summer romances, meet anybody special at the beach? Options

[caitieb9]

I met a guy...yeah ...it was...special to bad he lives 3 states away from me. I hope I see him.
I wonder if anyone elses summer romances lived for a while

wow Its like grease
<333 Caitie

[ag3nt_sm17h]

Only for like 3 days, and I never saw her again... Sad, but It happens

[caitieb9]

its always the kind of thing where you think you have somthing special, but then....you can't see them anymore
dang
<333 Caitie

[lilJdawg]

Nope, I don't need to look for anyone. My heart's already complete, thank you very much.

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

A girl approached me...told me she loved me...she's a stalker in my eyes. She knew like random things about me -.-

[teeners4]

haha yea..not on the beach though. we spent time on the beach though we were both volunteering with little kids. and we flirted a lot. lasted about 2 weeks. arg and if i wasn't so nice that LAST day. something woulda happen! we flirted a LOT.... haha the leaders were like "you guys are setting a bad example"

yea...he was special

[caitieb9]

A girl approached me...told me she loved me...she's a stalker in my eyes. She knew like random things about me -.-

^haha
that happened to me too, there were these two guys that looked exactly like napolean dynamite and they accually stood outside of our hotle room and apperantly they were following us all week and...yeah...we thought they were going to rape us or somthing.

creepy
<333 Caitie

[*Azarel*]

I don't see the reasoning behind summer flings, or flings of any sort for that matter. Might as just find a steady fwb.

[caitieb9]

summer flings are funt hough because you can brag to all your friends back home, as terrible as it sounds.
<333 Caitie

[*Azarel*]

summer flings are funt hough because you can brag to all your friends back home, as terrible as it sounds.
<333 Caitie

Pathetic that you feel the need to brag about something as trivial and immature as this; I personally don't even believe it's something worth bragging about - flings are degrading, at least to me. Perhaps one day you'll realize it, when you find love. Perhaps.

[technicolour]

Pathetic that you feel the need to brag about something as trivial and immature as this; I personally don't even believe it's something worth bragging about - flings are degrading, at least to me. Perhaps one day you'll realize it, when you find love. Perhaps.

Blunt yet true. Summer flings are useless. And it isn't "love".

[enyceXaddiction]

nope dont need to find anyone. and 3 states away? wows

[Skyline Drive]

I kind of have a crush on a guy in my summer class.. he is so intelligent and innocent.. heh. I don't know

[Chii]

summer flings are funt hough because you can brag to all your friends back home, as terrible as it sounds.
<333 Caitie

it's fun to screw around with someone because you can brag about it?


both of my serious, longterm relationships started in the summer. me and my boyfriend's one year anniversary is coming up in less than a month

i never had a "summer fling," i don't believe in f*cking around with another person's feelings, what goes around comes around.

[mouse_3k]

Well, if he lives that far, it aint gon work. Summer romances should only be IN the summer.

[*mipadi*]

Pathetic that you feel the need to brag about something as trivial and immature as this; I personally don't even believe it's something worth bragging about - flings are degrading, at least to me. Perhaps one day you'll realize it, when you find love. Perhaps.

Wow. Harsh.

I agree that it's stupid to brag about these things, but what's all this about "finding love" and "realizing that flings are degrading"? Whatever happened to just meeting someone and having fun for a night or two or three, without feeling the need to jump into a relationship? Life is all about having fun, and the short-term "fling" can aide in that objective.

[avalon*]

Well, if he lives that far, it aint gon work. Summer romances should only be IN the summer.

Haha, Steph's got a point. Summer flings are called summer flings for a reason.

[MeanBastard]

Aren't summer things where you bang and then you impregnate and never see them again?

[mocassinsx29]

No summer romances for me. Though I do see hot guys that I WISH I could start a S.R. with.

[xldubaliciousx]

Blunt yet true. Summer flings are useless. And it isn't "love".

I guess.. But summer flings DO open up your heart. If you don't have any past experiences, prior to finding the one you love.. Then there's nothing to compare it to. But that's just me.

