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 Jun 22 2005, 10:21 AM
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hey, its been a while since ive been on this board. anyways, last night i was talking to my ex, and it started off with her telling me that she didnt feel the same about me as i did for her. and so i was kinda down about that, so we talked for another hour or three, and by the end of the conversation, she told me that she would go back out with me if i cut my hair(yeah i have long hair.... work has been getting at me about it, so i figured hey), and if i was more "dedicated", whatever that means? but i guess the whole reason she broke up with me in the first place was is because i didnt kiss her. but that really wasnt my fault, she never wanted to be alone, always wanted her friends there, and she's always got drama practice. so there was never any time. so im like lost on as what to do. cut my hair and get her back or say hey im not changing for you?
any help is greatly appreciated. -bryan |
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| *mipadi* |
Jun 22 2005, 10:24 AM
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If cutting your hair is what it will take to get her back, then it seems your relationship wasn't very strong or serious in the first place.
I'm not going to be so idealist as to suggest that appearance doesn't/shouldn't matter at all in relationships, but if you really care about someone, the length of their hair isn't going to be a big concern. Sure, you might try to get them to cut it  , but you're not going to leave them, or come back to them, based on the length of their hair.
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Jun 22 2005, 08:30 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
don't change yourself just to get back with her, she broke up with you for a stupid reason as well, and now wants you back only IF you cut your hair, i don't think that's a really good reason plus it won't be a strong relationship
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Jun 29 2005, 03:49 PM
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 Sugar, We're Goin' Down. Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,644 |
Absoluetly don't do what she wants. She is the immature one for trying to change you. She has to know that pure love comes from within and not from outer beauty. What a skank...lol, sorry if that offended you since you still have feelings for her.
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| *Azarel* |
Jun 29 2005, 03:51 PM
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... wow, that girl is dumb. Keep your hair!!
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Jun 29 2005, 06:22 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Just for a haircut...sheeshh...yea don't get back with her. that's pretty bad.
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Jun 29 2005, 06:24 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
forget her if she only wants to go out wit u if u cut ur hair shes shallow. forget bout her. U could do better anyways for someone that DONT care about appearance...I say hit her
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Jun 29 2005, 06:35 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
um.. she should really love you for you. long hair can be sexy haha, i dont think she's worth it if you gotta cut your hair becus she doesnt like it. and about the kissing thing, that's stupid.. she could've said that upfront while the relationship was going.
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Jun 29 2005, 11:46 PM
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 Yates Group: Member Posts: 346 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,150 |
yeah. you shouldn't cut your hair and change for her. i mean that alone sounds silly. but you could also cut your hair... and don't take her back.
 personaly, i don't think it was just about the hair. maybe she was just using that as an excuse to cover up why she really doesn't want to be with you. but like you said, it could have been the kissing thing. which doesnt even make sense either!
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Jun 30 2005, 06:59 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
do what you want. she doesnt truely like you if she cared that much about your apperance. hasnt she heard "its whats inside that counts"
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Jun 30 2005, 07:18 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
I don't think you should, it seems like the relationship was only based on look/etc. so..yeah..
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Jun 30 2005, 08:34 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
"CHANGE FOR NOONE BUT NEVER STAY THE SAME!"
You can't change for someone, otherwise you're screwing yourself. |
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Jun 30 2005, 08:59 PM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
I'll be subtle about this- don't get back with her.
Haha. =) If you don't wanna cut your hair, don't cut it just for someone else. And if anything, it seems like SHE was the undedicated one. -_- |
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