i feel so ugly... =(, i look into a mirror and i see uglyness Options

[takeapolaroid__x]

this may sound wierd, but whenever i look into a mirror, i see PURE ugliness. i hate everything about my body. i ALWAYS have bags under my eyes and i have huuuugely fat thighs and i feel like if i wear shorts or skirts (even though i do...) everyone will see my huge fat ugly thighs wobbling about like jello on a vibrator.

is there any way you can help me?

[MeLoNiSyUmMy]

umm..the only thing i can say is..use make up or go on a diet?..
im sure that you're pretty! dont say you arent becuase everyone is pretty.

i think that you think youre ugly beucase youve seen yourself in the mirror so many times that youve gotten use to your face/body. unless youre concieited or something, everyone probably thinks that they're ugly since like ive said; theyve seen themselves so many times. i know ive gone through that stage but people think im pretty so you are too!

[enyceXaddiction]

same here. dont everyone? they look at themselves in the mirror and always seem to pick out the bad stuff about them. try to think at the positive side. what are the good things about you? as my teacher says look in the mirror and say "i am beautiful" although i find it so stupid

[BrokenDream]

beauty counts for alot of girls and guys. it doesn't really matter. you were born the way you were, and you are probably still beautiful anyways! I mean, seriously, I don't worry about my beauty that much. God made me the way I am.

[mouse_3k]

it dont matter if your ugly or not. if your ugly get over it. Then it will mean u will find a guy tht AINT for ur appearance. Being pretty aint the best thing in the world.

[missknowitall141...]

everyone is beautiful in thier own way. what you should do is write down your good quilties, on the outside, and inside. and then read the list off to your self. it works, and just remember, that everyone feels like that everyonce and a while

[takeapolaroid__x]

i read in some random magazine that its a disorder though

[mouse_3k]

being ugly is a disorder...thts kinda stupid..if you want to blame it on something, u can blame it on ur parents *shrug*

[takeapolaroid__x]

lmfao look at the thingee beneath my avatar thing

[Fallen Fairy]

You need to learn to appreciate yourself.
You are you.
eat healthy and excersice, you get from your body what you put into it.

fallen fairy

[Fallen Fairy]

SORRY I DOUBLE POSTED

fallen fairy

[inthemudhole]

You're not the only one.
A lot of teenaged girls think the exact same way.... it's mainly having to do with low self-esteem and a bad personal body image.
You can't do much but change your appearance to how you like it, get over it, or try and be more optimistic.

[nyctophiliac]

If you're so ugly, then why do you have "Hotter than your mom" in your sig?

[littlelady7]

ahem...

I AM BEAUTIFUL!! NO MATTER WHAT THEY (or I) SAY!! (my) WORDS CANT BRING ME DOWN!! OH NOOOOO. I AM BEATIFUL! IN EVERY SINGLE WAY!! blah.. blah dont know the rest of the song.

NOW...

SING IT!

[technicolour]

I agree with the song. I have the same problem. One time i was wearing this really baggy shirt and they couldnt see my boobs and someone thought i was a guy. I cried and cried. I wear makeup with hopes i can look a litttlleeee bitter but eh. You gotta find the beauty in yourself first. Don't think it's just on the outside. It's inside, and once you find it, then it'll come and be apparent on the outside.


Ok. that sounded like i'm telling you to smear blood all over your face. dont do that. gross. but, just ignore your mind saying you're ugly, and follow your heart that's telling you to be beautiful.

[aznxdreamer]

your not ugly. you just got super low self esteem. ^_^

[Spirited Away]

"There's nothing sexier than a woman who knows she's sexy".

First, get some self-esteem.
Second, exercise, not for beauty, but for your health.
Third, talk to people who cares for who you are on the inside. Meaning, shallow people who only cares about looks are not worth your time. People like that can make the prettiest girls feel dirt ugly.
Fourth, learn to use make up. Though it isn't necessary, it is fun and is a great way to make you feel better (at least sometimes it is to me. I like experimenting with make up when I have free time). BY THE WAY, when you experiment enough, you'll find ways to hide or even get rid of dark circles under your eyes.

No one else can make you pretty. Why? Because "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".

[angelrevelation]

haha srry that jello description made me laugh

i agree with uninspiredfae. lots of the time it's all just in your head

[berry_lickable]

beauty comes in many shapes color and sizes

[rx_azngirl]

Just don't think that you're ugly. Everyone is unique.

[ichigofan]

Dont think like that, Just because your thighs have some meat on em doesnt mean that there nasty your probably very beautiful and you have to start thinking that way dont give in to what the media potrays as the "pretty" girl cuz like rx_azngirl said everyone is unique!!

[aznhunnie6o1]

If you're so ugly, then why do you have "Hotter than your mom" in your sig?

Yeah.. I was wondering that too...

"There's nothing sexier than a woman who knows she's sexy". 

So truee..

