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| *Azarel* |
 Jun 27 2005, 04:52 PM
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In all honesty, I get jealous easily, but I'm not one to express it. I'm not controlling, in the least. I won't tell my significant other what he can and cannot do, who he can and cannot associate with. But I can't help it when I feel pangs of jealousy when other people hit on him, when others tell him how attractive he is. Sure, they might be joking and shit, but I still get jealous. (Wouldn't you?) Despite how much he assures me, how much I tell myself they're joking, it still gets to me. And I hate it.
How about you? Do you get jealous easily? How do you get over it? |
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Jun 27 2005, 05:03 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA.  Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
I get jealous easily, too. :(
I know how you feel. 
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Jun 27 2005, 05:06 PM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
very much so.. i get so jealous it makes me mad. and i uh dont really deal with it, i mean i just get over it a little later... i have no idea how to deal with it
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Jun 27 2005, 05:22 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
Yes. So easily. The sad thing? He's not even mines yet. (That sounds funny coming from a midget like me)
 That's how easily I get jealous. I get over it by writing a song and then scribbling all over it.
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Jun 27 2005, 05:27 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
Yes I do, (even though I've only had 2 gf's) I get jealous from people I like and stuff.
It pisses me off, because I get it really easily and it will bug me the whole day. Yeah, it sucks, but the one thing that can keep me moving is know I'm prolly wrong. 
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Jun 27 2005, 05:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
ur not da only one...i also get jealous easily...
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Jun 27 2005, 07:03 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
that's exactly how i feel. i get jealously so easily but don't show it. so he thinks i don't care about him. it's kinda hard to get over it.
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Jun 27 2005, 07:09 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
I get jealous really easily. I wish I didn't, but it's something we just can't control...
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Jun 27 2005, 07:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,595 |
I get jealous a lot of times. But I turn around and try not to pay attention to it instead. Well, I don't have any solution to it yet, but after a while it just fades. Yeah, it's nasty to feel insecure sometimes.
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Jun 27 2005, 07:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 |
I don't get jealous easily...I guess it's because I don't really feel that strongly about the guy I like...especially since he's not like my bf or anything. If he flirts with another girl, I don't really feel any jealous pangs...I'm indifferent. :/ Meh. My crushes haven't developed that much.
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Jun 27 2005, 07:50 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
makes me bitter and sick to my stomach with it at times.
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Jun 27 2005, 08:02 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Heck, yes. Who doesn't get jealous?
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| *RockizLife* |
Jun 27 2005, 08:15 PM
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I don't get jealous eaisily. Why waste your time, you know? I just let it roll off and don't worry about it. I do get jealous at times though. Everyone does.
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Jun 27 2005, 08:21 PM
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 I'll love you now and forever <3 Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,903 |
Everyone feels jealous about a b/f or whom ever.It's apart of life.You feel as though someone is taking apart of you.And it's okay.I just kind of shake it off.It gets me sometimes.And he asks you know but I kind of like blush.But he knows...So just sort of realize of what you got.
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Jun 27 2005, 08:36 PM
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 createblog.com n00bie Group: Member Posts: 620 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,321 |
You have to care to be jealous. Obviously if you don't give a shit, you wouldn't be jealous.
...so, if you're jealous of your bf/gf, then you must care about him/her. PS. If not...something's wrong with you. |
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| *x____duckii* |
Jun 27 2005, 08:40 PM
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I'm one to get jealous very, very easily.
Whenever my brother hangs out with his friends or whatever, I seem to get jealous. My jealousy always gets to me, so I end up crying a whole lot when nobody's around. Well, I just get over it by spending some time alone. |
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Jun 27 2005, 09:30 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Im always jelous, over EVERYTHINGG; i just try to ignore the fact that i am, and act happy sometimes. unless the person Im jelous of; is someone i despise anyway, then i'd act the way i felt about it..
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Jun 27 2005, 09:33 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
I get jealous -but- then i realize i'm an idiot and get over it.
