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[me1issaaaa]

Melissa has a problem. Wow.

Kayso... I have a boyfriend, and I have never been happier. However, I'm beginning to realize just how hard things are becoming. It's a long-distance thing. I'm in Georgia, he's in Texas. He's coming to visit me again this weekend and he'll be here for a week. I'm excited, but I have a feeling this will be the last time I see him. It's just too hard to be away from him all the time - I hate wondering what he's doing all the time, where he is, what he's thinking. As dumb as it sounds, I just need his touch. I need to feel him and know he's real. Chatting online and phone calls just aren't cutting it for me. He always has girls hanging off of him, they LOVE him where he is. I know he's not doing anything with them, I know that for a fact, but just knowing what could happen irritates me to the very end. I trust him, but I just don't know. I DON'T trust those girls at all.

I've been asked out quite a few times in the last few months, and I'm starting at a new school next year, so I'll be meeting loads of new people. I don't really want to be tied down to someone so far away when I could have someone here.

I've been feeling this way for a few days now, and I can usually convince myself out of it, saying how it'll be worth the wait, but... I'm young. I have a lot to experience. I have a lot of stuff I want to do without having to feel guilty, like just talk to other people. My boyfriend gets really jealous when I talk to other guys - he hates my guy friends. He does feel really bad about it, like we had this whole discussion on how much he hates to be like a controlling boyfriend, you know the thing.

My mind is just racing now. I'm at the point to where I just have no clue what to do. I don't want to feel so tied-down all the time, but at the same time, I know this is something I may never have again.

I'm so confused, I'm just blanking out. I'll probably have to edit this or add more on later because... I probably left out a bunch and I'll think of it later.

[CrazayChristian]

Ouch...
I say that every relationship has a chance, that there is never no chance.(It's a saying, bad grammar is needed.)

But, it's tough, it's always tough. Long distance expecially. People say long distance never works, it's not that it couldn't it's just so hard that it's worth waitint until y'all are closer or for someone else.

Things will get better, just find yourself and you can find your answer ^_^

[*tweeak*]

awwww, i didn't realize he was in texas i'm definitely not the best to take relationship advice from, seeing as i've never been in one, but i'll do my best. i know you're happy and you really like each other, but you should see how the week with him goes, and then maybe consider just being friends, if you think that would last. being really good friends would most likely be comparable to the way your relationship is going now, because if you have been asked out and since you are going to a new school, it might be easier for both of you to not to have to worry about possible betrayal, especially if he is the jealous type. it would be hard, and i definitely don't think you should do anything that you don't really want to do, but he shouldn't keep you from ejoying things and meeting people here, especially since it's your first relationship and...and i'm about to start repeating myself so i just hope things get easier for you and you do what's right

[me1issaaaa]

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Nickiiiiiiiiiiii I love you.

[Smilessss]

aww mm..dont wry i have a bf except hes at California ryte now..and will b visiting here dis summa... and yes it is really hard... sumtimes i want to hold him..but i cant because hes far away from me...and yes imma in GA too... but hes visiting me...but still..i kinda like sum1 else too...who's goin to ask me out..i just onno wen tho.. so i onno...but dont wry about it...have sum fun wit him!! *winks* lol

[technicolour]

Ok. Long distance relationships have very slim chances of ever working out. I'm in Texas, and when he moved to somewhere, [this was long time ago] I was so sad. Eventually we lost touch. IMO, the one thing i think that really makes a relationship work would be seeing eachother, face to face. being able to talk, face to face. being able to holds hands, hand to hand. you get the picture.

I, in your situation, would probably get someone there.