pregnant? am i? Options

[caliente]

yes i know :( terrible..
i recently had sex with my boyfriend about.. 4 months ago and the condom ripped, but he didnt.. you know. splooge.

i got my period, but then... i missed a month. then i got it again the next month.
do you think i could be pregant due to pre-cum? or is it just irregular?

[*mzkandi*]

I thinks just irregular (a common occurrence) because if you were pregnant you wouldnt have a preriod at all, so relax

When will I know and how can I tell if I'm pregnant?

Wait until you miss a period. Once the egg and sperm hook-up, the fertilized egg still has to travel down to the uterus, which takes about a week. Often, the fertilized egg just keeps going and gets flushed out of your system with your menstrual cycle. It's not until the fertilized egg attaches itself to the uterus that you are officially pregnant. That's when your body starts making new hormones and responding. A pregnancy test won't be accurate until your period is due because it tests for pregnancy hormones. Now just because you miss a period doesn't mean you're definitely pregnant. Many things can cause a period to be late, especially stress (like worrying about if your pregnant). Some other symptoms of pregnancy--like nausea, tender breasts, high emotions--are also signs that your period is coming! Some women don't get any symptoms except a missed period. So the only way to really know if you are pregnant is to get a pregnancy test.

What do I do if I think I might be pregnant?

Wait to see if you get your period and then get a pregnancy test. While you're waiting, try not to stress-out about it, since there's really not much you can do until your period is due. If your period is late--or you think it might be late and you're not sure--then get a pregnancy test. You can start with a home kit from the drugstore, but we really recommend you go to a clinic because people do get the wrong results with home tests. There are many places where you can get a free pregnancy test: try Planned Parenthood for starters:  1-800-230-PLAN. However, watch out for bogus clinics that advertise using phrases like "crisis pregnancy" or "pregnant and scared?". They offer free pregnancy tests, but they are not real clinics.  They are run by anti-abortion groups and hope to scare you out of choosing abortion.
http://www.positive.org/Home/faq/pregnancy.html

[caliente]

i went on a site, and i have some of the symptoms...

[silver-rain]

Then get a pregnancy test to make sure. I think Planned Parenthood gives free pregnancy testing.

[crashingg]

^^ she's right

you should take a test.

[Joss-eh-lime]

yea. your period wouldnt come back.

so in this case. lucky you!

[caliente]

should i stop worrying?
i think that may be way ive been tired and sick because ive been worrying way to much.

[Teesa]

NO. you should be worrying. Get a test now.

[caliente]

i havent gain any weight though. its been 4 months u think i wuld have noticed something?

[*mzkandi*]

i havent gain any weight though. its been 4 months u think i wuld have noticed something?

I dont think your pregnant but if you would like to calm yourself from worrying then just get tested. The end.

[technicolour]

I dont think your pregnant but if you would like to calm yourself from worrying then just get tested. The end.

Enough Said. Get tested. Come on.

[*jooleeah*]

Go get a pregnancy test. Now.

[me1issaaaa]

^ I agree.

You probably aren't, you were probably just stressed or worried which is more than likely the cause of that one missing month, but still. I'd get a home pregnancy test just to be sure. Actually, I'd do two or three, but that's probably because I'm a bit paranoid... better safe than sorry, right?

Good luck with everything

[caliente]

its not that easy to just go buy a pregancy test for me.

[*mzkandi*]

its not that easy to just go buy a pregancy test for me.

Why isnt it?

[*jooleeah*]

Pregnancy sticks should work, too. Just go to a pharmacy (sp?) center and buy one. =]

[caliente]

Why isnt it?

parents, etc.

[me1issaaaa]

Well, how old are you? Maybe have a friend or a close family member, like a cool aunt or someone get one for you?

[*mzkandi*]

parents, etc.

Dont mean to sound harsh but maybe you will think this next time before you have sex.

[caliente]

^ haha its cool. i understand.

16. i told my bf about it, but he said i shouldnt worry since i had my period.

[*jooleeah*]

Can your boyfriend drive..? Do you have a pharmacy center near you? I hate to be cliche, but it's better to be safe than sorry.

[caliente]

ya he can drive. ill ask him as soon as he gets home from work.

[starlette]

if you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to go guy a pregnancy test. Its not like you need parental guidence to go buy one. Just go to walmart and grab one. its no biggie. people do it everyday. But I would suggest it because some women dont show physical signs of pregnency til the 6th or even 7th month, and for some women, their periods dont stop throught their entire pregnanacy. Its going to be a hell of a lot harder to explain a baby then it is to explain a pregnancy test. just rememeber that.

