friend trying to hook me up with her friend, ugh Options

[crazi_in_love_08]

ok well alot of stuff has been goin on with me n my ex .. but thats not important. and one of my best friends knows all about it n a few weeks ago she started dating this one dude (travis) n he is always with his best friend (dustin) so she thought it would be kewl if me n dustin started talkin ... i told her i wanted to be single .. but everytime im on the phone with her she call dustin .. i try to tell her no but she still does and expects me to talk to him ... and she called me earlier n was like yea we are stopping by i was like ok .. cuz i figured she would just stop to say hi n get her pants but they stayed for a long time n she was like " i kno dustin didnt waste his gas to come all the way out here to see u if yall arent gonna talk " .. n i told her flat out ... " i dont kno him that well ... n when we first met we didnt talk alot" seh was like still just talk to him ... i started to talk .. but than they left n she made me give him a hug .. i was like ok n did and she kept saying that we would look soo cute together .. than she called me after n was like "so what do u think" i sed he was kewl "but i want to be single" .. i dont think she gets it .. how do i tell him that i dont wanna be with him .. n how to i get it through her head .. .

[*suddenly she*]

smack her. physically or mentally, i don't care. i'd do both, except not that many people are like me.

just because her boyfriend's friend is around doesn't mean you have to be around and with him as well.

[lilJdawg]

smack her. physically or mentally, i don't care. i'd do both, except not that many people are like me.

just because her boyfriend's friend is around doesn't mean you have to be around and with him as well.

^ I agree with her. I don't tolerate with bitches like that. Listen to me once, deal with it or be dealt with.

[technicolour]

smack her. physically or mentally, i don't care. i'd do both, except not that many people are like me.

just because her boyfriend's friend is around doesn't mean you have to be around and with him as well.

To-ta-lyyy
Seriously. She took the words right out of my mouth.

[ishowernaked]

smack her. physically or mentally, i don't care. i'd do both, except not that many people are like me.

just because her boyfriend's friend is around doesn't mean you have to be around and with him as well.

I agree too :)

[its_annah]

^agreed. lol.

[HoodieObsessed]

give her a serius speech and tell her very firmly that you do not like dustin, you never will (at least you don't tihnk you will) and you do NOT want to be with him.
if that doesn't work, do what they said above ---^

[*anubis*]

ouch. harsh on a fellow dustin

but.. i mean--yeah what your friend did was pretty out of hand and too much, but you can't take it out on her like that. okay so she was acting too forward but you could tell that she had all good intentions in the first place.

just be like.

"look. you can like travis all you want but i'm sick of you trying to set me up with dustin. i've told you many times before and i'm telling you again: i want to be single and i mean it."

if she thinks you're overreacting, retell the whole situation. how she made you meet him and stuff and talk to him when you told her you weren't interested.

just... try not to blame it on her as much. she was just trying to be a friend.

[sweetest-emotion]

hmm thats tough. but lemmie tell ya, friends going out with thier friends SUX. (like u goin out with ur friend's bf's friend). i'd say just talk to this dustin guy and see wat he says about the situation. like does he know that ur friend is tryin to hook u up? and if he does, then tel him that u just got out of a relationship and would rather be single now. or just do wat 'suddenly she' said: i would smack ur friend too. she needs to understand how u feel. talk to her. sit her down and demand that she listen to her. **don't let dustin get caught up in this and be hurt in the end!!**

[crazi_in_love_08]

hwy guys, .. thanks for everything ...

[teeners4]

who does the guy like? if he likes your friend, back off. if he likes you.... maybe wait till she stops liking him or something. before telling her

[enyceXaddiction]

people like that are so annoying. just tell her straight up "i dont want a boyfriend stop trying to make me have one" or maybe talk to dustin and make him tell her lols.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

make her feel horrible for trying to push this dustin boy on you.

say you know i dont want to have a boyfriend and i thought youd understand instead of tryingto shove dustin into my pants. i mean face. besides ive only said like 5 words to the dude. SHEESH, DONT YOU UNDERSTAND ?!"


but really. just tell her ^ either that or just because you think we'll be good together or just because you haev a boyfriend doesnt mean i should or that we will be compatible.

[pinayprincess]

Say no to thugs.

lmao... just go up to her and tell her to chill out, get it clear in her head that she shouldnt run your life; as in telling you who to hook up with... man you got a mouth of your own, use it... SPEAK UP! inlife you'll be facing so much shit that you dont wanna do.. you gotta use your mouth..

[demolished]

THe most effective way to go against is that dude. If you hurt him, he wouldnt want to be w/ you anymore so he can tell your friend about it. So, your dam friend will get the f**king point since she is so .. clueless .

[crazi_in_love_08]

hmm ok thanks for it .. but i have a really big problem now !!!!! .... i went to the mall earlier today with my friend n he was working .. so we stoped to say hi.. i figured i would be nice n all .. it was his break so we walked around n went to the food court with our other friends ... we started talkin more n more n i think i mite lik ehim ... i really dont kno yet ... n hes got a car which is kewl umm yea what do i do ?? .. n we have a lot in common too

[so0o_contagious]

im in that situation all the time because ive been single for a while. sit her down, dont laugh and call her by her name and say that you are not interested and wont be for awhile. tell her how you feel. dont just say that you want to be single. really look her in the eye and tell her. if she still continues it, ignore her for awhile. it shows that you weren't messin'.