come between you and your gf. and do you always need so many ?'s...?

[Bobblehead425]

just try to be her friend.....if youre a great guy im sure she'll like you and i dont think you should wear pink....thats kinda poser-ish...

[*mipadi*]

just try to be her friend.....if youre a great guy im sure she'll like you

That's a really good idea. Guys who are friends with a girl they like traditionally have much success in going out with them.

[HoodieObsessed]

Guys that wear pink don't stand out. You know what you can do to get her to notice you though? Talk to her. Seriously. It works. :o

lol, so true.

I think guys that wear pink are kinda, ick.

I mean a few pink highlights fine, but a pure pink shirt? hmmm doesn't apeal to me

Talk to her, it works.
Not trying to be rude, but I am the most popular 5th grade girl, and when a guy likes me he just starts to talk to me.
I only think that pink looks good on some guys.
Most of them I don't think b/c pink is more of a girls color then guys and it sometimes looks wierd when guys where pink.

HEY! did you steal my avatar?!

lmao, I made it myself (by that I mean I got a picture of the paul frank logo off google images and adjusted it's size and added a border) hahhaha. That really freaked me out when I saw that, I though I had posted that I'm like "wtf, how could I write that? I wasn't even in school in grade five!" ahhahaha.

[baby-girl2987]

he wants posts? or he's just bored.

anyways, since i dont want to spam. I think girls don't really care about clothes. well they do like you can't wear very dorky overalls or other crap. from experience, girls like guys who are funny, but don't make it look desperate. try to acquire her sn and chat to her online, then at school talk to her a bit, but not too much. make sure she goes to you and talks also, or else she will see that you like her. And if they find out, they will feel awkward with you and it will be almost impossible to build a relationship if she doesnt have feelings for you yet.

i don look at a guys clothes like that i mean guys have there own style and i do to and thats what i like so if u want her to notice u go and talk to her and if u want her to like u be urself.

also dont play games like this guy is telling u. if we find out wich we almost always do we might not like taht u were trying to hide things from us like how u feel about us just to try and wiesle ur way in.

[technicolour]

com·mu·ni·ca·tion

Geesus people. Is it REALLY that hard?

[pinayprincess]

com·mu·ni·ca·tion 

Geesus people. Is it REALLY that hard?

lmao... dude is it that hard to make somebody like you? ... sheesh you cant just sit back and watch "the magic" appeare, you gotta do something for yourself, like go up to the person and ACTUALLY talk.. get to know her, flirt with her a little [not too soon though]

[maia_dc]

Whaaaaaaaaat? What is with all this labelling?
You're obviously never gonna be a couple.

If she wasn't popular and preppy... would you still like her?
...as far as I can tell that's all that seems to attract you.

[mai_z]

Well, DON'T treat her like she's the popular preppy girl you seem to think she is. Talk to her and make her like you for who you are, no one likes a fake. Oh and a question, if she was a 'normal' student like you....... would you still like her? because it doesn't sound like it

[dahding]

god, don't use stereotypical terms. maybe that'll help.

and talk to her. jeez, grow a pair of balls already.

[Latina Babii]

com·mu·ni·ca·tion 

Geesus people. Is it REALLY that hard?

In fact yes, have you EVER gone up top a guy and asked him out without the fear of rejection?

[heyyfrankie]

i mean preppy things are supposed to turn on girls...

that is one of the stupidest things i have ever heard!!! lmao

[technicolour]

In fact yes, have you EVER gone up top a guy and asked him out without the fear of rejection?

If you were talking to me, actually i would only do it when i've known the guy for a long time and i can get a general idea about what he is/acts/etc etc etc. Plus, they usually ask me out..not me asking them


Preppy things turn people, especially girls, off these days. My god.

[mouse_3k]

you cant make anyone like you....

[Pineapplepower]

[QUOTE]Guys that wear pink don't stand out. You know what you can do to get her to notice you though? Talk to her. Seriously. It works. :o

She is right. Guys that wear pink don't stand out and and it's kinda creepy in a way, but thats up to you. Try talking to her and get to know her. If it is just a physial apperance then really talk to her before you decide to like her or not.

[shortiiex]

just talk to her....changing the way you look is just wrong...looks are everything..share interests with her...then if she likes you..then you start plaing hard-to-get

[yukichan]

If she wasn't popular and preppy... would you still like her?
...as far as I can tell that's all that seems to attract you.

good point..
and whatever u do, do not wear pink..Pink doesnt match every boy...

If you want to get her attention, talk to her, drop some hints that u like her, be her friend..

Oh and you can't make her like you, like mouse_3k said..

[sheepy]

yo, i just replied to one of your topics and you had a gf of 2 months --;
first off, you cant make someone like you.
second off, so what if you wear preppy..? if she'll fall for you cause you wear preppy clothes that's pretty shallow.

[lbjshaq2345]

[quote=Pineapplepower,Jul 19 2005, 6:41 PM]
[QUOTE]Guys that wear pink don't stand out. You know what you can do to get her to notice you though? Talk to her. Seriously. It works. :o

She is right. Guys that wear pink don't stand out and and it's kinda creepy in a way, but thats up to you. Try talking to her and get to know her. If it is just a physial apperance then really talk to her before you decide to like her or not.

[/quote]

lol you forgot to end ur quote but yeah anyway back to the topic like everybody else said jus go up and talk to her like a normal person dont be shy or timid or nervous girls can smell fear lol but really she'll think ur jus a P**sy (which you might be i dont no)

[chaoticchrissy]

hmm i think guys that wear pink are sexy. but thats just what i think
ya like almost everyones sayn` just talk to her.

