freaked out.., stalkers. Options

[PinkTrash]

Dont know if there's been a topic about this before? I searched a few pages..

I got so freaked today; this guy followed me from the mall to the bus, then when i switched buses & till i was nearly home.. He kept sitting where I was even when I moved I was like about to cry & i called my dad and the guy kept staring at me and looking at me in uncomfortable ways. I was so scared he going to follow me off the bus and when i got to my door :/ I think he kind of backed off when he realized I had a phone and all..

well, ever thought you were being stalked or followed by an abductor before?
:/ my friend got chased by these two men who said they wanted her. freaky O.O

[beautifuls0ul_x3]

this is why we should carry guns in our purses, or bricks.

- never go out by yourself

[osidepinay33]

aww man.. that sux.. that' y i go in groups.. wen i go places.. so at least i won't be alone

[laxumaster8]

scary...i would have lost it if i was you...its happened once to me

[PinkTrash]

i cant go out with people anymore, nobody's here {everyones on summer vacation} and i have summer harmony&history music classes =| no choise

[Saeglopur]

1) Carry Pepper Spray
2) Draw a unibrow on your head

[russell2212]

I think this a girl thing (obviously) because you dont see too many cases of guys being stalked.

but i am happy your safe. if you by yourself, try to make obvious ways for them not to do anything. try being on a phone the entire time if you notice someone "stalking" you because if they do jump you or anything, you can say where your at really fast. you get what im saying?

but i am glad your safe. take care!

[PinkTrash]

Loll. yeah, i called my dad like right away, and he offered to come pick me up if he really did get off the bus with me =/ which i would've liked kicked him where it hurtt but then..

[[Scr3amin][Horro...]

Yeah some guyz on a motorcycle
Was stalkin me
I have no idea who it was .
I have seen him twice already

[5ayuri]

2) Draw a unibrow on your head

And yeah it has happened to me before..some guy was following me in a store..freaky. I think there are other times but I cant remember.

[Eryi]

I'm being stalked right now by my neighbor/classmate.

[xaznxehgix]

hmm...scary stuff. never happened to me!

[sharerol]

Oh wow, I'm sorry for you. That sounds really creepy. And me? No, I don't believe I've ever been stalked.

[so0o_contagious]

I think this a girl thing (obviously) because you dont see too many cases of guys being stalked.

but i am happy your safe. if you by yourself, try to make obvious ways for them not to do anything. try being on a phone the entire time if you notice someone "stalking" you because if they do jump you or anything, you can say where your at really fast. you get what im saying?

but i am glad your safe. take care!

lol. i stalked a guy before for fun though. and it was just 5 minutes and then he started talking to my friends and i. lol.

anywho. yes i have in this store called uwajimaya. and i had fuze in my hand [the drink] and this old guy in about his late 40's? came up to me ad said "oh your still driking that? you should let her drink some [my sister]" and he pointed at her. and i just mugged him and said i already did and so i told my sister that we should go eat . then she STOPPED TO LOOK AT A POSTER. and i turned around and i saw him looking at us and he hid behind a shelf. so then i just grabbed my sister and called for a ride home. it was really scary.

[jeSs1cA]

Yeah, a few people have just like followed me & my friend around. We didn't wanna go straight back to my house because then he would know where I live. We pretended we were walking up to another house & he kinda backed off. He was in a car too, and then when he drove by.. we ran to my house & then we saw him drive by again. Luckily, we were in the house safely.

Glad your okay though.

[wayne]

LYK OMG. I've been stalked. Sick stuff ya know.

[dahding]

my sister got stalked once..so my dad found the guy and beat the crap out of him. sucker.

[dao]

ahh.. i brought one memory... thats why now i go walking with at least 3 ppl and wear some dirty looking clothes

[*lolita kitty*]

aww... thats so sad...

i was walking to the movies with my friend patricia last year, when this guy honked his horn SUPER LOUD and i looked over. then he did that "come here' thing with his finers. i pointed to myself and said, me? then he nodded and we screamed and ran off.

that was scary shit. he had on huge dark glasses, a trenchcaot [huge and black] and a hat covering most of hid head. i was freaked.
oh, and he was in a huge black suv. he just makes nothing obvious, no?

[*jooleeah*]

1) Carry Pepper Spray
2) Draw a unibrow on your head

Kim...you're so silly.