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Jun 27 2005, 09:41 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
yeah i get pretty jealous too. i used to like this guy and his best friend was a girl, so whenever i saw them together i'd get really reallly jealous. so then i told myself that theyre just friends so let it go. and then i found out that they were secretly boyfriend and girlfriend..
 um yeah so i just try and get over it and think about other things
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Jun 27 2005, 10:03 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, I get jealous really easily, where it's gotten to the point where I'm almost controlling... Eh, I really don't want to be like this (who does?), but I just keep telling myself that he's with me, that he chose to be with me and not her, etc. I just reassure myself.
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| *stephinika* |
Jun 27 2005, 11:57 PM
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i don't get jealous easily at all...so when i do, i know i really feel for that person.
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| *mzkandi* |
Jun 28 2005, 12:33 AM
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Its depends. Being jealous of anyone is something I hate to admit to period, especially if it involves someone I am dating. I guess it can me the insecurity in me sometimes. Like I dated this guy once. He was fine, funny, smart, etc.. and bunch of girls thought so too. Any place we would go he'd get hit on (soemtimes in front of my face) and he would just shrug it off but I couldnt help thinking if one of his "groupies" would get to his head. Eventually I just had to trust in him and be secure in the fact that he knew no other girl was going to love him like I could.
Hmmm...Now that mention him, I wonder how he is doing. Our relationship took a break because he is in the army and is currently has been stationed overseas for almost a year...... |
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Jun 28 2005, 11:32 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I get jealous ALOT. Especially with my bf. If hes talkin to my friend more then me, then Ill just stay silent and get a attitude to give him the hint that Im mad.
If he even looks at another girl, I jut stare at him and walk away. I get over the jealousy by makin them jealous back...revenge is sweet |
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Jun 28 2005, 11:48 AM
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 wings turned to ashes Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 146,950 |
Yes and no. I try to dissacociate the analytical and emotional parts of my brain, which kinda works, and the emotional part is insanely jealous (and somewhat paranboid to boot ^.~ ), but the analytical part isn't.
Its a wonderful dichotomy. ^.^ |
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| *lolita kitty* |
Jun 28 2005, 01:08 PM
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i get jealous too easily. i cry all the time. im nown as the crybaby at my school. i also get jealous on cb alot.
when people are all "bla bla bla is such a good friend to me!!!!?!?!" "lets get married" bla bla im like "ok....." i mean, ive been here for 11 months and i have no really good friends. and at school too. whenever i see the guy i like hug the girl he likes, im just like.... "omg..." ...yeah |
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Jun 28 2005, 02:36 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Yeah... I get jealous easily... And I act upon my jealousy. Which wasn't a good move with my ex. He thought I was over-sensitive and possessive...
 Yeahh... I agree with Bl0nDiEcHiCk about the cB thing... I've been here for a while and still have no friends...
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Jun 29 2005, 06:50 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i get jealous and i never tell anyone though. i trusted my ex, so i put my jealousy away. hah, wrong move for me.
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Jun 29 2005, 07:07 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
i get jealous VERY easily a girl talks to my guy an di feel like punching her. but i dont show it nor do i tell anyone. its a habit i guess
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Jun 29 2005, 08:22 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah, I get jealous fairly easily.
I don't really get too jealous when my boyfriend talks to another girl or anything like that though. We've developed a great sense of trust, and even though I am very paranoid at times, I don't get very jealous when he talks with another girl. Actually, in all honesty, I get more jealous when my 'crushes' (if I have any at the time) associate with other girls. |
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Jul 7 2005, 11:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 636 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,646 |
QUOTE(Azarel @ Jun 27 2005, 4:52 PM) In all honesty, I get jealous easily, but I'm not one to express it. I'm not controlling, in the least. I won't tell my significant other what he can and cannot do, who he can and cannot associate with. But I can't help it when I feel pangs of jealousy when other people hit on him, when others tell him how attractive he is. Sure, they might be joking and shit, but I still get jealous. (Wouldn't you?) Despite how much he assures me, how much I tell myself they're joking, it still gets to me. And I hate it. How about you? Do you get jealous easily? How do you get over it?  hmm im like that too. and plus. my bff is his family friend so they go camping, to each other's houses, and go places together alot. so yea... 