[aera]

say something funny to her in class or something and she'll remember you. and she'll make an effort to talk to you more is she thinks youre funny. thats how my best guy friend became my best guy friend.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

how about you try talking to her instead of wearing a pink shirt.
dont you already have a girlfriend though ? [referring to that topic where you posted you had a gf of 2 months]

[*incoherent*]

just talk to her. dont try to dress all "preppy". its overrated.

[audiodemon]

Quick tip: Don't give her a motherboard for her birthday.

[*mipadi*]

Rule of thumb: if she doesn't like a motherboard as a gift, she's not worth going out with.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Well I say if you can pull the color pink off then that's hott..she should notice you!!!...& if she's the most prettiest girl in your school be confident about being the hottest guy in your skool & get her to notice you!!...cause confidence is the sexxiest partner a guy could have!!..

& if your a hott normal guy that's a plus..

[CrazayChristian]

I already wrote a long speech about "How to get girls to notice you"

Here is a cut from it that I think might be all you really need:

You need to have her attention, make yourself linger in her mind. Lets think of it this way:

Someone walks up to you, and says "Buy this, it's good!". Now, lets pretend you never heard the word good before, and you buy it.
Now, imagine after time, more people say "Buy this it's good!". At this rate, "good" has lost its meaning, and you're bored with "good". Sure, you might buy it if it looks interesting, has value, or you've heard good things about it. But, you're simply not going to buy evertime someone says "good" to you.

Now, imagine someone walks up to you and says " Buy this...you know..nevermind." You might turn around and say "Why aren't you selling me anything?" They respond "You don't seem very qualified for this product." Noone has ever said this to you! You aren't very happy, but you feel you should be given the chance, like you're power is beign challenged. So, the salesman asks you for a number, maybe you can call when you feel qualified.
Now, this guy has stood out to you, he challenged you, and you feel the need to meet this challenge. You call him, and decide to buy this product. It may not be as good as the other flashy products. But it makes you happy that you mastered something.

Let's take a look at what happend:
Product=relationship
You=Girl
Salesman=guys
"Buy this is good"=Adverage "W-will you go out with me?"
"You don't seem qualified"= Unique "I can take you or leave you, so take me before you miss your chance."

As you can see, something stands out here. Girls don't want you to be boring and adverage. It seems LOGICAL to put them on a pedestal, but ulitimatly it will land you in the "friends zone"

When you do adverage, you do the old "I'm not sure of myself, I like to beat around the bush, avoid problems, and wait on you hand and foot." And, this might work for a while. But, it eventually wears out. It becomes BORING AND PREDICTABLE. Just like you expecting everyone to say "buy this it's good".
You also can't do other versions like "But this, you'll like it"ect. You just can't make variations up.

If you do the old "I need you, and I'll wait forever for you" routine. Guess what? You'll wait...and wait...and WAIT. WHY? Because, she know's you'll always be there. You'll always obey like a good dog, and you'll always listen. You aren't relationship material anymore. You're a "friend" that will "always be there", and she doesn't need to pay any special attention, because you gave her so much slack that now, she's holding the leash.

Here is the whole thing.

You just need to do things other guys don't. Make her feel good the way other guys don't. Simple as that ^_-(pfft right)

Edit: and since this is taken out of context. I want to add, that this does NOT mean, be an ass to stand out. It just means Don't do the "3 Too's":

Too fast
Too much
Too soon

Too fast: You go from "Hi" To "I love you" In days

Too much:You spill your heart out with all the love you have.

Too soon: You do the above, WAY too soon, and ultimatly you lost 85% of you're chance.

[*mipadi*]

All that can be summed up in two standard pieces of advice:

1. Be confident.
2. Be yourself.

They go hand in hand. Before you can get anyone, you have to know yourself, and be happy with who you are. Then just gather up your confidence. If you're happy with yourself, then you'll be confident, and people will naturally take a liking to you.

Sure, it might not work out with young woman, because maybe the two of you just aren't compatible. But if you are compatible, then just talk to her and be yourself, and be confident in who you are. It'll work wonders.

The key to any relationship is being comfortable with yourself and with the situation. If you are comfortable with the situation, you will always know what to do. It's hard to give advice for this sort of thing, because all situations are different, and all people are different. You need to know who you are, who she is, and how best to handle the situation; if you're comfortable, that knowing how to handle the situation will come naturally.

[audiodemon]

Rule of thumb: if she doesn't like a motherboard as a gift, she's not worth going out with.

Good point.

[Xprezsion]

Don't wait for her to notice you, maybe start a conversation with her when you feel confident. Also, how can you like her, when you have never talked to her before? Are you sure it's not just lust because she's "hot" or whatever? I say get to know her first and see if she's a decent person.

[sheddingtears]

not all girls like guys that are preppy and wear pink & im pretty sure it doesnt turn on every girl.

to get her attention, try being friends with her first and yeah... ask her to a dance or something... or your friends and her friends could go out and hang and get to know each other better...

[AnnahhbeL]

talk to her, she'll notice you that way

[ComradeRed]

There's a power discrepancy here. You have to become more powerful than she can possibly imagine, and girls will follow. Just look at Hitler--two girls killed themselves over him and he wasn't a great conversationalist and he was kind of ugly. The thing Hitler has on you, my friend, is that he was very powerful. Chicks dig that sort of thing. Unless they're Jewish.

[CrazayChristian]

^Wtf?


He had a point but still wtf?

"It's like I tell my clients,'Begin everyday with a purpose'."

-Hitch

[dragyn]

It doesn't matter what you wear. In fact, if she's worth it, later on when she finds out you only dress that way to get attention, she'll not be very happy about it.

Do not wear clothes just because you think other people like them.

Now. The same thing everyone else saying, because it's the most obvious answer: Talk to her.

Try "Hello."

Edit---------

And WHOAH. I just found another topic saying that you don't like the music your girlfriend listens to. Make up your mind, doll. You don't get two girls at once.