i wanna have sex...., am i too young??? Options

[sparkliez08]

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Im 15 years old and i am talkin to this guy named Jeremy:wub:, he is almost 17 and he is always askin win u gonna let me hit that..i've known him for a while and i really want him!!! i mean he is soo faboulous!! im on a low dose of bc and my mom always said that if i want to boost the dose then let her knoe..i mean im close to my mom but not that close...Sowwy to ramble but do you think that i should? plz right bacc asap!!

[SillyCourtney]

Mmm... How about you're a little bit too young, and that's kinda gross. Wait 'till you're older. plskthnx.

[Looow]

Wow.

I guess if you really think you're ready and you have the protection, sure why not?
Losing your virginity is something special IMO. So if you think yoou really want to share your moment with him, sure. Go ahead.

Don't let a bunch of strangers influence your decisions too much, however.

[Shana_Kru]

how long u 2 bin 2getha i bet ur gonnah hav half the ppl hea jumpin dwn ur throat sayin ur 2 young but yurr how long u an ur boi bin 2getha....str8 up its bettah if u dnt cos then it builds up more to the momment wen it does happen an u no hes goin owt wit u 4 u ....bt again hw lng u 2 bin 2getha

[aznhunnie6o1]

Shana_Kru... I have no clue what you just said...

Well.. It seems like he's just using you for sex.. But if you wanna give it up to him, then go ahed. It's your choice. I hope you don't get STD's or get pregnant. Best of luck.

[Shana_Kru]

i asked how long thay bin goin out...is that okay...

[Im So Vain]

you should not let anyone force you to have sex. i dont think you're too young though, just make sure that you are ready when you want to have sex, so that it could be special.

[SillyCourtney]

how long u 2 bin 2getha i bet ur gonnah hav half the ppl hea jumpin dwn ur throat sayin ur 2 young but yurr how long u an ur boi bin 2getha....str8 up its bettah if u dnt cos then it builds up more to the momment wen it does happen an u no hes goin owt wit u 4 u ....bt again hw lng u 2 bin 2getha

English is GOOOD for YOOUU. You might want to learn it.

[Shana_Kru]

English is GOOOD for YOOUU. You might want to learn it.

next its called the 21st centuary wen dont all type in full words

[sparkliez08]

ummm we've been together for 5 months...

[aznhunnie6o1]

^x2 It's easier for people to read if you type properly. People like me won't even bother to read things like that, and it annoys people.

Well... go and have sex if your ready. I mean.. it's really your choice...

[snak3y3z1001]

no just for the reason he asked for sex.

[butterflikisSez1...]

Your too young. Don't do it even if you feel like its the right thing at the time. Wait until after you get married and it may seem like a long time but it will be worth it the wait.

[Shana_Kru]

^x2 It's easier for people to read if you type properly. People like me won't even bother to read things like that, and it annoys people.

Well... go and have sex if your ready. I mean.. it's really your choice...

i didnt ask you to read it anyway...i was askin the girl hu posted this how long HER and HER boi had been goin out...anyways 5months isnt very long...ur not too young but i say just keep him w8in a little longer...

[datass]

^^ theres some serious problem with your english. seriously...

5 months of being togehter isnt rly long. and ur just 15 years old. maybe ur quite mature and you're ready to have sex. but remember, think twice.

[tears_of_blood]

for me, i won't even consider sex before marriage due to religious reasons.

and- even excusing religious issues- unless you're 100% sure you're gonna end up with this guy for the rest of your life, why would you wanna give your body and your most precious gift (virginity) that you can't take back?

wouldnt you want to give it to THE ONE DEFINITE instead of THE ONE MAYBE? wouldn't you feel sorta guilty when you're married to someone else?

[acidophilus]

Wow, you're gullible if you believe he really loves you.

[maia_dc]

He's gonna respect you more if you respect yourself.
Do you respect yourself enough to lose your virginity to the guy you love?
Do you love him?

^My thoughts.