I used to think I was ugly till I got more self esteem.. And now I think I'm a sexy [wo]manimal.
Raise your self esteem hun. People think of you the same way you think of yourself.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

No matter how much makeup you throw on yourself you'll still be you. So remember that beauty is only skin deep. And plus everyone has bags under their eyes unless their like pure goody goodys who sleep at 6:30 PM. To me, a person is sexy when they have confidence in themselves. Doesn't matter if they have the bod or not. Appreciate that you were born healthy there are so many others that are less fortunate then us. Appreciate that you're even alive today. I mean some people are physically challenged. Know that everyones beautiful in their own way.

[IamRad]

some days i think im really ugly.. but then others im like "wow im actually not that bad looking"

its a phase and ull grow out of it eventually... just learn to love what u look like and ull be fine.

[Paradox of Life]

^ Yeah, it's just a phase. There's a phase in your life where you're just really self-conscious and there's nothing you can do about it. A lot of times I think I'm the ugliest girl on earth whenever I look in the mirror and a lot of times I close my eyes whenever I pass something that will show me my reflection. You'll grow out of it and you won't care anymore.

What can you do to make it better? Don't think about it and instead of pointing out flaws about yourself, find the positives.

[michelle_07]

if you always have bags under your eyes you could try this:
take a really cold spoon [like one that's been in the freezer for a while] and hold it on your eyelids. i think that's supposed to help. getting the right amount of sleep always helps too. plus, you're not cranky and it might make you feel better.

[tommyhilfiger_gu...]

for your thighs, i would suggest you start working out, my dad started working out everyday, and he lost like 30 lbs- so start working out on a treadmill (if you have one) or just go on a diet

[love_101_213]

when you talk about your self i dont think that your helping your self feel better about how you look i'm shure not every one thinks ur ugly and they probly have worst and that you should be thank ful for i'm shure you dont look as bad as you say "put a smile along"

[iheartjohn]

Join the club, hun. My self-esteem isn't too high, either.

When I want to feel pretty, I just relax myself - like taking a really long bubble bath, do my nails or experiment with makeup. Or go to a spa.

[littlelady7]

yeah, its not whats on the outside, hun. its the inside.

if ur nice, caring, honest, and sweet, UGLY does NOT compare to your PERSONALITY. no matter what. PERIOD

[PinkTrash]

dont worry, a lot of people feel that way about theirselves. really, it doesnt matter because nobody would really say anything to your face; or no one would like them :)

[miz_kura]

your personality means 13489735982732x much better than your outer appearance =] if you need to talk im always here for you haha *hugs* things will get better if you dont think about it.

[*chaneun*]

Go on sloganizer.net, it'll boost your self esteem.

[nerdxcore]

well you can do leg work outs. if you aren't happy with the way you look you can change it. i don't mean plastic surgery or anything. just simple work outs. and maybe something to get your self esteem up. you sound very pretty tho! good luck.

[Looow]

Yeah I have a low self esteem. A really low one, actually but WTH, your signature says hotter than your mom.

[jeSs1cA]

Aww, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Don't say that about yourself, you're putting yourself down! You need a big ego builder!

Maybe you can try using some makeup if you don't think your pretty? And if your worried about your body weight, maybe you can talk to your parents about joining in the local gym or go jogging on your own if they won't pay the money for you.

[sindeecindy]

I felt (feel?) that way.... and did soemthing very bad...i tried to make myself seem as ugly to others as I felt. (I couldn't stand being told how cute or pretty I was from adults when ii said how ugly i felt). I don't think ne1 can help you....you can learn stuff to help yourself. Ask for help if you need it.

[xldubaliciousx]

If you're really unhappy with your appearance.. Do something about it. Excercise. Eat right. Go help other people.

[dragyn]

I agree with the idea that you look in the mirror a lot, and you get used to what you see. Try doing something new, like putting your hair up different, or doing your makeup different. Just once. You don't even have to be going anywhere. When you change one little thing it will make you see several things differently.

Also: I think big legs are attractive in a way. I don't mean having cellulite hanging off you, but size alone is nothing to complain about. I have really big thighs, and I adore them. People tell me I have sexy legs all the time. Just make sure they're in good shape, and it doesn't matter how big they are.

I also think it's a good suggestion to write down your good qualities. Try to think about each and every facet of your body individually. Divide and conquer, right?

You might want to do the same thing with your personality traits. Feeling good about the kind of person you are reflects on the way you feel about your appearance. It sounds weird, but it's true.

[takeapolaroid__x]

If you're so ugly, then why do you have "Hotter than your mom" in your sig?

2 reasons:
1: its a joke with my friend
2: its based on my mom. shes butt-ugly.

[limanman]

first of all,
you should be more confident about yourself.
don't always feel that you are ugly.

then,
you can make up and dress up yourself.
you can ask the opinion of your friends about these.

[imsofargone711]

dont even say that, youre probably drop dead gorgeous but you dont even realize it.

[duplicatex0x0x0]

You should't put yourself down so much. I'm sure that everyone isn't happy with themselves, because no one is perfect. It's just a part of life. I know that I'm not the best looking guy on the block. But as long as I can still be happy with who I am I don't really care.

[islandkiss]

eh. I could understand how you feel. I'm just a really self concious person and I ususally feel insecure with myself.

