Have you ever been sexually harassed?, ...online... Options

[*lolita kitty*]

ok, i searched forever -_-;; nothing

anyways, have you ever been sexually harassed online? im not talking: one of your good guy friends jokes around and asks you a pervy question. i mean like, seriously.... yeah.

i have once, and only once, thankfully. it was when i was 10 and i started getting really addicted to the internet. i was new to alot of stuff, like e-mail, and im'img, so things surprised me. this guy e-mailed me and said "asl name pic"
well, being the newb to the internet i was, i had no idea what that was. my friend explained it to me and i was like "oooh.... someone wants to see me!!"
yeah, i was really dumb. so i im'd them a few days later, asking what they wanted. they were like "wtf? who are you?"
i explained the story to this guy and he said "oh.... hi, im matt. asl?" i told him and then he said back "cool. im 14/m/cali". what are you wearing?
as you know, im very stupid, and just responded "um. skirt, tank top...... and flip flops?"
my friend, who was over at the time freaked out and was like "OMG HE ASKED YOU WHAT YOUR WEARING!!!!"
i had no clue why, so i just shrugged. he said "cool. im wearing a t-shirt, jeans and shoes :) then i signed off.
the next day i got on, and it was a bit late at night. i had just made my first webpage, and uploaded a fww pictures of me on it from when i visited my aunt at her house. this same 'matt' guy got online again and asked me for my picture. i gave him tot link to my webpage, with many pictures of me on it. little did i remember [stupidness], was that i had one of me in my swimsuit. he responded "is that you in the swimsuit? your hotttt!!!!!!!!!!"
i was like "okay...." and then he got weird. he was like "can i have a picture of you in your underwear? or mabye naked?"
i got scared and said nothing. "do you have a webcam, he asked" i had no response. this guy was scaring me. he then began sending me a bunch of pictures of his ****...
i askd him why he wanted these, and he responded in stuff like "....little kids turn me on. im not even 14 you bitch. hahahahahaha"
then he told me he was really 43. i started cursing him out and told him how rude he was. he just laughed it off and said even freakier things to me. i dont remember much, because by then my slow-little self was too scared too say anything.
i logged off, reported him to yahoo, and deleted my webpage. i was scared to death for the next week or so -_-. looking back, this stuff wouldnt creep me out too much now. but being an 10 year old who just discovered im'img, scared me too much. im never letting that happen again.

my god, that turned out way longer than intended. anyways......... have any of you people ever been sexually harassed online? when? by who? was it an old man?

[toodlepops.]

Whoa, I would be really scared if that happened to me when I was 10. Come to think of it, I'd still be scared if it happened to me when I'm 14.

[melface]

ahhhhhhhh what the f**k... that's just gross.
but no... i think i'm too smart for that... even if i was 10 and that happened to me... i can spot a pedo from a block or more. :x

[zuhms]

Omg! That Mat kid is a perve! Btch ass. Haha. I would have freaky nightmares till this day if that happened to me when I was 10 o.O

[so0o_contagious]

some random guy imed me and asked me if i had a webcam. and i said no. 'cause i dont. and he started cursing at me and he said "if you dont right now. im gonna give you a virus. no need for blocking. its already on its way" and you know. i was young. but i remember blocking him and no virus was on my comp. i was scared.

[*basick*]

^ go to sleep

your story was very interesting blondiechick, i read it all lol

[so0o_contagious]

^ go to sleep

your story was very interesting blondiechick, i read it all lol

lol. you go to sleep.

[*basick*]

i dont sleep


okay good night

[*lolita kitty*]

this is what team late night was created for.
my moms alarm is going off. im not tired =]

[T_R_G]

go to sleep Cass, were team late night, not team early morning

[xenosaga]

woop! team late night rocks! anyways, no i have never been harrassed online. But in real life, heck ya! ewww

[takeapolaroid__x]

ive never been sexually harassesonline, but like, there was this one dude who insisted i put webcam on. when i did, he asked me to flash him and i said no and then he was really forceful and i got freaked so i exited the convo but he kept talking to me and saying stuff like (as the guy matt said to you) "kids below 15 turn me on" and s**t i was so freaked and i blocked him. he kept emailing me asking for pics of my boobz and... more... and it got worst. so i changed my email but then checked my old one because my friend who said she emailed my old one because she didnt know i had a new one. when i got on there, there was on email from the freaky dude. i cliked (coz im a dumbass) & he had emailed me saying: "i know where you live. i can come for you, you know. you can't get away from me. i'm coming." or something but i was so so so so so so freaked out. i called my mum over and she assured me he couldnt find us. i ws scared for ages but i got over it. lol. it was freaking scary. lol.

aaaanyway. im sure that matt wont come for you.