[*danielle_x3*]

Well.. It seems like he's just using you for sex.. But if you wanna give it up to him, then go ahed. It's your choice. I hope you don't get STD's or get pregnant. Best of luck.

i agree. it sounds like he's just doing that. and you guys have only been dating 5 months. in my opinion, i think you should wait.

[funbobby]

I say give it a go. You'll never know unless you try it. Everyone knows you don't need a condom either, you can't get pregnant on your first time and if you do use one he won't be able to cum and then he'll dump you. Also, you can't get pregnant unless your standing up and if you don't sleep with him soon he's just going to get bored. SEX IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL.

[funbobby]

That's a myth.

Prove it, you know everyones going to read it without thinking and believe it anyway.

[tears_of_blood]

well.... i'm more leaning to the belief that you can get pregnant on the 1st, 2nd....100th time. we had that stapled and tattooed to our brains in sex-ed and science human biology.

[[x]Mari[x]]

for me, i won't even consider sex before marriage due to religious reasons.

*Staaaaaaaaaaaaaaare at icon*

Anyway...

Looks to me like he just wants a piece of @$$.

Excuse my language... but it's true. Looks like he just wants you for sex and doesn't really care about anything else...

Tell him no. Don't give him the most precious thing you have if he doesn't respect you.

Anyway, I think your too young.

[maia_dc]

I say give it a go. You'll never know unless you try it. Everyone knows you don't need a condom either, you can't get pregnant on your first time and if you do use one he won't be able to cum and then he'll dump you. Also, you can't get pregnant unless your standing up and if you don't sleep with him soon he's just going to get bored. SEX IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL.

That's straight up BULL.

[ichigofan]

woah your way to young well your too young to have sex with no strings attach cuz obviously he just wants to "hit that" and if you do go through with this dont expect him to ask you out and have a serious relationship.. Just warning you before you get hurt

good luck =/

[*disco infiltrator*]

ummm we've been together for 5 months...

That seems really reasonable. I, too, am 15, and my boyfriend will be turning 17 in August, and though we haven't had sex yet, we've done a lot of other things and we've only been going out a little over 3 months.

However, make sure this is really the guy you wanna lose it too. This is a once in a lifetime thing, and from what you've said, it seems like he just wants sex and that's it....so make sure he's not really a jerk and he's the special guy you'll give your virginity to.

And don't listen to funbobby.

And if you do want a higher dosage of birth control, just tell your mom your period's been really extra heavy lately. Birth control controls that too.

[Hell-Rell]

Give it more thought.

[EmmalieV]

IMAO , he tells you he wants to hit that..

and you find it cute

I would roll my eyes and walk away , do that youll be happier.

Sex is sin.

not really , but dammit wait a lil longer dont get your hormones in a rush.


=P

[jeSs1cA]

Do what your heart tells you to do. Don't be forced into having sex. Don't let him pressure you into anything your not sure your ready for. If you really loved this guy, you would have no second thoughts on having sex with him. Well.. at least I think so? Maybe not, I dunno. I've never been in this position before. i'm just.. saying something..?

[lilJdawg]

I think you're a little bit too young. I don't really understand what you said about your Mom. " im on a low dose of bc and my mom always said that if i want to boost the dose then let her knoe..i mean im close to my mom but not that close..." What are you trying to say? Yes, you can pregnant for the first time. But if you really feel the time is right then yeah, go for it.

[funbobby]

That's straight up BULL.

You think?

..is that the goal? To confuse people? Get a bunch of girls pregnant because they didn't think it could happen on the first time?

If you believe anything I say, you do not deserve to be even considering sex in this world of AIDS and other STD monsters. Consider me social evolution in action.

[DORKalicious]

Your too young. Don't do it even if you feel like its the right thing at the time. Wait until after you get married and it may seem like a long time but it will be worth it the wait.

