am i being a b1tch for doing this? Options

[m&m]

>< ok ok . i broke it. lasted 3 months and a bit. i broke it once. i made up. he broke it once. he made up. i broke it yesterday and im pretii sure im not gona make up. i broke it for a number of reasons. but there was no way i was gona tell him that particular reason. ok. i told him this --> "its not the same anymore. we've both changed. it's not .. how wen i first liked you." >< that was tru. but the other reason was.. he was starting to hang out with this other chick .. a bit more often than normal. u c, he dusnt care. he has no idea wat im thinking. he was the one hu told me he went out with her. like he blogged. and in the recent blogs its like "i went out with "her" 2dai." i read her blog too. and they were similar. im definitley not jealous. i mean i coodnt care less. if they want to go out fine. but im not going b his lil friend who he can hold hands and hug for the rest of the day.
i duno wat im thinking. i think im being really selfish to think that. i mean he has friends. i cant b like "u cant go out with her".
but i do kinda feel .. half pissed or annoyed sumhow. i still duno y i find my self apologising and feeling guilty for breaking it.
but how wood u guys feel.. if ur bf/gf started going out wif another guy/chick a few too many times a week. and all their blogs are abt are each other.

[AZN_DRAGON]

if there the same, then i would ask my gf straight up if shes cheating on me. and if she promises then i'll trust her. but if she a person 2-3 times a week, i would break up with her because shes spending more time with the other person then with me. hope that would help.

[_sarcastic_]

you did the right thing, he obviously doesn't care about you why should you care. he should know that if he has a girlfriend, he shouldn't go iout with anyone else

[*mzkandi*]

Sounds like someone is a little jealous....
Forget about him, you can do better.

[enyceXaddiction]

you did the right thing. and you may be a lil jealous but thats completely normal

[Smilessss]

no ur not a biatch fo doin dis... i think yoo wat yoo did is da ryte thing... ^^...

[topsyturvy]

You were right to break it up, although you should admit that you are jealous. Come on, if you couldn't care less about "the other chick", then why would you not want to be "his lil friend who he can hold hands and hug for the rest of the day"?

[*jooleeah*]

Breaking up with him was the right thing to do. But...you're in denial right now. You are jealous, and that's what you have to admit. What I would do is talk to him, but since you don't really like him anymore, I guess you don't have to. I hope things get better for you.

[shannoniwamoto]

I think you did the right thing I mean , come on , AN0THER girl ? Lol thats just wrongg .. Unless they are only " friends " .. but i guess you will have to ask him to find out the truth .

[technicolour]

If there was even the slightest hint of another girl, honey, you did the right thing. Watch a good movie, eat chocolate

[ladystarr]

of course ur gonna be jealous, but u did the right thing =) so he mentioned her in his blog...did he ever blog about u? I know that seems kinda weird, but they must be really into each other to blog about each other...lol...

[m&m]

aha .. OK ok .. i admit.. mayb i was a bit.. a BIT jealous.. meh!
i jus think im being a biatch ,,. coz wat if.. they were really just friends? and im being too.. wats that word? yea.. he dus blog abt me sumtimes.. but no where as near as much as .. her.
i think im getting over him .. slowly.. but arghh i got a dance assesment coming up soon.. and he's my partner! *dies*

[sheepy]

that happened to me, my ex and this girl were hanging out a lot. but he told me not to worry, and to trust him. so i did, i trusted him with my everything. ha, nice going. alright, you can see where that lead me. anyways, i dont think you should feel guilty. i mean, sure i would be jealous. it's kind of .. natural to be. i mean having your bf hang out with someone else more than you? yeah. well now you can go and find someone who'll love you and would love to spend time with you(:

[parallel]

I would be pissed.
Don't take that from him.
Just be glad it's over between you too.

[Paradox of Life]

I know exactly what you mean, but the only thing you can do is get over it. It's inconsiderate of him to start going out with someone else right after breaking up with you. You don't want to be jealous, but you are and it's perfectly natural. You must be thinking, what is this imposter doing with my former boyfriend!! But obviously, he's not mature enough to be in a relationship judging by the way you two were very indecisive. Just watch, he'll break up with her soon enough.

[left_alone]

The same thing happened to me. He is immature for not taking your feelings into consideration.

And you seem like you are a little jealous.

[rii_chi]

i think you did the right thing. you shouldn't feel guilty about it.
u deserve someone alot better than that.oo and its okay to feel a little jealous but you'll get over it and move on.

[Mizz Rizza]

ur not a bitch
but maybe you are a little bit over reacting
i mean dont start jumping to conclusions
and dont start thinking that he's cheating on you
but i do think that you should talk it over with him
cuz who knows maybe they're like good friends
or another thing you could've done
if you didnt wanna talk it over with him
is invite him and the girl to the movies
the three of you
and see how they are together
and everything
if you jus see how they hang out together
you would know wether there's something
goin on between them