can you hug your crush in front of their parents? |
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 Jul 4 2005, 03:30 PM
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can you hug your crush in front of their parents?
------------------------------------------------------- do you think you'd get in "trouble" by your crush's parents if you hugged your crush in front of them? this is not your gf/bf, this is your crush. a few days ago, when i was about to leave someone who i had a crush on, i was planning on hugging her before i left, but i didn't because her parents where there. did i do the right thig by not hugging her in front of her parents. and i think this is relavant but, these were filipino parents. 
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Jul 4 2005, 03:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
umm...datz tough...well...yoo could hug her...but like... they could care and they myte not... cuz i did once in front of his parents..and they dont really care...so...i onno....
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Jul 4 2005, 03:51 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 159,034 |
well, it would of been okay to hug her if we were alone before i left right?
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Jul 4 2005, 03:55 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Smilessss, can you type correctly please? It's kinda annoying to read things typed like that.. Thanks
ANYWAYS.. It depends on her parents. If her parents allow her to have a boyfriend, then of course you can hug her (I know she's just a crush, but if she has a boyfriend, wouldn't her parents expect hugging?), but if they don't then just stick with waving goodbye. EDIT I just saw that you asked if you could hug her while you were alone. Of course you can. It's not like her parents are there.... I hug my guy friends all the time!! |
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Jul 4 2005, 04:04 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 159,034 |
well, i hugged her mom. and shook hands with her dad.
edit.//again, i'm refering to hugging your crush, not a gf/bf. |
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Jul 4 2005, 04:04 PM
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 °¤*Kandii Giirl*¤° Group: Member Posts: 202 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,876 |
Yea, his parents are cool and they don't act crazy so, yea.
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Jul 4 2005, 04:08 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Yah me and my bf hug infront of my parents but Not kiss...hugging and holding hands a little bit of cuddling is fine
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jul 4 2005, 04:42 PM
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It depends how strict their parents are when it comes to having their daughter dating. They might take it as the wrong message if you do. But if she has alot of guy friends, then it shouldn't be a problem.
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| *mzkandi* |
Jul 4 2005, 04:50 PM
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I have never in a situation when I had to but it wouldnt bother me.
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| *anubis* |
Jul 4 2005, 05:13 PM
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of course.
it's not like we're doing anything sexual. it's just a hug. i can't imagine what parents would have a problem with THAT 
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Jul 4 2005, 05:20 PM
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 luv me :* Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,547 |
it's fine if ya hug her...it aint nethin bad i mean come on its a hug!
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Jul 4 2005, 05:38 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it should be alright, i mean it's just a hug.
my parents doesn't really care |
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Jul 4 2005, 05:39 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
its just a hug. no big deal.
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Jul 4 2005, 06:57 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Yea sure why not, hugs are no big deal, unless they have really strict parents that don't let them date and stuff. I think you should find that out first before you hug them.
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Jul 4 2005, 07:00 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 159,034 |
er, i regret it.
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Jul 4 2005, 07:08 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
I don't see a problem, unless she has a problem with it.
Everytime I hug someone I get the 3rd degree on who she is, where she's from, ect. That might be all you wory about. |
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Jul 4 2005, 07:14 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
There shouldn't be a problem. As long as the parents approve of you.
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| *suddenly she* |
Jul 4 2005, 07:14 PM
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i can't hug anyone in front of my parents or any adults.
adults meaning you haven't been in college for at least a year. |
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Jul 4 2005, 09:05 PM
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brooklyn brooklyn Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 163,315 |
What a stupid question...
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Jul 4 2005, 09:10 PM
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I'd say it really depends on how many people you hug, and they are. If you normally hug friends (usually girls, Guys only if you're real close) then feel free to hug your love interest in front of your parents. That is, if you're friends enough to do so already.
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Jul 5 2005, 12:05 AM
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 :] Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 162,876 |
i agree with everyone that says "it's jus a hug"'
but iono some parents are really strict well im flip too and i must say that my parents wouldnt really care if some guy who liked me gave me a hug. but iono i dont think race matters...it's jus really the parents in general. |
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Jul 5 2005, 06:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
there is nothing wrong with it... after all, its just a hug
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Jul 5 2005, 06:13 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
don't be stereotypical, and theres nothing wrong with it. its not like you're banging her in front of them lols.