Yeah. Even if you did and used protection there is always a chance of you getting pregnant.You have to ask yourself, are you mature enough to handle another life? and if you get pregnant, will he be willing to accept his part of the responsibly? One time can change everything, just wait it will be worth it. Having sex is a bigger deal than what it's made out to be these days.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

QUOTE(funbobby @ Jul 15 2005, 10:32 AM)
Prove it, you know everyones going to read it without thinking and believe it anyway.

you CAN get pregnant the first time. thats a myth and whoever told you was WRONG. sorry if im coming off as rude or anything but everyone here needs to know sex the first time can get you pregnant. the semen still comes from the penis and enteres the vagina doesnt it? yes it does. and the semen can still travel through the body and be fertilized and an can form into an embryo then a baby. and just to prove this point even more, heres soma website that explains it in a very short description.
teenwire

oh and heres a topic about MYTHS about sex. 10 myths about sex
- not getting pregnant the first time is one of those myths.

[love-issosweet]

you shouldn't, you might regret it later

[mistahph0]

heh.i think you're still too young for sex.

[technicolour]

ok I am 15 and really...it's not worth it. He could just use you for it and whatever and just NO!


Pregnancy, STD's, sure I should like the health teachers but I SPEAK TRUTH!

(tears_of_blood @ Jul 15 2005, 7:41 AM)
for me, i won't even consider sex before marriage due to religious reasons.

*Staaaaaaaaaaaaaaare at icon* 

Yea. Tons of sense there.

[miss barnes]

only if u really want to. dont do it because he wants you to

[shortiiex]

if this something your REALLY want then just do it

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

It sounds to me like he's using you.
He keeps asking you "When are you gunna let me hit it?" Are you serious???
But hey-you're decision.
My advice:
1. Think about it a little bit. Sometimes it's just hormones and curiosity.
2. Don't listen to funbobby.
Good luck.

[Looow]

WOW. Two months? HA. I don't think so. I would have thought like a year.

I wouldn't do it if I were you. You're going to regret it.

[CloudNine]

Well let me put it this way-

Don't do it unless you don't have any doubts about it and you feel like your BOTH in love. I lost mine at 13 and I completely regret it so just to give you a fair warning- I wouldn't do it, especially if he keeps bugging you about it. He should respect you and your wishes.

I've been used and cheated on several times and you'll learn from experience. It's no fun thinking, "Why did I ever do anything with him??" after a few years pass and your heartbroken.

I've only come across a few true blue guys who'll love you no matter what but they're rare. Another thing is I HATE it when guys are like, "let me hit that!" it's lame.

Everyone has to learn eventually so if you want, then go for it. I know if someone told me not to when I was younger, I would have done it anyways..yes I'm stubborn lol.

Honey truthfully, it sounds like he's out to get in your pants and ditch you afterwards.

[dancingkait]

I say give it a go. You'll never know unless you try it. Everyone knows you don't need a condom either, you can't get pregnant on your first time and if you do use one he won't be able to cum and then he'll dump you. Also, you can't get pregnant unless your standing up and if you don't sleep with him soon he's just going to get bored. SEX IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL.

wow. go to school and learn plz kthx. sex is a big deal and if you have to come on here and ask strangers than i don't think you're ready. you'll know when you're good nd ready

[Shahin]

If I was a girl and took virginity anywhere near seriously, then naw I wouldn't have sex with him. He just wants some P**sy, believe me this boy knows. And I'm not saying that to be an a-hole or anything, but I've been there done that. In the end it's up to you but I'm thinkin the guy just wants some P**sy seriously and don't be surprised if he turns into an d**k and dumps your ass afterwards. Hm, maybe that was a little harsh.

[ichiban]

i think its too young but if you really think he's special and worth it then go ahead..

[maia_dc]

You think?
If you believe anything I say, you do not deserve to be even considering sex in this world of AIDS and other STD monsters. Consider me social evolution in action.

So are you one of those people who try to make everything into a psychological experiment? Because you know that just cuz you posted something, doesn't mean people will listen, right? Most people don't even read the whole post. If you're trying to convince people as a "psychological experiment," it's not working.

[miss_tragedy]

I say give it a go. You'll never know unless you try it. Everyone knows you don't need a condom either, you can't get pregnant on your first time and if you do use one he won't be able to cum and then he'll dump you. Also, you can't get pregnant unless your standing up and if you don't sleep with him soon he's just going to get bored. SEX IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL.