[IamRad]

right now im going through a phase where i need to get rid of every zit i have on my face to make me feel pretty


a'djasd[asd i hate it....

[sheddingtears]

some days i think im really ugly.. but then others im like "wow im actually not that bad looking"

its a phase and ull grow out of it eventually... just learn to love what u look like and ull be fine.

damn i feel the same way sometimes.

yeah, dont worry about it.
just drink lots of water, exercise, and get plenty of rest.
besides, if youre so hot, every guy will love you for the wrong reasons & it wont be true love. & if looks were the only thing that kept you guys together, what will happen when it's gone?

BEAUTY FADES!

so dont wish for beauty, it's only temporary.
be grateful for what you have.
at least youre not blind, missing an arm, or anything like that that unfortunate people out there have.

[Spirited Away]

2 reasons:
1: its a joke with my friend
2: its based on my mom. shes butt-ugly.

Now that is ugly.

You know how it feels to feel ugly and imperfect. You hurt. Why would you want to hurt someone else by saying that she's ugly?

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

This happens to a lot of teenage girls. It's just low self confidence. You should be happy with what you have. Don't take your body for granted. There is always some one who wishes they were you. There is always some one who thinks you're beautiful.
If you really think you're that bad looking start working out, getting more sleep, eat healthy, and drink plenty of water.

[quinntastic]

You are still young, and once you get out of the awkward teen years you will see yourself differently. I never liked how I looked when I was in high school, but I love the way I look now.

[shortiiex]

sometime i feel like that...you need to go on a diet and put on make-up or work on your self-esteem

[illesztnena]

You need to go to a gym or go on a diet. Use make-up and need to stop thinking that you're ugly cause no one is ugly in this world, we're jus all different in our own ways. So, from now do these things and instead of thinking so negatively of yourself when you look into a mirror, think 'Wow, today is gonna be a great day, and today I look the prettiest I cud ever be." You need to boost up your self.

[xosteffanator]

It's okay I have big thighs too. I'm sure ur pretty alot of people go through this during puberty and stuff like omg!!! I'm so fat!!!! My big toe is not big!!!!! What ever will I do? Ya know wat I mean. Don't worry it's probably just a phase. Next time you look in the mirror look harder and you will see how pretty you are And whatever you do DON NOT dtop eating- trust me my older sister sis that it was terrible you will never forget that you had an eating disorder, and you make look skinnier after but it's NOT worth it!!!!!!!- steffie

[xosteffanator]

It's okay I have big thighs too. I'm sure ur pretty alot of people go through this during puberty and stuff like omg!!! I'm so fat!!!! My big toe is not big!!!!! What ever will I do? Ya know wat I mean. Don't worry it's probably just a phase. Next time you look in the mirror look harder and you will see how pretty you are And whatever you do DO NOT stop eating- trust me my older sister had an eating disorder and it was terrible you will never forget that you had an eating disorder, and you make look skinnier after but it's NOT worth it!!!!!!!- steffie P.S. Sorry I had a couple spelling errors on the first one.

[iTS PATiLLA xP]

2: its based on my mom. shes butt-ugly.

Wow.. and you do realize that in a way.. you INHERIT your mom's looks right? Way to go on lowering your own self image even more.

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Bags.. i have bags too from not enough sleep. They don't really make a difference to me because most people have them. If you really care about it that much, make up.

Thighs? Why don't you go running or tone them instead of sitting down in front of the computer and complaining about them? Sitting down all the time eating is just going to make them even worse..

A lot of people have low confidence.. but personality makes up SOOOOO much of it. I know this one guy who is NOT that cute IMO but his personality makes up for soo much. You should just look past those things like everyone else said, and realize that it's not as bad as you think. My ex called me tons of names that made me feel self conscious (Thank goodness that's over) but I was totallllllllly over it because his opinions weren't worth it anyways.

[dancerellie714]

oh come on....even the most beautiful girls in the world have days when they think the same thing. i just think it's pretty much a universal problem at one point or another...until you learn to love yourself. i mean really...when you think about it...can you do anything about it to fix your problems in a healthy way? then do it. if you cant...then just learn to accept yourself and focus on what you're good at

if you cant see the beauty in yourself then it's that much harder for others to see it

[ichiban]

well if you have problems with your weight then exercise. go on a small diet. and i have bags under my eyes all the time too but i dont make a big deal abuot it.. i think you should just get over it. theres nothing you can do, just accept yourself the way u are

[aznangel4eva]

exercise -n- makeup.

it worked for me

[seriouslynikki]

I feel the same way as you do. i dont even wear makeup, so yeah. No one is ugly and everyone is beautiful in their own way.

[literemix24]

Lols, I have the same problem, but I learned that although I have flaws, there are also "perfections" to even it all out. Btw, its only a phase, you'll grow outta it.

[elaboratedream]

yeah, I know what you mean... everyone has a set image of perfection in their mind and untill they reach it, most people aren't happy about their appearance. What you have to realize is that that image isn't real. Everyone is pretty in their own way.
I hate the way I look too, 'cause I have big thighs/hips and it drives me crazy, but look for the good parts about your appearance.