is flirting with someone and hitting on them, the same thing? |
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 Jul 8 2005, 08:25 PM
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Question: Is flirting with someone and hitting on them the same thing?
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Jul 8 2005, 08:40 PM
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Yeah.
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Jul 8 2005, 08:41 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
flirting and hitting on them ... depends how you define both ... to me I think that flirting is kind of like just fun not expecting anything from it.. and hitting on them is liking them alot? so.. i guess they arent the same
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Jul 8 2005, 08:43 PM
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i think it's different..... but who knows......
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Jul 8 2005, 08:49 PM
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QUOTE(Shahin @ Jul 8 2005, 9:40 PM) Yeah.  -Don't Spam! hmm, flirting and hitting on someone are different to me. Maybe its the same with some, but to me flirting is just to tease someone or try to get a guys/girls attention (depending what sex you are lols unless your gay/lesbian) or just being dorky/stupid with your friends. And Hitting on someone to me is that your really trying hard to impress or get that somebody to like you. But truly, i have no clue. I mean usually if you flirt or hitt on someone..you like them..or you find intrest in them.. haha i'll just keep at that. |
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Jul 8 2005, 09:36 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
No. Flirting is when you're friendly and suggestive, but no promises or questions asked.
Hitting on someone is upright asking for their number or to sleep with them. |
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Jul 8 2005, 09:36 PM
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hmm they're similar.
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Jul 8 2005, 10:20 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
QUOTE(yellowgurl @ Jul 8 2005, 8:41 PM) flirting and hitting on them ... depends how you define both ... to me I think that flirting is kind of like just fun not expecting anything from it.. and hitting on them is liking them alot? so.. i guess they arent the same ^agreed. it depends on what point of view flirting and hitting on someone is it you. |
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Jul 8 2005, 10:24 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
QUOTE(azndreamer @ Jul 8 2005, 8:25 PM) Question: Is flirting with someone and hitting on them the same thing? First off, what does your common sense tell you? |
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Jul 9 2005, 12:22 AM
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i think hitting on falls under flirting
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Jul 9 2005, 08:15 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
they have different meanings.
flirting is when you're just playing around or trying to hint your interest lightly, however hitting on someone is when you just outright make your interest obvious. |
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Jul 9 2005, 11:23 AM
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 SAXY kathy Group: Member Posts: 535 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,550 |
i think they're both the same thing just that hitting on someone is a type of flirting.
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Jul 9 2005, 12:26 PM
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Good-Bye. Group: Member Posts: 2,100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 161,149 |
I think it the same...
 Except it said in different ways |
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Jul 9 2005, 12:31 PM
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Hitting on someone is more extreme and straightforward. Flirting is fun and giving little hints.
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Jul 9 2005, 02:09 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I would say that flirting is more fun, casual, and innocent, while hitting on someone is much more direct and definately not innocent
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Jul 9 2005, 02:11 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(mai_z @ Jul 9 2005, 1:09 PM) I would say that flirting is more fun, casual, and innocent, while hitting on someone is much more direct and definately not innocent I agree. Flirting is something you can do with several people just for fun, but hitting on someone is direct and you're saying you like them especially. |
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Jul 13 2005, 03:54 PM
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QUOTE(azndreamer @ Jul 8 2005, 6:25 PM) Question: Is flirting with someone and hitting on them the same thing? kinda.. yeah. |
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Jul 13 2005, 04:22 PM
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 Ima [proud] brunette! Got a problem w. it? i dont kare! Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 171,502 |
Flirting is when a guy really likes you and wants your attention badly
Hitting on is like you just want to have her like you do a blow job etc get it over with |
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Jul 13 2005, 04:53 PM
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 unique Group: Member Posts: 520 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 140,137 |
its kind of the same thing...it depends on how you flirt since there are different level of flirting
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Jul 13 2005, 05:30 PM
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they're similar. flirting is just having fun and hitting on is just when you want something.
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Jul 13 2005, 06:25 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
i dont think it is.. it depends on how you view it
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Jul 13 2005, 07:01 PM
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QUOTE(maia_dc @ Jul 8 2005, 9:36 PM) No. Flirting is when you're friendly and suggestive, but no promises or questions asked. Hitting on someone is upright asking for their number or to sleep with them. ^I agree. |
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Jul 13 2005, 08:05 PM
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Hitting on someone is a more direct approach. They're the same basic concepts, but when you say 'hitting on' it denotes a way more straightforward attitude. Flirting takes two people, but it only takes one person to hit on someone.
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Jul 14 2005, 03:19 AM
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i think it's different. some girls are naturally flirty. and they dont mean to be. whlie hitting on it's like you know you're doing it, and you're hoping the guy gets attracted by it and gets interested in you. while flirting is like you're just doing it, not expecting anything big...
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Jul 14 2005, 06:27 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
QUOTE(maia_dc @ Jul 8 2005, 9:36 PM) No. Flirting is when you're friendly and suggestive, but no promises or questions asked. Hitting on someone is upright asking for their number or to sleep with them. i concur. |
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Jul 14 2005, 06:33 PM
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 I come from East Oakland where the youngstas get hyphy! Group: Member Posts: 1,821 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,942 |
Its not in my opinion, because I flirt a lot with guys, but that does not mean Im trying to get with them. They're two different things flirting with someone is more fooling around or playful like. Hard to explain.
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Jul 14 2005, 07:55 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(freshxsmiles @ Jul 8 2005, 5:49 PM) -Don't Spam! he wasn't spamming, he was giving his opinion, if he thinks they are the same what else is he sopposed to say? if you can state your opinion in a very small amount of words why should you ahve to make it longer for no aperent reason jsut so ppl like you won't call it spam? th'ats just stupid.  I think that hitting is more serius than flirting. but I don't know about this stuff, I'm pretty out of it. |
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Jul 14 2005, 08:36 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
QUOTE(maia_dc @ Jul 8 2005, 7:36 PM) No. Flirting is when you're friendly and suggestive, but no promises or questions asked. Hitting on someone is upright asking for their number or to sleep with them. pretty much that. flirting is supposed to be fun, but hitting on someone is more aggresive |
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Jul 15 2005, 10:33 AM
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lol, agressive. i guess hitting on someone is when you know that you like them and perhaps they like you back as well?
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Jul 15 2005, 12:32 PM
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I don't consider it the same thing. If you're telling someone all the things you like about them then you are hitting on them. If you're just flirting, then you're.. flirting
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Jul 17 2005, 10:08 PM
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uhhhhh idk.. probably.. like i said idk.. maybe try using a thesourus [or however that is spelt]
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Jul 17 2005, 10:18 PM
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QUOTE(maia_dc @ Jul 8 2005, 10:36 PM) No. Flirting is when you're friendly and suggestive, but no promises or questions asked. Hitting on someone is upright asking for their number or to sleep with them. ^^^^ I agree...I <33333 flirting, but I consider hitting on someone being agressive flirting..I think thats why it's called hitting on someone... 
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Jul 24 2005, 05:59 AM
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well to me
flirting could mean that you either like them or you don't and you do it just because and hitting is having a thing for them and hoping they notice |
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Jul 24 2005, 08:03 AM
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 sweet abandon Group: Member Posts: 194 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,225 |
QUOTE(one_and_only @ Jul 15 2005, 11:36 AM) pretty much that. flirting is supposed to be fun, but hitting on someone is more aggresive lol my first thought>> hitting:agressive::punching:angry sorry i'm a dork. well i guess everyone's explained it here. flirting=playful hitting=straight up "I want you, NOW." |
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