Dude, are you slow or something? You need a condom every time, not just after the first time. He will cum, because as long as you keep going, the guys going to end up finishing. Guys just about always have an orgasim. And for all you know, he might not be a virgin anymore, which would obviously make it more likely for him to finish. Just because she won't have sex with him, doesn't mean he's going to get bored. I was with my boyfriend for almost a year before we had sex, and he didn't get bored in that timeframe. And it's been almost 2 years and we're still together. Guys that actually care about the girl don't get bored and dump them just because they won't have sex with them. Grow up...


But to the original poster, I don't think you're too young to have sex. I was almost 15 my first time. But when I had sex, I didn't just wait a few months until he asked, "When can I tap that?" I waited a year, and I was actually the one to bring up the topic in general, and then we talked about it for another few weeks. Sex is a big deal, don't listen to that guy. From what it sounds like, he's just using you. Think about it seriously before you do something stupid. Best of luck, though.

[lilliannnn]

I don't know why you're asking up. If you think you're old enough, then do it. Its up to YOU.

[rx_azngirl]

i think you're too young

[funbobby]

So are you one of those people who try to make everything into a psychological experiment? Because you know that just cuz you posted something, doesn't mean people will listen, right? Most people don't even read the whole post. If you're trying to convince people as a "psychological experiment," it's not working.

*goggles*
what the hell?

\/ heh heh christine, where does the joke end though?

[*chaneun*]

.pshhh, he wants to rape you. :x

[jeSs1cA]

.pshhh, he wants to rape you. :x

hahahahaha

[sparkliez08]

thanxs!! for all of your advice...i really appericate it!! and i think most of you are right.....im defintley goning to wait...
thanks always
. :*me

[*chaneun*]

Yeh, you should wait,
don't lose it with a rapist.

[funbobby]

You will regret it girl. Don't listen to just girls because they're just jealous your getting some and they're not. Your guy will get bored if you dont keep him interested, and is it so wrong that he wants to take your relationship to the next level? He just wants to consecrate teh love between you to make you stronger. Do have a go because its so much fun!

[DrftJunky]

Seriously you are 15 and should be more concerned with other things. Having sex with someone is a big deal and a decision that you should put a lot of thought into. Since it is your first time it should be with someone you love and respects you enough to let things happen naturally. To me someone that asks you "when are you going to let me hit that?" has NO respect for you what so ever. And a guy that doesn't respect you doesn't deserve to be dating you. That's just my opinion.

[iheartjohn]

If you think you're ready, then do it.

[CloudNine]

You will regret it girl. Don't listen to just girls because they're just jealous your getting some and they're not.  Your guy will get bored if you dont keep him interested, and is it so wrong that he wants to take your relationship to the next level? He just wants to consecrate teh love between you to make you stronger. Do have a go because its so much fun!

Actually honey, most girls on here probably get more than you do so I think we're experienced enough to give out helpful information. It's not called being jealous, it's called giving advice. It's not wrong for a guy to take a relationship to the next level, but hell, don't force the girl to do it and don't pressure her into it. And uh...keep your boyfriend interested? Wtf...if he cared, than he'd wait as long as it took. You'll sure find out if he's a real man or not if he's fine with not having sex because his girlfriend isn't ready yet.

Yes sex can be fun..but for gods sake she's 15. I swear that most guys don't grasp the idea that it's usually a big deal to the girl once she loses her virginity, etc. It's not like...OMG lets go at it in the back of your car just because!

To the girl who made this topic- your smart for waiting. If he sticks around, he's a real man.

[mocassinsx29]

Hm, if you're completely ready, if you truly and really do love, if you really want to, if you use protection, if you do it in private- yes.

[surfhottieoffcoa...]