[*paul murphy*]

Thankfully not, no.

[heyyfrankie]

wow. that's creepy.
no, i have never been sexually harassed online...yet!

[cheezy]

Yea it happened to me many times..but i just get over it . in yahoo messenger they got chat rooms of all this sex stuff and all them perverted guys and girls go there.i went in there few times and it freaked me out. kids go in there and chat to them guys and have an online relationship and thats why many kids today run awway from home and they killed.

[*paul murphy*]

online relationships are soooo stupid

[Individualityy]

Wow that really is scary. o.O..As soon as people I don't know IM me..I ask them what their name is..and if I don't know them..I say "okay bye" and I just block them..lol..

They had an Oprah show special (YES I watch Oprah..it's awesome okay?) on this type of thing..some girl actually MET a guy who IMd her..and he sexually harassed her..there are organizations that have adults posing as teens that scout the net for online predators..but there's still so many people out there..it's scary stuff. Internet is a vast big world of unknown. =O.

[jennyjenny]

Once when I was like 9 this guy asked me if I ever seen a cock before and then asked if I wanted to see his. I said no. and then he was talking about his sister in a skimpy outfit or something. his screenname was like tommymn or some sort.

[*paul murphy*]

Once when I was like 9 this guy asked me if I ever seen a cock before and then asked if I wanted to see his. I said no. and then he was talking about his sister in a skimpy outfit or something. his screenname was like tommymn or some sort.

Y didn't u just go away from him?



Oh, a cuple a months ago this guy asked me if I had a brother. I said yea. He said "what age?", I said "fifteen"
Then he said "Have you ever seen him naked"...I said "AHHHHHH!", he sais "Haha, have u", I said "gtg, l8r"

Damn pedophille.

[Winter]

Unfortunately, yes. And by the ex boyfriend of a cB member. We were on webcam and he showed me his penis.

[The-Mach-Hare]

thats kinda freaky...but in a sense, it happens to a lot of people. thats why i know a lot of people that dont make photo blogs or put their info on xanga because you never know who could be looking at it.

[angel-roh]

Yesh that happened to me. This guy lied that he was 28, but he really was 54 years old. He was cyber sexing with me! First, I had no clue why he said "uh uh uh..." you know those moaning typing haha. First I was like... "what the heck is he trying to say?!?!?!" and he's like "have sex with me in the computer" T_______T;; it was so scary. but i was laughing so much! then he started to say take off your thong and show me your private spot blah blah. it was getting rated r, so i signed off fast and told all my friends about it and they were laughing about it... they told me that he was trying to cyber sex me... i didnt know what that meant until that day...wow -_-

[kill me please]

yeah thats happened before. like some guys will IM me and be like "hey i saw your xanga... blah blah blah" and im just like oook. and one guy was like "we should hang out sometime" and i lied and was like "im to busy" cause i was trying to be nice. he liked lived near me kinda... and was all getting mad cause i didnt want to see him... he ended up blocking me. i was glad. and some other guy imd me and so i said "uh i suppose you think im hot or something?" and he said "youre not hot, youre beautiful" i was like ew dude leave me alone. people online freak me out sometimes

[FilipinoFaShow]

if ppl that keep instant messaging me tellin me that i'm hot is harrasment, then yes

[EmmalieV]

Um well not really , I get alot of people messaging me " Your hot " etc etc , I wouldnt call that harrasment.

[sharerol]

Um.

My friend wanted me to talk to his cousin on AIM in a chatroom. He's only like...what, 8? So he starts calling me a bitch and whatever. And then my friend, his cousin, is all making fun of him. It was funny. So later on, his cousin IMed me saying "Hey bitch, I want to f**k the shit out of your P**sy" or whatever. Gee, what a screwed up little kid. So I blocked him. I have seen him in person a couple weeks ago. He acted nothing like he did online, but he was quite an annoying little brat. Him and my friend's brother. But whatever.