Yeah, stalkers are scary. This car followed my mom and I on the way home....but once we reached our neighborhood, they went a different direction. Eek.

Oh, I have a piece of advice. If you're in a car and you think somebody's following you, make three right turns. If they keep on following you, that's not right, because the "stalker" just went around in a circle.

[e[m]]

Creepy.

One time I was walking with my friend in her neighborhood and this weird old lady kept following us...We kept stopping to see if when we sat down she'd just pass right by, but each time she'd stop just a couple yards behind us. But she didn't end up doing anything.

[parallel]

I've been stalked by an ugly kid in the 7th grade.

But no. Not me. I know someone who saw a kidnapper from Sacramento videotaping the kid across the street from them.

[PinkTrash]

this is scaringg me.
im too scared to take the bus tomorrow. what if i see the same guy? and someone veryy freaky just called my cellphone and im totally FREAKEDOUT =/

[YourSuperior]

I have felt that way before. I was walking down the street when I lived in Chicago, and this guy wearing a leather coat followed me wherever I went. I went through pathways and all, and wherever I went he went also. When I finally got home he said is your mom home, and guess who it was. MY COUSIN BRYAN. I DIDNT RECOGNIZE HIM, because I was looking out of the corner of my eye. I felt so stupid.

[AZNmonkeyx3]

yepp...thats kinda freaky...but that never happened to me before and i dont want it to happen to me...

[Looow]

When I was like 8 or something my teacher told me that every time I went home a guy always followed me and like hid everytime I went into my house (I live across the street from my old elemantary school). I have so freaked out.

[PinkTrash]

.. whoa. was she jokingg

[Fallen Fairy]

I would have started yelling for help.

fallen fairy

[enyceXaddiction]

yes..its a scary feeling..

[demolished]

He might want to rape you. He want to do something unpleasant and disrespectful to your body property. (IMP) Anyways, thats a great benefit of having cell phone with you all the time when you're not w/ a friend. Always have protections and backup. Glad you are okay.

[sadolakced acid]

man, if i were stalked, i'd be like... hell yea. but i'm a guy.

always lock your car doors.

story driver's ed teacher said today:

this guy, his girlfriend was driving to his house. she stopped at a traffic light, a guy got in with a knife. made her drive to a remote place, then raped her. took the car keys and threw them into a field, she had to walk to her boyfriends house and call the police there.

yea so; always lock your car doors.

[[Deep]Thought63]

hmm.. there was this guy that would always follow me every day for 3 years at my school and would pick on me, but i showed that bitc* up. so one day i go tired and i said, 'fuc*er, get out of my case', and he cried his head off. i found out later he was gay. stupid stalker, im straight. i have no interest in boys, shiethead. what a dumbas*, he said he was gonna rape me after he killed me, he had a knife in his pocket. so i ran, and crap, called the police, heh, i never wanna see that gay mutherfuc*er

[xquizit]

I got in the car with one once (not knowing he was a stalker of course). I was hitchhiking and needed a ride home. He drove past my house and said he wouldn't drop me off unless I gave him a kiss first. I declined and he grabbed me a few times before I hysterically started crying and tried to jump out of the car. Instead, he dropped me off on the side of the road and I had to walk 30+ minutes home in the dark.

I was 18 at the time.

[*lolita kitty*]

I got in the car with one once (not knowing he was a stalker of course). I was hitchhiking and needed a ride home. He drove past my house and said he wouldn't drop me off unless I gave him a kiss first. I declined and he grabbed me a few times before I hysterically started crying and tried to jump out of the car. Instead, he dropped me off on the side of the road and I had to walk 30+ minutes home in the dark.

I was 18 at the time.

oh.. wow, thats freaky...
mygosh, im never hitchhiking. =o

[eli5e]

yesss it's so sad how societyy is ...godd ..some freakkkyyy people in this world, eh??

nothings like that has ever happed to me before .. ...... as far as i kno.w ... i hope =P

[*salcha*]

Ohhh, this is why we go to the bathroom in pairs. Hmm.

[toodlepops.]

Woah, that's so freaky. I'm paranoid to go out alone nowadays.