GO FOR IT

[*Azarel*]

Actually honey, most girls on here probably get more than you do so I think we're experienced enough to give out helpful information. It's not called being jealous, it's called giving advice. It's not wrong for a guy to take a relationship to the next level, but hell, don't force the girl to do it and don't pressure her into it. And uh...keep your boyfriend interested? Wtf...if he cared, than he'd wait as long as it took. You'll sure find out if he's a real man or not if he's fine with not having sex because his girlfriend isn't ready yet.

Yes sex can be fun..but for gods sake she's 15. I swear that most guys don't grasp the idea that it's usually a big deal to the girl once she loses her virginity, etc. It's not like...OMG lets go at it in the back of your car just because!

........ Dude.

Wow.

Bobby wasn't serious.

But um. Okay.

[Joss-eh-lime]

you said you are gonna wait ^ but if ya decide to use a condom, even tho ur on birth control..

[Chii]

i had sex yesterday, do whatever you want to do, it doesn't affect me...unless you're going to have sex with my boyfriend who is 17 but for some reason, i highly doubt it

oh well if you want to listen to the majority rule go ahead, have strangers make important decisions for you.

[CloudNine]

........ Dude.

Wow.

Bobby wasn't serious.

But um. Okay.

Erm..I don't know "bobby" in person and no where in his post did it seem like he wasn't serious. It drives me nuts when people say things a long the lines of, "Oh don't listen to them" because people's opinions, thoughts, or advice can actually help the person.

It's the girl's decision if she chooses to have sex or not and it doesn't bother me but I think it's good to give good advice.

[IamRad]

next its called the 21st centuary wen dont all type in full words

only idiots dont use full words...

and i think if ur ready to lose ur virginity.. then i guess use protection and go for it..

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Well I can't really sit here & tell you not to have sex cause in the end your going to do what you want to do, but if the only reason why he's talking to because of sex then think to yourself if he should have your goodies...& I'm 14 and I've had plenty of offers to have sex..they always say when you gonna let me hit...when you gonna let me pound them cakes..jusst everything in the book..I heard...but if you think about it...he'll wait when your ready & if he doesn't they're always going to be more offers when you are ready!!...

[asian_dood]

let him sex u, it will be good

[sparkliez08]

thanxs but im not shure bout asian dood....

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[biglamchops]

he sounds like a horn dog...if he wasn't..he wouldn't ask that way...i think its something you should take your time on and decide...i mean..really... you don't want to give it up to somebody unless you're confident that its he's worth it... its something you can't take back....there's no such thing as a born again virgin! lol

[biglamchops]

another thing...if you have to ask a bunch of CB strangers....then you're not ready...

[crazi_in_love_08]

ok this is what i say ... im 15 .. n im still not thinkin about it ... neither is my best friend .. her n her b/f have been together for almost a year now n they are older like 17 and he says whenever ur ready u can tell me .. thats how it should be .. not sumone that askes u all the time "when u gonna let me hit that" .. thats just not rite ... n plus .. do u really wanna take a chance of gettin a disease or pregnant?? .. just think about it...

[sailorsky9]

another thing...if you have to ask a bunch of CB strangers....then you're not ready...

exactly.

for me, i won't even consider sex before marriage due to religious reasons.

you...and your icon...are a great...paradox

p.s. you should WAIT

[xMiSSYxCHRiSSYx]

DON'T!!! Oh my gosh you are WAY too young! I know a lot of people would say, "Sure! Go ahead!" and I know you might not even want my advice, but if you do, then DON'T DO IT! There are way too many pregnant teens out there already. Please don't be one of them.

[AZNmonkeyx3]

its really one of your own choices...if you think youre REALLY ready, go for it. but im still thinking your young. meetoo

[enyceXaddiction]

its your choice...but if you are gong to just remember to wear protection

[3ssx]

dont do it. someone like that is probably just wanting to get in your pants. & that is all.
if you think about it 5 months really isnt that long..