[emazing]

It hasn't happened to me before, but wow, that's scary. You never know how many old men go on the internet posing as teenagers, there are a lot of perverted and freaky people, and I guess they'd do anything to be the perverted freak that they were.

[*mona lisa*]

Yeah. Haha, that's why I don't go into public chats anymore. Especially on MSN.

[imhyper]

woah! dont they teach u about this stuff and internet at school?!
Well, anyway thats why im more carefull not giving in my identity to many websites, or much forums. Kids and teens have been raped and killed from psyco old men stalking them over the internet. its scary but true. i think this started happenning in the mid 90's>
a 14-15 year old girl was in sum forums, and made friends with this guy online, he made up a name and told her he was 18. They seemed to have their similarities, but inside he was 52.-never told her. When they bonded more, sumhow she shared her personal info, including address while they where chatting.
The guy left- he found her adress, where she lived, rapped and killed her, and also killed himself. -end.
This is just one of the cases i know that have to do with "cyberstalking" its true, and happens alot. usually, online stalkers look in blogs, and forums for info, and pics. Eventually, they'll find peoples email adresess if they look hard enough.
That's why i dont like posting pics of myself online. Im scared of those stalkers roaming around looking at me! ACK!>.< scary... and just to let u know, nothing like that happened to me before-good thing

[Kenado]

I havent but when I was with my cousin online she was harrased by a guy he was her to f*ck him

[iZnEedSuMcOkE]

geesh i can't even play a game of pool without some pedophile asking if i'm horny or if i want to cyber!!!

[jr0h]

i didnt want to read all what you wrote but getting a hint from what people is responding to you.. it mustve been some scary harassment. i havent really been harassed online thank god.

[inthemudhole]

Yeah, kind of.
This chick IMed me and told me she thought I was hot and kept asking me all these personal questions and sharing a lot of personal information of her own about her sex life and then she asked me to cyber and I said I didn't want to, but she got really detailed...
So... kind of, but kind of no?

[YourSuperior]

That's kind of freaky, and you were ten. Wow. Well no I've never been sexually harrased online. Lol.

[xbr0kensmil3]

something like that happened to me. a few years ago i would go on AIM chats and they would be like what are you wearing and stuff like that. and random guys IM me saying wanna go out with me and such when they haven't enen seen me and i'm like ok hahah and block them.
so i play yahoo pool and i got yahoo messenger. so all these ppl are always IM me for pics and such and i just tell them to eff off. effing pervs these days,

[*xcaitlinx*]

geesh i can't even play a game of pool without some pedophile asking if i'm horny or if i want to cyber!!!

tell me about it!

[x_o]

it happened to me and my friends while we were on jippii playing pool. the guy we were playing starts asking us a bunch of questions. my friend played along and put whatever.
him: asl?
alice: *makes something up*
him: what are you wearing?
alice: a towel.. i just got out of the shower...
and so on...
somehow they started fighting and calling each other "pansy" and other names. then alice was like "YOU GOT Xed!! there was a hidden web cam on this page!" and signed off.

[*lolita kitty*]

i didnt want to read all what you wrote but getting a hint from what people is responding to you.. it mustve been some scary harassment. i havent really been harassed online thank god.

yeah, it was scary. being told those things as a 10 year old just freaks you out...

[JlIaTMK]

Online.... I don't really think so.

In person, yes.

[SillyCourtney]

Yea, it's happened to me a couple of times. But, in all honesty, I thought nothing of it. There was this one time though that some creepo got my screenname somehow and got some personal info of mine. But you can have programs and stuff that can do that. I've moved since then, and I'm not afraid. Also got a new computer and several new screennames. Never heard from him since I got his IP address and told him I was going to report him to the police. There was this other time some retard kept sending me pictures of his wang and then he tried to send me viruses. Idiot didn't listen to me when I told him his crappy windows viruses wouldn't work on my computer, and over AIM I would have to accept the file, which I did not. Such idiots.

[enyceXaddiction]

omg thats freaky 43 ewww.

[angelrevelation]

umm no... thankfully. but i got this creepy email once... it was weird cuz i almost never get junk mail. it was called 'hymen girls' and something about a free webcam show, and the person kept saying things like sweetie and stuff it was creepy i blocked the sender just in case... they even said something about not telling parents. scary....