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Jul 7 2005, 11:58 PM
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 [SheRRi_BeRRi] Group: Member Posts: 344 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,454 |
i can get pretty jealous too but since i dont have a boyfriend or never had one before, i get jealous with my friends who do have boyfriends...and i get jealous with people who have better personalities than me. *sob*
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Jul 8 2005, 01:48 AM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Yes. I do..
Worst scenario: 2 years ago. I was going out with this guy and was getting EXTREMELY jealous because he was flirting like crazy with this one girl.. Who just happened to have the same name as me [not cool.] Anyways, eventually I found out that he LIKED her and she liked him too. I gave him a second chance.. But it just wasn't the same the same. So suggestions on how to deal? Just breath. Remind yourself he is with YOU. So it must means he likes you. Keep saying that over and over. |
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| *disco infiltrator* |
Jul 8 2005, 03:37 AM
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i am so easssssiiilllyyy jealous. dominic's ex will giggle at him and i'll turn into the devil..
haha. i'm such a loser.. |
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Jul 8 2005, 04:23 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
I get jealous easily, too. but i can't express it. i think jealousy is something that everyone gets, but not everyone expresses it.
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Jul 8 2005, 10:24 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE In all honesty, I get jealous easily, but I'm not one to express it. I'm not controlling, in the least. I won't tell my significant other what he can and cannot do, who he can and cannot associate with. But I can't help it when I feel pangs of jealousy when other people hit on him, when others tell him how attractive he is. Sure, they might be joking and shit, but I still get jealous. (Wouldn't you?) Despite how much he assures me, how much I tell myself they're joking, it still gets to me. And I hate it. thats exactly how i am. except with me, if were not together i will get insanely jealous but just not say anything, keep the jealousy and violent thoughts about who made me jealous to myself, but once were together im just.. crazy jealous. not insane. xD but i dont express those feelings. its all inside. QUOTE when people are all "bla bla bla is such a good friend to me!!!!?!?!" "lets get married" bla bla im like "ok....." i mean, ive been here for 11 months and i have no really good friends. yeahh , i dnot get jealous but im still like "ok..." |
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Jul 8 2005, 12:13 PM
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yes i do get jealous if someone tells my bf if he's attractive or what not. what person wouldn't? after all that is YOU bf you know? just stand your ground. let them know that he's YOURs and ONLY yours. it just shows that you really do like him and want to be with him thats all. normal reaction. all girls have to stand their ground when other females are around!!
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Jul 8 2005, 04:38 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
I get jealous of *everyone.* If a friend has a bf, and they a good couple, I get jealous. If my guy would be looking at someone else, I'd be jealous... It's natural, and I guess there's nothing you really can do about it.
Just try to rationalize, and understand that your jealousy is irrational. Try not to let it show, is the big thing. |
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Jul 8 2005, 06:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
yeah..i get jelous real easily...its stupid. n its not when girls hit on him...its more like..when he's so friendly and everything to his female friends. Once i got jelous when he helped one of my friends with a math question..which is just REALLY stupid..not that he doesn't help me..but its because im better at math than him , and im the one that helps HIM! hahaha. *sigh* its all so messed up. but we had a talk about jelousy...and i told him how i felt..but i dont want him to change the way he acts..
i may get jelouse easiy, but at the same time, i like the feeling that OTHER girls know hes soo nice and everything..but they cant have him MUAHAHAH!!!! |
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Jul 11 2005, 09:40 AM
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 yskulmate Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,014 |
My everyday arousing problem. I get jealous easily...
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