[ShOrTy By NaTuR3]

if you feel that you gots to ask around then YES you arent ready..but good luck with tht and do whats best for you

[eli5e]

Umm.. i think you should wait lol ...obviously this guy like REALLY is urging to have sex w/ u ..who knowwsss.. that's probably the only reason he's dating you.. Nahhhh hhahah jp w/ that

..but just do w/ever u want ..u know ...wat floats ur boat..wat rocks ur socks haha ;]

[LilMissLonely]

Hey I think we kinda going threw the same problems.. just the other way around.. hes ready to have sex and im not ready to .. I mean I love my guy.. but I wanna wait and make sure that he is actally like a guy that gonna stay with me and worth it.. And here just a warning 17yrs well say anything to get gurls to fall 4 the i love you.. i won't leave you crap... trust me!.. I would wait!

[wonder__man]

you should wait until the right guy not just some bf in high school

[my_sunshine]

okay, here's my opinion on this ...

you said you WANT to have sex with him, so practically, you're just saying that you're horny and you wanna bang him too. but, like everyone else is saying, go do whatever you want. however, i think it's a bad idea because, although you might be ready for it, i don't think your boyfriend is the right guy to do it with. honestly, i think you should wait awhile until you know FOR SURE that he wants you for you, not for sex. remember, it's better to be safe and sorry. if you do it now and he ends up breaking up with you, then you're screwed.

okay that's all i can say

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

If you need to ask, then your most likely not ready.

[mouse_3k]

your young and hes 17 but hey, if you wanna make urself easy and ruin ur rep and your life IF you get pregnant, then go for it!

[h0tpinkstar84]

In my opinion, you're too young. You might think that guy is great now but I'd wait. Most likely that guy is either using you for a physical relationship or won't be around for long. Even if he cares about you, you're 15, you are going to have tons of relationships and meeting so many people in the future.

[datgurlnanci3]

Thanks for sharing that with us...yeah. Uhmm...thats your decision, not yours. It all depends on your opinion of sex. I'd say save yourself though, most likely if you end up giving yourself to him, you'll be all over school gossip in no seconds flat.

Best of luck.

[yuRi22]

Age really is just a number in the end. But the fact that he asked when you guys are going to do it is just indicating that he may be in it only for that. Then again I don't know what sort of guy he is so I can't say it for sure. And when you think about it, if you tell him you're not ready for whatever reason and he does not respect that then you really have to rethink what he sees in you two. If he really loves you he should understand whatever decision you make. To tell you the truth guys around that age have only one thing in mind, SEX (not to generalize or anything as some guys are not like that). Rethink it and it wouldn't hurt to talk to your mom, she is your mom afterall. Good luck with it.

[aznangel4eva]

think of it this way...
you're old enough to have sex if you're old enough to care for a [potential] kid.

[_suzie_]

No, plainly because he's 17 and all dudes want at that age is to get laid, by whoever and whatever ways possible. Wait it out, cuz i thnk he's pressuring you - dont get carried away with him either. put things in perspective

If i were you id wait a bit

[murderwaltz]

wow. im 15 & im not even considering on having sex right now. if you wanna do it, go ahead. it's your life. it's your regret. it's your loss. you're too young even if you think you're not but if you wanna lose it to some 17 year old guy who's just looking to have sex with you and leave you after you had sex, go ahead. i'd do it with someone i know i trust and have something incredible/seriously romantic going on.. meaning my future husband. just dont regret this later on because who's fault is it gonna be in the end? yeah.. yours. :\

[kenji9592]

I dont know in what part of the world u are or how old your boyfriend is but in most places its illegal if ur under 16.

[xchrystizzle]

umm...i think you are too young =/ cuz 5 months together? if he really loves you then maybe in a year you can um.....think about it more?

[aeyungg xd]

um, it sounds like more of an infatuation than love. you should love the person you lose it to. IMO.

[Se7eN_x]

i don`t know but in my opinion it sounds like he`s just using you for sex..i don`t think you`re too young, i know a LOT of people/friends who are 14/15 who`s had sex before but don`t get pressured into doing it..it`s your life so go ahead.....

[YOUDRIVIN_MEGRAP...]

I'd say no. If he loved you he wouldn't be saying wen u gonna let me hit that

[dragyn]

If you even have to ask, you're not ready.

It's not a question of age. You're insecure, and thus, you shouldn't do it.