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[Janolam]

Don't you just hate the silent treatment? When your friend gets mad at you and stops talking to you and just ignores you? That just pisses me off and makes me sad. It gets me depressed for weaks.
Discuss.
[jerry]

[*Azarel*]

... I do that. With reason, of course.

[CrazayChristian]

I don't do that, I talk about it. And if I don't want to then I tell them.

But I don't like getting it>_<

[lit0chinagirl]

my friend did that to me a few times before in the past. it's mostly because they just need awhile to cool down about what happened, but we eventually talk it out somehow and i guess everything usually works out in the end. it does make me sad though because it hurts knowing that they just couldn't come to me-- since they mostly go to other people to discuss the situation first. i'd rather have them come to me first but it's alright if they ask someone for a little help i suppose...

[emazing]

Yes, especially when you don't know what the reason was in the first place. Of course, you can't talk to them, because they're giving you the silent treatment. Ah, the torture.

[clarissa]

who doesn't hate it? although, i admit, i have done it a few times before. but i've changed. those were elementary school days.

[5ayuri]

Yeah I have done that, we still haven't talked.

[Chii]

i don't associate with people who do that anymore, it's so immature, especially since it's something stupid or something that's really their fault

[Paradox of Life]

i don't associate with people who do that anymore, it's so immature, especially since it's something stupid or something that's really their fault

Totally. Actually this has never happened to me because I probably don't want to talk to them anyway.

Or I'm the one who gives others the silent treatment.

[pinayprincess]

of course.. to me, i dont care b/c it shows that they're immature to handle a little problem in there long living life

[WrathOfOnigo]

I'm not physically able to pull off a silent treatment for my life. But when other immature idiots give me the silent treatment I smack them. Violence solves everything!! Ok, that was one time! I usually end up having to talk through a chain of friends to stop the silent treatment.

[jennyjenny]

They're usually waiting for you to say sorry.

[yeseulx3]

my friend did that to me for about a month.
i guess she thought i "stole" two of her friends.
after a while, she started to warm up to me.
i don't know whether to fully trust her now, but i'm trying my best.
yeah, the silent treatment is never good.
for Christ's sakes, just be direct and tell others what problem you have against them.

[topsyturvy]

They're usually waiting for you to say sorry.

Agreed. At least that's what i'm doing when i give silent treatment..

[[x]Mari[x]]

Erh... I don't do the silent treatment... but if it's a really big thing to be mad about, I'll cuss alot and get pissed off.

Then I try to talk it out. -.-;;

[left_alone]

Lol. Silent treatment sucks. But talking is better to do than that.

[DizzyDucky09]

i hate wen my friends do tht
and wen i try and ask them wats wrong they say nutin or juss ignores
it makes me mad cause its annoyin as hell
but also cause it seems like i wont be able to help and make them happy

[technicolour]

Silent Treatement. Ugh. That's like torture on a stick. IT SUCKS! I never give that, well, i can't. I can't not talk to someone. It's weird. But i hate it when ppl do it to me. Especially for no good reason.

[Smilessss]

mmm..yeah same here...but only once tho...

[someflipguy]

yeah i hate it effing whores!

[sheepy]

well i give people silent treatments, but yeah i hate it when my friends do it to me for no reason. like my ex, he always did that to me.. and when i finally do talk to him and ask him, he's just like 'oh i wanted to know what it feels like avoiding you, not having you didnt feel much different. '
biznatch.

[x Mo0]

No, because they piss me off more.

[xblueradiance]

I've done it once to a friend, but that was because I tried talking to her so many times, yet still, she wouldn't stop being so rude, annoying, mean, etc. So I did it, and since I was one of her only friends, she came back to me. Hey, no one's going to be perfect, but I started talking to her again, and she was a lot nicer. I'm not saying I'm the only one who's right though. I just think the silent treatment should only be used when you've already tried talking to him/her.

[nerdxcore]

yeah. i agree. silent treatment is the worste. i hate it because then you dont know what you did wrong. then you have to write notes to eachother, which is so dumb because you can talk much faster than writing notes. too bad friends arent perfect.

[mocassinsx29]

I hate the silent treatment but I actually think it's better than if they respond. >_>;;;

[gotahemmi55]

silent treatment is retarded, gets you no where. I would know because I've done it in the past and all it causes is hurt.

[demolished]

Yeah. i do that to my friends more often cuz i have shitty friends and i dont give a shit about them. They're so stupid. Let them died.

[*danielle_x3*]

my friend is giving me the silent treatment right now :( i don't even know what i did. whenever i'd try to talk to him, he'd just look away, or even walk away. i'd try not to think about it >_<

[enyceXaddiction]

i dont care. i have plenty of other friends i can talk with. unless that person if like my bff. then i would talk to her and my bff is not the kind of person who would ignore me.

[BiGdRaGoN31]

it can be good and effective if used properly :)