[*Azarel*]

I agree that it's stupid to brag about these things, but what's all this about "finding love" and "realizing that flings are degrading"? Whatever happened to just meeting someone and having fun for a night or two or three, without feeling the need to jump into a relationship? Life is all about having fun, and the short-term "fling" can aide in that objective.

I meant she'd realize that summer flings aren't worth bragging about. The degrading bit was just my opinion, and I didn't mean that she'd learn that too; my post wasn't too clear, apologies.

[nosuntoday]

I met a guy...yeah ...it was...special to bad he lives 3 states away from me. I hope I see him.
I wonder if anyone elses summer romances lived for a while

wow Its like grease
<333 Caitie

i had a summer romance the first week but he went back to europe.. sucks.

[*x____duckii*]

its always the kind of thing where you think you have somthing special, but then....you can't see them anymore

That's why it's always best to get their digits.

And it sounds as if you'd only get into a relationship so you can brag about it to everyone.

How weak.

[ishowernaked]

can a guy have a summer fling? lol I had one sorta my friend met some girl over the internet and he was gonna meet her in florida at one of the beaches and when we got there we saw a girl tanning that looked sorta like the girl sooo we thought we'd play a lil prank and put something out and put it on her back lol we cut out a lil turtle shaped out of paper and put it on her back and we just sat next to her then she looked up and we're like oooo sh*t haha it wasn't the girl soo we were like sorry about ur back and all that stuff then we started talkin blah blah blah got to know eachother then went swimming - fishing and all that stuff that week and we saw a puppy she went and hugged it and it bit her so she had to go get shots and the next day we flew back home and that was that :)

[HoodieObsessed]

I went to Disneyland with my choir in march this year (not exactly summer but w/e), and across from me and my roomates hotel room (like the building across from ours I mean, we had porches so we could look out) there were four cute guys living on the bottom floor. I agreed that they were cute and nice but I didn't go see them cause lets face it, I'm a complete chicken. Plus I don't have very much self confidence and I'm not really old enough for them anyway. Besides, they could be rapists my lame excuse.

anyway, the older girl (15. I was 14 at the time so yes, she was older) went with a few other girls to their room and we watched them from the porch talking to them haha, it was halarius. We could hear them and everything. The guys were like "so how old are you girls?" and they just stood there for like a minute. they wre probably thinking like *should I tell them my real age, or older than I am? should I go first or is someone else going to say?*. lol, it was halarius. we were laughing our butts off, but we couldn't make too much noise or they'd hear us. finally they told them their ages. "15 (true)", "17 (true)", "16 (FALSE. shes' really 13. hahahaha, she looks really really old for her age tho, and acts it as well. I beleive she's even *cough* been there *cough* I don't like her much".

anyway, that was the extent of sumer romances for me. and it wasnt even mine, lol.

[ishowernaked]

lol wow

[[Scr3amin][Horro...]

I havent meet anyone at the beach - yet
I have met alot of great guy other place thought.
Weee! Now that Im single its
PARTY TIME!
[I luv being single in the summer ]

[ichiban]

nope, never exactly had a summer fling before..

[mai_z]

Summer flings are huge for cadets around here, because everyone goes to camp, and they're from all different squadrons and cities and stuff. So while you're at camp ppl go out and stuff, but in the end, everyone has to go home. Last summer I kinda dated a guy for like a week, but he started to get like super clingy and stuff,....and said I love you.......... a lot, so he got dumped pretty fast

[jeSs1cA]

I've had one before 2 summers ago. I was boogieboarding in the water (lol) and all of a sudden, this kid came up to me and started asking me questions. It turned out to be the same kid that was at the same minigolfing place me and cousins & aunt went to the night before. It only lasted like, 6 hours because he was leaving that day. He gave me his address, and I wrote to him. He wrote back, like 2 months later. Then.. after that I just never wrote back to him. He lives in Pittsburgh and I live on the total opposite side of the state. I sometimes get to the point where I want to write to him.. but I don't think he would remember me when he would get my letter. Back then, he didn't have AIM. I sometimes wonder if he has it now..


