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 Jun 23 2005, 12:49 PM
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 i have had sex before and did get pregnant but should i have sex again, and u know that condoms dont work that good so what should i do??
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Jun 23 2005, 12:54 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
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Ask yourself. Would you want to go through a pregnancy again? The only 100% way not to get pregnant is abstinance. Nothing with garentee you not getting pregnant. I beleive condoms are 98% effective, along with the pill. But the pill + patch don't protect against STD's. It's you're choice...not mine. So ask if your ready to go through all the possible things that could happen.. |
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Jun 23 2005, 01:01 PM
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but i mean it is with the same guy (my bf) and we both have been checked for stds and we are ok, we are going to get married in 3 months and i am 19.
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Jun 23 2005, 01:03 PM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
Oh you're about to get married. So that's commitment. You don't have STD's...I think it's ok. But it's your choice if you want to again
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Jun 23 2005, 01:03 PM
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but i am not sure b/c i have a 5 month old and he really wants to have another kid.
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Jun 23 2005, 01:13 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
if ur getting married, hold off.. because if u do get pregnant u dont wanna be a pregnant bride do u? u can wait three months...
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Jun 23 2005, 01:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,716 |
well if i do get pregant i would be small when i get married
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Jun 23 2005, 01:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,716 |
well does any body know of some good moves so that i can have sex and wont get pregnant without a condom or any thing else
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Jun 23 2005, 02:16 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
I guess it's ok since you're getting married. I still think you should wait till your honeymoon or why don't you use birth control?
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Jun 23 2005, 02:31 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
You could always wait till after you get married to have sex. But if you really want to, you can use a condom. The condom is pretty effective, it's one of the most effective method of birth control, aside from abstinance. Or, you can get the pill, that is also effective.
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Jun 23 2005, 02:37 PM
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i think you should wait until you are married so it'll feel special
they have condoms for women and the pill and whatever |
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Jun 23 2005, 02:42 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
wait til you're married again
plus you don't want to be pregent && have to care for a baby at the same time think of the pros and cons |
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Jun 24 2005, 03:19 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If it's three months away...then just wait....or if not, use a condom, it's a very effective thing besides pills...and abstinance.....but if you do have sex again....and you do it before your day then just use a condom to make it simple.
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Jun 24 2005, 03:25 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(sexy_chick @ Jun 23 2005, 11:23 AM) well does any body know of some good moves so that i can have sex and wont get pregnant without a condom or any thing else  Have him pull out. Or just be smart and use condoms. I don't what the big deal is. QUOTE(dani41790 @ Jun 23 2005, 12:16 PM) I guess it's ok since you're getting married. I still think you should wait till your honeymoon or why don't you use birth control? It would be okay either way. You don't HAVE to wait until you are married and you don't have to have sex with ONLY your husband. |
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Jun 24 2005, 03:27 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Jun 24 2005, 2:25 PM) Have him pull out. but if even if he does pull out...there is still a change that she can get pregnant. if you are scared...than dont' have sex.
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Jun 24 2005, 04:51 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
IF you really are scared, just don't do it. Personally, I think you should wait out the three months. Think of being pregnant and having to deal with wedding plans. It seems like a lot of work...well that's how my aunt makes it sound like.
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Jun 24 2005, 06:46 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
ay its ur life, u can do w/e u want. If you wanna risk gettin pregnant again, then go for it.
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Jun 24 2005, 06:47 PM
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for3ver y0urs Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,162 |
QUOTE(sexy_chick @ Jun 23 2005, 11:23 AM) well does any body know of some good moves so that i can have sex and wont get pregnant without a condom or any thing else uh.. i'm sure you've heard this enough but the best protection against pregnancy is abstinence (sp?). if you really havta do it use a condom and just pray you don't get preggie.. 
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Jun 24 2005, 08:04 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
if you got pregnant once why would want to have sex again?
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Jun 25 2005, 03:45 PM
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QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Jun 24 2005, 3:25 PM) Have him pull out. Or just be smart and use condoms. I don't what the big deal is. It would be okay either way. You don't HAVE to wait until you are married and you don't have to have sex with ONLY your husband. i am not and wont be a slut, well u may be but i am not |
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Jun 25 2005, 03:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,716 |
thanks for all your replys but i dont think tthey realy help, but ok, what ever
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Jun 25 2005, 06:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,098 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,687 |
take birth control and wear a diaphragm and tell him to wear a condom if you want to make sure you WONT get pregnant
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Jun 25 2005, 06:56 PM
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 I'm just a little bit crazy... Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,760 |
QUOTE(sexy_chick @ Jun 23 2005, 12:49 PM) i have had sex before and did get pregnant but should i have sex again, and u know that condoms dont work that good so what should i do??ABSTINENCE! There is no 'safe sex,' only safer. If you have intercourse, you still have a chance of getting pregnant [again]. |
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Jun 25 2005, 08:04 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
i guess it's ok casue you're getting married. but just hold it off awhile. use a condom. anyways its not really our business. it's your choice..
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Jun 25 2005, 09:03 PM
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Well, if you're scared, then you're obviously not ready for sex.
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Jun 25 2005, 09:11 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Ok, wait tilll after the ceremony cause you probably dont want to be a pregnant bride. Pain trying to find a gown etc. etc. Just hold off for the wedding night?
just WAIT till then |
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