i need help, we are friend but i want more |
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i need help, we are friend but i want more |
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,085 ![]() |
me and this girl are best friends, we usually talk on the fone almost every day, unless she is at my house or visa versa. she falls for guys really easily because she keeps falling for the wrong ones. the guy she likes now she had already gone out with and broke up with him because he is an a-hole. and she went out with this dude 3 times and he treated her like dirt. shes says she cant live with out so wht do i do to get her to like me since we are already best friends?
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 ![]() |
Another topic which fits in Relationships.
![]() Well, tell her you like her or something and start asking her out. Just keep the flirtation going on. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,007 ![]() |
That's sort of a hard situation you have there...
You could tell her, like JAM said. But what if she doesn't like you back? You wouldn't want to ruin your friendship with your best friend. |
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![]() My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 ![]() |
Yeah, this should be in relationships. Hm, it looks like this girl isn't ready for a relationship judging by her choice in boys and how many times she's gone out with them. I think you two should just be friends for now. I know it's hard for you to keep your paws off her, but if you rush a relationship, it'll end just as fast.
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![]() Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748 ![]() |
omg i am in the sam situation but only the other way around .... in other words im in your friends position[always getting the wrong guys and telling my best friend] well i am asumming you keep telling her what type of guy she should b looking for... like some one who respects her treates her right etc. be that type of guy... she is your best friend you must know her well.. TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL! JUST TELL HER! who knows she may feel the same way
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You can't make her like you obviously. So the first thing you should do is tell her that you like her. And if she can't handle that fact and starts being all ignoring you, heh-what a nice friend. Take a chance. She likes you or not. Only one way to find out.
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![]() luv me :* ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,547 ![]() |
all u gotta do is show her u have an interest in her and if u see a sign she might like u then yeah ask her out
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lAzN YiN YanGl ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 376 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,905 ![]() |
Be honest...don't try to hint her that you like her because she most likely won't notice because you are such good friends.
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![]() This bitch better work! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 ![]() |
TOPIC MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS
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![]() :] ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 162,876 ![]() |
well she keeps falling for the wrong ones
and if you think that ur the rite one for her then show her prove to her that you can be better than any of the other guys that she falls for she's had to many heartbreaks and prolly so many tears that she needs a guy like you and if she rejects you which i would doubt she will dont be sad cuz im sure at one point she'll realize ur wats best for her but until then continue to be there for her continue to be a friend |
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![]() 07 isz coming ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 ![]() |
let her know how ya feel...who noz, she might feel tha same way, but you're nvr gonna find out if u don't get it out there. if she's not into u, u'll still be her best friend... hopefully she'll be glad to have the chance w/ someone that's not a total @ss.
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![]() d@niel ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,267 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,453 ![]() |
yes, talk with her...maybe she doenst now that you really want a relationship with her...or maybe she just wants it the way it is...i hope you find a good solution
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