[shortiiex]

i think your period is irregular cause if you are pregnet you shouldn't even have your period

[CloudNine]

i went on a site, and i have some of the symptoms...

It's probably all in your head. It's not uncommon for girls to believe they have every symptom related to pregnancy when they fear they may be pregnant. I've done that 3 times when I swore I was pregnant lol.

Mzkandi is completely right. Your period is just irregular. Your not pregnant if you got your period so don't worry. If your still super worried which I don't think you should be, then buy a pregnancy test- you don't need a parent with you and you can buy one at the grocery store. Sometimes sex, stress, etc., can make your period irregular.

Condoms are fine but what's even better is birth control pills. You know when you'll be getting your period and you won't get pregnant (1% chance you can get pregnant lol.) The only thing is that it doesn't protect against stds.

You can get birth control pills at planned parenthood or talk to your parents. A way to bring it up is to tell your mother that birth control pills are a good way at keeping your face clear of pimples and that it's a good way of knowing when you'll be getting your period. If your mother is the not very strict, then tell her that your sexually active and that you would like the pill. She should be understanding.

[Looow]

I bet its just irregular. Go try buying a pregancy test at a local drugstore. If you're worried baout your parents, go buy one alone or tell a friend to buy one for you. I'm sure you're not pregant though

[islandkiss]

You should talk to your gynecologist. I think it's safer to wear bith control patches :O

[sexy_chick]

how old r u

[silver-rain]

If you're worried about buying the test and your parents finding out, like I said in my post, Planned Parenthood gives free pregnancy testing. Look for one near you and check, because I'm not sure if it's everywhere.
Otherwise, just go buy one and do the test at his place so your parents don't find out.

[glit_gal]

I'm sure it's just an irregular period...when you're pregnant you stop having your period for the entire duration, not for one month and then not the next.

[takeapolaroid__x]

go buy a pregnancy test! it doesnt matter whether you get strange looks from people! just do it beucase no matter what other people think or do, it shouldnt affect your actions, becuase if you dopnt by a pregnancy test because you're scared of what other people think of you, it could damage your life.

go buy one... seriously.

besides, you may not even be pergnant

[iheartjohn]

Guys, pregnancy tests are not cheap. And chances are, this girl is too young and probably hasn't told her parents yet.

It's possible that your period is just irregular, which happens a lot when you're still getting adjusted to it. But it's also possible to be menstrual throughout pregnancy. It's different for some women.

And also know that a lot of pregnancy symptons are the same as the symptons of stress.

How old are you, by the way? Well if you have questions, just ask me. I have a 4 year old.

[WickedDreamer]

It's highly unlikely that you are pregnant. If your stressing then you might miss your period. I had a family crisis last year and I "missed" my period for three months. It was great. Minus the crisis.

[caliente]

Guys, pregnancy tests are not cheap. And chances are, this girl is too young and probably hasn't told her parents yet.

It's possible that your period is just irregular, which happens a lot when you're still getting adjusted to it. But it's also possible to be menstrual throughout pregnancy. It's different for some women.

And also know that a lot of pregnancy symptons are the same as the symptons of stress.

How old are you, by the way? Well if you have questions, just ask me. I have a 4 year old.

omg. thank you. i think it just may be stress.. i had my period twice.
im 16.

[*freshxsmiles*]

Yea, what most people suggested and said are right. Take a pregnancy test if you're really worried like that. And also , your period might be just irregular..i had momments like this. But just stay cool , calm and relax as you can.

[enyceXaddiction]

irregular if your pregnant i think you dont have your period at all. just to make sure CHECK WITH THE DOCTOR.

[enyceXaddiction]

irregular if your pregnant i think you dont have your period at all. just to make sure CHECK WITH THE DOCTOR.

[enyceXaddiction]

oops sorry for the double.

[Xprezsion]

I thinks just irregular (a common occurrence) because if you were pregnant you wouldnt have a preriod at all, so relax

Exactly, but you could take a test to make sure.

[jeSs1cA]

Guys, pregnancy tests are not cheap. And chances are, this girl is too young and probably hasn't told her parents yet.

It's possible that your period is just irregular, which happens a lot when you're still getting adjusted to it. But it's also possible to be menstrual throughout pregnancy. It's different for some women.

And also know that a lot of pregnancy symptons are the same as the symptons of stress.

