friend troublee, pleasse help, i need advice asap :[ |
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 Jul 3 2005, 10:11 PM
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 between your smiles and regrets  Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,217  |
all right well my friend and i are like best friends but like almost everytime she ditches me for her friend laura and like she ditched me last minute because we were going to see the movies so i was like allright whatever, i`ll watch a movie with my sister. then she IMs me saying "whats with the attitude, your sucha female dog* and then i say "um i dont have an attitude" and then she said "omgg i`m gonna tell joey what you told me" [joey is a kid i like] and then she keeps saying i`m a "female dog*" and saying "ew your so cool"[sarcasm] and sayng "omggz your sucha "female dog" and i never started with her.. what should i do? should i still be friends with her? like i confronted her and everything except she said "gosh, you used to be sucha nice person" and does she expect me to not stand up for myself when she calls me a female dog*?
* = words changed to appropriate setting btw, thanks to the people who give or is about to give me the advice<33 |
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| *wind&fire* |
Jul 3 2005, 10:19 PM
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what? the last couple of sentences were a blur... well no longer be friends with her.. or just confront her
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Jul 4 2005, 12:03 AM
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 silly rabbit Group: Member Posts: 153 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,435 |
ddnt u post this already??
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Jul 4 2005, 12:12 AM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
Confront, then action.
You confronted, now for action. This female dog* has to understand that you're a force to be reckoned with. That you won't roll over and take this. Trust me, I've been walked on so much because I'm a "nice guy" and I've been guilted into things. You can still be nice and forceful at the same time. Just don't fight back like she does. Be NICE to her, but almost OVERLY nice to her. THis way, she can't tell Joey any of the "mean things" you did. And, she might ease up. |
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Jul 4 2005, 12:18 AM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Gosh what a female dog*.. This girl is not even worth it. I mean she went as low as blackmailing you to your crush.. Forget about her.
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Jul 4 2005, 12:20 AM
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 d@niel Group: Member Posts: 1,267 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,453 |
i hope my advie helps. well, u said u were 'best' friends. think about this: do you think she really thinks of you as a 'best' friend also? if she ditches you, you should just stop hanging out w/ her. if she really wants to be a friend, then she will do what she thinks is right. if you tell her that she ditches you, and she argues and then gets mad, then she obviously doesn't know herself enough. don't go easy or 'nice' on her. it seems like it's your choice. u should decide whether you want to stay friends or not.
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Jul 4 2005, 12:41 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Let me ask a question. How can anyone that calls you a female dog* be considered a best friend??? She's not even good enough to be a friend.
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Jul 4 2005, 08:17 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i don't think you should even consider her as a friend let alone your best friend i mean, she threatens to tell your crush bad things about you, she calls you a 'female dog' and she ditches you for someone else.
you should just forget bout her, and find other better friends that'll treat you the way you should be treated. she's just taking for granted her friendship with you. you shouldn't fight back like she does, that'll just make you 'sink' to her level. just ignore her. she'll soon go away. |
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| *mzkandi* |
Jul 4 2005, 08:27 AM
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You can do better without her.
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Jul 4 2005, 04:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
dang! shes da one whos a mean *female dog* ...if i were yoo i would not b friends wit her nemore... wat kinda friend is she?!
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Jul 4 2005, 05:50 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
DUMP HER. what kind of a friend is she? looks like shes the b*itch
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Jul 4 2005, 06:52 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Wow she sounds like a horrible friend, you don't need people like that in your life, they only bring you down. Tell her off, cause she doesn't deserve friends after all the mean things she is saying to you.
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Jul 4 2005, 07:15 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Ditch her. Ditch her like a hot potato. She ain't worth it.
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Jul 4 2005, 08:47 PM
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 :] Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 162,876 |
QUOTE Confront, then action. You confronted, now for action. This female dog* has to understand that you're a force to be reckoned with. That you won't roll over and take this. Trust me, I've been walked on so much because I'm a "nice guy" and I've been guilted into things. You can still be nice and forceful at the same time. Just don't fight back like she does. Be NICE to her, but almost OVERLY nice to her. THis way, she can't tell Joey any of the "mean things" you did. And, she might ease up. i agree i agree i agree :] |
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