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| *not_your_average* |
Jul 5 2005, 07:43 PM
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QUOTE(HieuloveJazz @ Jul 4 2005, 9:05 PM) What a stupid question...  ^Don't spam, please. And you need to resize your signature. Well, I personally wouldn't hug my crush in front their parents, but if you're comfortable with it, then go ahead. |
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Jul 5 2005, 07:52 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
some ppl here dont get it. i know lots of ppl whos parents dont like the idea that their son or daughter is actually touching the other sex! haha.
but me? i wouldnt. |
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Jul 5 2005, 08:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
it depends how he says our relationship is...like we are JUST friends
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Jul 5 2005, 08:04 PM
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 ˘ž Wanting it. ˘ž Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
there's nothing wrong with that at all.
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Jul 5 2005, 11:23 PM
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um...yes.
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| *stephinika* |
Jul 6 2005, 12:39 AM
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yeah. hugging isn't that big of a deal i don't think.
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Jul 6 2005, 12:41 AM
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 Lil JC Group: Member Posts: 868 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,741 |
no her dads a cop...
 he hates me
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Jul 6 2005, 12:43 AM
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 Donna-chan Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 |
QUOTE(stephinika @ Jul 5 2005, 7:39 PM) yeah. hugging isn't that big of a deal i don't think. same goes with me. Because their family knows that I hang out with guys, and I'm a good friend to them |
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Jul 6 2005, 12:44 AM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
you shouldn't
most parents with daughter don;t like it when daughters hug guys |
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Jul 6 2005, 08:45 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
i dont know how my parents would react, but they said im not allowed to date until im out of university
 {useless, because i already have a few times}well, infront of my crush {bf}'s parents, it'd be okay to hug him and stuff, but he might be too embarassed infront of them&afraid that they'll ask him too many questions about me afterwards. |
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Jul 6 2005, 10:47 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
My ex and I hugged infront of his mom after the school play. We both had crushes on eachother then.
My current crush [Yes, after 24 hours of being single I have a new crush  ] was too embarassed to group hug with me and my friends infront of his dad.I don't mind hugging them infront of their parents, but I would infront of my own. |
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Jul 28 2005, 01:07 AM
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 what do you think it says....if so obvious. Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
ccchhhhhyyyeaa.....ive hugged alot of girls and kissed them in the cheeks in front of my parents ....soo there really nothing wrong with that .
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Jul 28 2005, 01:11 AM
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I would not like my crush hugging me in front of my parents. Not because I'm not allowed a bf...just because i've nver really had one and it's just not expected. I don't even hug my girlfriends in front of my parents. It would be extremely weird for me and very VERY embarrising if a guy hugged me infront of my mom/dad.
If you're alone ofcourse you can hug her! |
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Jul 28 2005, 01:14 AM
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hm.. from my regrets i say.. JUST HUG THEM!! you will regret it.
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Jul 28 2005, 01:21 AM
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^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(Sinigang Master @ Jul 27 2005, 10:14 PM) hm.. from my regrets i say.. JUST HUG THEM!! you will regret it. wait, what are you saying? you will regret hugging them, or you will regret not hugging them? 
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Jul 28 2005, 01:30 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 159,034 |
oops.. i meant, "You will regret it if you don't."
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Jul 28 2005, 11:03 AM
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QUOTE(Sinigang Master @ Jul 4 2005, 4:30 PM) i think this is relavant but, these were filipino parents. that's very relavant. haha i'm a daughter of filipino parents . . and they are very over protective. i've hugged some crushes i've had in front of them , but they thought nothing of it - - they just thought they were friends.. so it was no biggie. just hug her. :P |
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Jul 28 2005, 01:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,292 |
Its just a hug its not like ur going all the way infront of your parents
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Jul 28 2005, 02:14 PM
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blank Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 184,639 |
well it all depends on the parents? but me, I would play it safe and not hug them..
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Jul 28 2005, 02:15 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
i dont hug anyone in front of my parents. at all.
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Jul 28 2005, 10:46 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 159,034 |
QUOTE(danielle_x3 @ Jul 28 2005, 12:03 PM) that's very relavant. haha i'm a daughter of filipino parents . . and they are very over protective. i've hugged some crushes i've had in front of them , but they thought nothing of it - - they just thought they were friends.. so it was no biggie. just hug her. :P yep.. filipino parents are sometimes over-protective. =P |
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Jul 28 2005, 10:50 PM
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 All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 |
I'd think so, if it was a friendly one.
Don't get all into it. (: |
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Jul 28 2005, 11:47 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 152,740 |
hell no i cant >__< i never hugged a crush of mines before ..
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