Okay, i'm done. Sorry to bore you all.

[xlaydee_v]

I met a guy...yeah ...it was...special to bad he lives 3 states away from me. I hope I see him.
I wonder if anyone elses summer romances lived for a while

wow Its like grease
<333 Caitie

hahah yea, it is. it would be funny if he went to your school all of a sudden and yeah. lols. and no i never had a summer romance. but it would be cool

[HoodieObsessed]

Summer flings are huge for cadets around here, because everyone goes to camp, and they're from all different squadrons and cities and stuff. So while you're at camp ppl go out and stuff, but in the end, everyone has to go home. Last summer I kinda dated a guy for like a week, but he started to get like super clingy and stuff,....and said I love you.......... a lot, so he got dumped pretty fast

wow, awesome. My freind is at a 3 week Sea Cadet camp rigth now. I wonder if she found a summer fling

...I can't wait till she comes home, I'm giving her a call right away

[pinayprincess]

at the pool... he tried to get my number.. he was to scared to ask me though, he had to go through all of my friends to try to get it.. we left the pool so in the end , he never got my number lol

[xSiLLyMex]

Yea..At my frend's pool party. We met, hit it off. But now he likes my frend. oh wellz. I'm still seeing him next year when I start H.S.

[PinkTrash]

yes, last year.. we knew each other from school but it was just a summer thing between us. i miss it </3 and after that there was this other guy.. who I didnt see often we just talked on msn and phone and stuff most of the time, but its always something about summer..

[audory]

summer flings? count me in! haha.
So far, I've had two... in the same summer. but whatever :]
they were fun & honestly, I don't regret any of 'em.

1) we met in DC @ this leadership camp and it was pretty cute. innocent too. I think that was my favorite part of it; the whole shabang seemed to come right out of a movie. There was the dancing with no music, the running in the rain, the upside down kisses (that was the best :]), and so on. I cried so hard for so long afterwards though that I vowed to never get that attached again. which brings me to numero dos.

2) two weeks after the first summer fling, there was this one. I know, it was really fast. But I was so tired of moping around and wishing for something that'd never happen, someone that I'd never see again, that I decided "to hell with it!" I was in Michigan for some camp and I was looking to hookup with someone, and he was looking. I definetely don't regret it though. We had fun. not exactly innocent fun, but fun nonetheless. and that's what life's all about, isn't it? :]

[alysaphobia]

well... i knew this guy from my friends, so we started hanging out a lot during summer. we really hit it off and started going out... :D luckily, since we both lived in the same city, we were able to keep our relationship going after the summer ended. we dated for 14 months.

[audory]

&/degradanca.: you're so lucky he lived so near! I've always wondered what would happen if my summer flings didn't live halfway across the country.

[alysaphobia]

^yeah, it was really great. :)
aww haha do you ever get to visit them? it's always fun while it lasts

[tokyo-rose]

I never met a summer love on the beach, but I did meet my first boyfriend during the summer at the park. xD

[audory]

^yeah, it was really great. :)
aww haha do you ever get to visit them? it's always fun while it lasts

haha, no, I just never see them again. It kind of sucks, but hey, a girl's gotta get used to it :]

[hii_there]

flings are complicated, you can't get attached or you end up getting hurt, thats what happened to me during the summer, i went away to the shore and my best friend and i would go out like all the time and we'd meet lots of kids, well we ended up having these two stalkers, like they followed us to my house, and they like waited for us to come out, and one night i told them just to leave us alone because they never talked to us they just followed us, and then the kid started making fun of me, and i got really like annoyed, so he stopped this kid he kinda knew and was like doesn't she look like shes mean, and the kid was like no and he was like why don't you just leave her alone like shes not doing anything to you, and they started to say something, and his friend made them go away and the guy walked my friend & me home, and then we'd like sneak out later and we'd talk and stuff, he was really sweet and so i started to like him and what not and we hooked up, and it was cute and everything, he said he'd call me later .. he never did, and he like left the day after so it twas not fun getting over him. but yeah that was my kinda most recent one.