[[Deep]Thought63]

I got in the car with one once (not knowing he was a stalker of course). I was hitchhiking and needed a ride home. He drove past my house and said he wouldn't drop me off unless I gave him a kiss first. I declined and he grabbed me a few times before I hysterically started crying and tried to jump out of the car. Instead, he dropped me off on the side of the road and I had to walk 30+ minutes home in the dark.

I was 18 at the time.

whoa! roxanne, you escaped a pervert good job. mind me this, buy pepper spay, play to blind.

[sw33t_rouge]

i was walking home from scool and these teenage boys started following me...then hah..i ran but they caught meand started...ick asking weird stuff..thankfully my neighbors saw me..phew.

[seriouslynikki]

How sad. I feel bad for you. I did feel stalked by this guy in church. Yeah. It was scary. He keeps on following me and sitting beside
Then i just ran for my life.

You should never go out by yourself.

[jue]

oh wow; what did your parents say?
good thing you had a phone and all.

[iheartsimba]

That's so scary! Omg. Good thing you had your phone =/

Walking to this place I go to..I have to walk down a road. And these scary guys always yell things out of their cars or honk or somethign! I think it's extremely disturbing..one time my friend and I were walking there and this car honked and yelled something. Then it turned and followed us when we turned into the street! It left though. Cuz' be being paranoid, took out my phone and pretended to be talking to my mom! =/

[3ssx]

i've only been followed by guys at school... when i would walk home, they would follow me almost the whole way. keeping their distance

the smartest thing to do is to have a cell phone, and be with a friend or a big group of friends.

[PinkTrash]

My parents kept telling me what to do if i ever saw that guy again.. Unfortunetly, I have to take that same route every single day for summer courses I was so scared and kept praying I wouldn't see that guy today, and luckily I didn't Yeah, when I get off the bus and Im about to enter my house I always talk on the phone.. just because ;D

[maia_dc]

Actually today I was walking home from work, when I saw this van of construction workers up ahead of me. I was just walking normally and when I walked past, the guys stopped the van. So I just kept walking and didn't really look at them. But then they started to drive like 1mph RIGHT BEHIND me, and I was so freaked out, I just kept walking faster and faster. Then the van sped up a little, and stayed RIGHT BEHIND me. AHHH I was so scared I just turned the corner and pretended to go into a house that wasn't even mine...

Luckily they had to turn another corner at one point.

[*takingbacksandy*]

I got in the car with one once (not knowing he was a stalker of course). I was hitchhiking and needed a ride home. He drove past my house and said he wouldn't drop me off unless I gave him a kiss first. I declined and he grabbed me a few times before I hysterically started crying and tried to jump out of the car. Instead, he dropped me off on the side of the road and I had to walk 30+ minutes home in the dark.

I was 18 at the time.

wow that must be scary. no i have never been stalked before but i had a good hitch hiking experience. it was winter, and the metro bus dropped my friend and i off a mile away from my house. it was cold, freezing, and i felt like i was going to pass out.. an suv pulled up, two ladies asked us where we lived and if we needed a ride. my friend and i were both deseperate, so we hopped in. thankfully, we both made it home safely. it was a scary, yet fun experience.. i'll probably never do it again though.. but i learned not all strangers are horrible people.


and you should never be by yourself anywhere. to avoid situations like those, go to places in a big group.. even walking home from school, you should ask a friend to come along. i've heard so many stories about kids walking home by themselves.

[ghjgfkgfk]

this is why we should carry guns in our purses, or bricks.

- never go out by yourself

omfg. i had a brick in my locker last school year

[*incoherent*]

that is kinda scary...good thing you had a phone.

[emazing]

That is a pretty scary experience, but thankfully, it hasn't happened to me before, you should really try taking Nikki's advice about not going out by yourself. Just go with some of your guy friends.
They will probably scare any other future stalkers away.

[shortiiex]

that's freaky....you should always bring a friend with you to be safe...

or
kick him in the balls and run

[rx_azngirl]

nope because i always go somewhere with my friends and my dad doesn't let me walk home alone from school.

[kaB00M]

Woah, scary. Luckily, I never been stalked. But I always keep a look out when I'm walking by myself. I'd turn around to see if anyone is following me every minutes, I always hear some sort of footsteps. I get scared....cautious everytime a car would pass by, especially when the car is driving slowly. I can be very paranoid sometimes .

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