Guy Probs, I need help with a guy. Options

[BoyCrazyKitty]

ok heres the deal there is this guy named zack that i like. Anyway i told him how i felt at the begining of the summer. Unfortenetly he didn't feel the same way. Anyway he asked one of my girlfriends out after this and i was dating someone to at that time. He and his gf reasontly broke up and so did me and my boyfriend. Now i feel like i still like him and i can't get him out of my head. What should I do?

[enyceXaddiction]

get close with him. maybe he'll like you back this time you never know anything can happen

[*stephinika*]

moved to relationships.

[gOODpIRATE]

it may be worth another try. try to become closer friends with him, but if it's a no...just move on. i know what your going through. heh.

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

Hang out with him more. Get closer to him.

[*mipadi*]

Words of wisdom: the key to relationships is to know when to let go. You tell someone you're interested, he says he isn't, probably best to just let it go. You're just going to get stressed out about it if you hang around him a lot and nothing happens, and you're going to close yourself off to other opportunities. If he changes his mind and becomes interested, you'll probably be able to tell, because he'll suddenly want to hang out with you or something. But you can't force these things to happen, and there's no sense in stressing out over it. If it's going to happen, it will (especially since you let him know of your interest), but if it's not, don't try to make it happen.

Kudos for telling him, though. A lot of people never do that. At least you have a right to complain now.

[kill me please]

maybe get closer to him like everyone said.. and then iono you cant make him like you. if he still doesnt like you, uh then just try and get over him

[*anubis*]

you told him you liked him when you had a boyfriend?

that's all i can say.

[xldubaliciousx]

If a guy wants to be with you, he'll FIND a way. Ah, I know that now in days girl ask guys out a lot of the times.. But if you aren't sure about his feelings just become friends with him again. And let HIM bring up going out. And if he doesn't, maybe it is time to let go.

[LittleLulu]

hmm..like they say.."whats meant to be wont break up, and what breaks up, wasn't meant to be"...so try your best to be a good friend +close to him without being unlike yourself. n when the times' right tell him. but if still nthn happens then theres really nothing you can do.

[Chii]

you should try to get over men now. you just broke up with your boyfriend, you can't go for another guy on the rebound. especially since he's your friend's ex and when you told him you liked him, he didn't feel the same.

trying again doesn't apply to everything...

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

basically what everyone else said, talk to him, get closer. maybe he'll change his mind, but dont try to force yourself on him. if it doesnt work out, atl east you have a great new friend.

[illumineering]

Why are you pushing the issue? He's not interested. If you keep it up, you'll loose a friend, too. Relax. He'll show an interest if he changes his mind.

[ishowernaked]

im a guy listen to me --- if your hott go ask him out again... if your not.. lol forget him :)

[_sarcastic_]

i think you should just forget about him, i mean he's told you that he doesn't like you that way and he's already asked another girl out.

[pinayprincess]

same thing... only difference was that the guy i liked DIDNT have a girlfriend, and he DID like me... i broke up w/ my boyfriend, just for him -- eventually we went out but it just fell apart in the end... so bottom line, just go for it and tell him how you feel [again] -- risk to see what happens

[mouse_3k]

Get over it. He dont like u move on. Lifes tough.

[The-Mach-Hare]

talk to him and see if he feels any differently now. if not, its probably not meant to be or youre going to be doing a lot of waiting around.

[Saeglopur]

Hmm... I think you really should give up. Everyone has feelings but that doesn't mean they should act up upon it.

[Mizz Rizza]

If a guy wants to be with you, he'll FIND a way. Ah, I know that now in days girl ask guys out a lot of the times.. But if you aren't sure about his feelings just become friends with him again. And let HIM bring up going out. And if he doesn't, maybe it is time to let go.

i agree
maybe you could get closer
but dont ask him out
or tell him how you feel
cuz i mean
maybe it's his turn now
maybe it's his turn to make the move
if he likes you or not
i think he should be able to tell you

if nothing happens
just let it go :]