darn.... Options

[teeners4]

this is really complicated well not really

so lets start off with me

i like this guy called bob. i dont know why i like him. hes a quiet guy, we rarely talk in real life, but we chat for hours online. i told him i like him, he hasnt told me if he likes me or not. but i assume he doesnt cause he didnt tell me right? but the way he acts it makes me think sometimes. i mean does he HAVE to be nice about it IF he doesnt like me?

and then i have this other friend, shes smart, quiet and reserve and she'll do anything for her friends. lets called her angel

she introduced me to this guy (friend-wise) and me and him got pretty close. like we're really playful with each other. i even asked him why hes more open and playful with me than angel. and he said cause im fun and playful like we're kinda "friends with privleges". lets called him sam

then my other friend, we'll called her annie. and shes more outgoing, shes' nice too. and shes kinda the opposite of angel. (not that shes the devil but like shes more louder and kinda more "party girl")

so heres the situation.

angel and sam are good friends and angel likes sam, and sam likes angel a bit. but they dont know that about each other. and they're close and stuff. then i met sam, and i had a picture of me and annie on my msn picture thingy

and sam was like "whos that?" and he thought she was really pretty and wanted to meet her.

and then he was obsessive with annie, and yea he was still close with angel but annie seemd more that extra "ummph" for him ya know?

so as time passed i got closer with sam.

then just last nite, sam and annie met.

sam said annie was nicer than he imagined and he still likes her. but he kinda still likes angel.

and right now he thinks its like this, "angel is kind of the safe route for him, cause he knew her longer, and he knows she supports him a lot and he wont get rejected by her. on the OTHERHAND annie is kinda like either he'll get accepeted or rejected, theres no happy middle and he might want to take the risk"

so yea but last nite.

i was kinda flirty with sam. and he was flirty with me.

and i dont know if i like him cause i still like bob. but i can see me and sam going out. we even talked about it last nite

like if he had to pick out of the 3 girls: annie, angel or me to go out he can imagine me and him the most.

and if i'd pick him or bob i'd probably pick him to go out with the most fun.

so now we're "friends with privleges" but we just joke around a lot.

i think either we're just really playful with each other, or im starting to have feelings with him and vice versa.

and i dont know what to do with bob because... yea should i just ask him straight out what he thinks?

or not? cause last nite he asked "what do you like about me?" and yea.. i dont know im really confused

and to top it all off, im trying to set up sam with annie, but i think im falling for him.

and i dont know what annie feels about him yet, im hanging out with her later tonite...

so yea

long story =)

[CrazayChristian]

GAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!
*Ahem*


Looks like this may take alot of work.

Well, what about Angel? You're not worried she'll feel betrayed if you go out with Sam?

Sam wants Annie, you have to look at Annie before you think of what to do. Will she love same in long term? Will she like sam in short term? Will she feel sorry for him and get annoyed into REALLY short term? Or will she not accept him at all?

If she's short term or lower, then you can use them getting together to your advantage? If Sam has his heart broken, and your the friend who helps him out, he'll usually develop feelings.

If she's long term, then you have to decide on how to get sam on your own with your sparkling personality ^_^

But then there's Angel....


You could always just skip all the work and tell Bob how you feel. TRUST ME you WILL feel worse about what you didn't do than what you did. It's worth the risk in my opinion, and you will still have Sam otherwise.


This would also not interfere with Angel.

Your choice,


Joshua

[kill me please]

wow that was long.. and had a lot of spaces. anyway. i think you do like sam... and uh maybe you should go out with him, but im not sure because it is indeed confusing . go with your heart?

[topsyturvy]

^ Agree with her. There has to be one of them that you like more.

[Shattered_Hope]

If you like Sam, why are you trying to set him up with Annie even though you don't even know how she feels about him?? If you like Bob then just tell him....or ask him, but to be honest..in your whole story, you mentioned Sam alot....If you didn't make the point that you liked Bob, I wouldn't have known. Stick with one person and stay with it. If you like Sam then tell him, if you like Bob, then tell him.

[enyceXaddiction]

from what you explained it seems like you like sam more. but then again, angel likes him so you really should back of. but its not wrong tell her the truth before it gets worse. just dont make a move on sam. and make sure sam likes you back.