^very helpful

[*reflection*]

i would get tested just to make sure

[dao]

err.. are you showing.. cuz its been 4 months right ?

[*mzkandi*]

err.. are you showing.. cuz its been 4 months right ?

^
If you read the whole thread you would know because she already mentioned it

i havent gain any weight though. its been 4 months u think i wuld have noticed something?

[iheartjohn]

I started showing at 5 months.

[lilJdawg]

You periods can be irregular. Don't stress. If you were pregnant, you wouldn't have you're period at all. To be on the safe side, take a pregnacy test.

[ktsou11]

i agree with everyone else. hopefully you got tested and maybe next time you'll think twice before you get involved in sexual activities.

[im_aGERM]

i agree with what mostly everyone else said. if you were pregnant, you wouldn't have gotten your period.

[xxj_b0ixx]

well i know wen my gurl was pregnant the first time she still had her period....and this gurl was pregnant 6mths far and you couldnt even tell she didnt even tell her parents until she was7 den she jus blew up....my gurl stayed in a size 3 until she was 8 1/2 mths pregnant....so you should be worried...they say sometimes u think u have ur period but its ur placenta bleeding.....so go get a test asap.....next time use more than jus a condum.....you are soo young to be having baby not to be mean....its hard trust me i know

[yellowgurl]

just go take a test and better safe then sorry

[caliente]

ya.. im gona get a test. my bfs gona buy me one.
he never cummed in me, even with a condom. the one that had broke 4 months ago, broke after he took it out. i remember cuz we heard it after he tried to put it back in.

[whywasisostupid]

i dont think you are personally. try the test just to make sure. best of luck!
and as for the symptoms, they just maybe stress like [f]eleeza said.

try www.surebaby.com

[Rogue_Ewok]

one that had broke 4 months ago, broke after he took it out. i remember cuz we heard it after he tried to put it back in.

You were reusing a condom??? That is stupid. Dont you read the instructions??? Never reuse a condom. It isnt safe.

[nosuntoday]

yes i know :( terrible..
i recently had sex with my boyfriend about.. 4 months ago and the condom ripped, but he didnt.. you know. splooge.

i got my period, but then... i missed a month. then i got it again the next month.
do you think i could be pregant due to pre-cum? or is it just irregular?

nah, you cant be pregnant.

[ldy_kari]

when you are pregnant your breast tend to get bigger and you dont eat as much during the day...

i missed my period for 2 months but i wasnt pregnant cuhs im only 12

[bbyunique]

i think its irregular. you can't come on your period if your pregnant. your just skipping mths which is bad, if it keeps occuring i recommend going to the doctors because that's the sign something isn't right.

[mouse_3k]

if ur still having ur period then ur fine.

[sunniedayz]

well its been like 12 days since u posted...

did u get tested yet??

stop worrying about ur parents if u havent.. just go get it.

[teeners4]

i highly doubt it, cause you did get a period. its just irregular =)

[miss barnes]

just take the test...to be sure

[caliente]

i just took it.

IM NOT PREGNANT!!!!!

[*mzkandi*]

^Well thats great. And with that said, I think this topic should be closed.

[[x]Mari[x]]

^^Yay. I'm glad for you.

[HoodieObsessed]

i just took it.

IM NOT PREGNANT!!!!!

yay

I'm very glad for you

Next time take a pill

[murderwaltz]

thats good news. next time be careful.

[demolished]

It's probably all in your head. It's not uncommon for girls to believe they have every symptom related to pregnancy when they fear they may be pregnant. I've done that 3 times when I swore I was pregnant lol.

Mzkandi is completely right. Your period is just irregular. Your not pregnant if you got your period so don't worry. If your still super worried which I don't think you should be, then buy a pregnancy test- you don't need a parent with you and you can buy one at the grocery store. Sometimes sex, stress, etc., can make your period irregular.

Condoms are fine but what's even better is birth control pills. You know when you'll be getting your period and you won't get pregnant (1% chance you can get pregnant lol.) The only thing is that it doesn't protect against stds.

You can get birth control pills at planned parenthood or talk to your parents. A way to bring it up is to tell your mother that birth control pills are a good way at keeping your face clear of pimples and that it's a good way of knowing when you'll be getting your period. If your mother is the not very strict, then tell her that your sexually active and that you would like the pill. She should be understanding.

what? pimples? you can get pimples for that?! can you provide more info, thats so interesting.

[*tweeak*]

false alarm, fortunately for her =]

topic closed