i love him Options

[LoST SouL]

i'm in love woth my best friend... should i tell him?

edit:
ive liked him since freshman year i started loving him this year [junior year] we're seniors now... sophomore year i told him i liked him n he said he don't go out with friends .. im not looking to go out wit him because our friendship is a lot stronger and better than a relationship ever could be... but i love him and im wondering if i should tell him... im pretty sure he don't know and im pretty sure he don't love me ... he considers me a friend thats all... im in love with him

[cookieskater2]

Well, I fell in love with my best frined like a year ago, and were still going out. =D You should tell him if you think he might feel the sdame way about you, if not, it could make your friendship sorta awkward.

[tooeffingcrazy]

I think that you should send very subtle hints. But do not come out right and tell him until these signals are reciprocated.

[*mzkandi*]

I think it would probably be best to see what his feeling are for you first. Like Derek said, you maybe could drop little hints to see if he catches on.

[*freshxsmiles*]

Aww, that's so cute. Yea, you should tell him how you feel, if he seems to feel the same. Go for it. but like cookieskater2 said..it might make it awkward.. Erm..trying my best not to put a hopeless vibe LOL, but you know, express how you feel, its healthy for you

[*freshxsmiles*]

erg..don't mean to double post.. but i forgot to put something! haha

--just do what your heart tells you...[[follow it!]]

[Boyfriendless]

I had the same issue, my friend asked him who he liked, he said no one, then she guessed people, when she guessed me, he pretended to puke. in fron of me. Id get a friend to ask, better if its one of his guy friends, he wont suspect it.

[*jooleeah*]

Drop hints first.

I liked one of my closest guy friends last year. Sadly, it didn't work out. Then....our friendship sorta faded.

[topsyturvy]

erg..don't mean to double post.. but i forgot to put something! haha

^ Next time, try the edit button.

Nehoo.. ask him. You have nothing to lose.

[biglamchops]

do it now...don' t kill yourself and keep it in...you're gonna regret it. If he says the same thing then you can easily go back as being friends.

[dorischu]

Did he have a gf in the 1st place?

[_sarcastic_]

drop hints, or just tell him that you like him maybe he likes you too

[LoST SouL]

what if he dont say the same thing?.... i LOVE him i dont just like him

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Hmm...think about "My best friend, I LOVE YOU!" eh, you shouldn't say it straight up. First find out if he likes someone, if hes taken (especially) and how he feels about you. It might freak him out because you guys have known each other for so long. So I suggest you find out if he likes you first.

[Rachel]

^*doesn't.

What do you have to lose? Either he says "OHMAHGAWD I LOVE YOU TOO" or he says that he doesn't. It doesn't really matter.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

^ But then that would be a whole great friendship down the drain, that's what she might lose =\

[*freshxsmiles*]

Hmm, wow the whole situation kind of changed! Because you now say that when you first told him, he says he doesn't go out with friends . Well since you are going to be seniors, you should tell him when you graduate. Whoo, personally i know what its like holding that kind of feeling from the person you love haha, but your friendship between you too is stronger than a relationship...So once its graduation time..tell him then. i guess. Unless during you Senior Year he makes hints to you.that he likes you and stuff.. but for now.. i think you should just be friends..until the time is right to tell him! .

[angelshortipnai]

oooo u should get someone to ask him if he likes u then yea

[Rachel]

^ But then that would be a whole great friendship down the drain, that's what she might lose =\

By saying I love you?

No, she wouldn't lose the friendship if he was a nice guy. It may be awkward if he doesn't say anything back, but friendship overcomes that shit.

[cookieskater2]

Haha, I was just like, "I cant stand it anymore! I have to tell you something...I...I love you."

Well, it worked for me...lol

[> [ a k i k o...]

just DO iT!!! I know it's easier said then done, but at least you won't look back and regret it you know. At least you tried and now u'll know what the asnwer is. You don't want to look back one day and wonder what if, cuz believe me it really SUCKS. I was in the same situation as you, but instead, I never did anything or said anything and so he eventually moved on and got a gf. So yea... beside..like in pervious reply, if you tell him you love him and he's like, erh. I don't feel that way, just say that yea, I just love you more I guess. hahaha.

[11x11]

depending on who he is, tell him.
caus since hes ur best friend hes obviously a great guy...
he'll understand wont he? he wont burn ya down

[ladystarr]

I think you should try to see if he even shows any interest. Try to notice...the little details if he seems like he's acting more than just a friend. This reminds me of my situation last summer =). I started liking my best guy friend even and I didn't know what to do cuz I had a bf at the time, but the thing was is that my best guy friend treated me better than he did so I broke up with my boyfriend. At the time I didn't know that my best guy friend had a HUGE crush on me, but all my other friends knew. I started noticing the little details of his actions and how he started acting more than just a friend. Eventually, we were alone just talking...and then he kissed me. I was really happy because then I knew that he really liked him and I like him.

THE POINT is...someone is going to have to MAKE the move. You might not know whats gonna happen afterwards, but if you really love and care for someone then just do it...TELL him because you might regret it. He could be WAITING for YOU. what if he waits too long and just finds someone else?

Sorry that was long!! but I hope it helps...GOODLUCK!

[MrDolphin]

wow, same situation that I was in. Well, I fell flat on my face cuz I told her. But like they said ^, try to see if he feels strongly for u...heck, ask a friend to slyly ask him things such as what does he feel about u and whatnot.

[*chaneun*]

Um, could this be answered by my pinned "how to get his attention" topic?

[Smilessss]

hmm... i had a crush on one of mi best guyfriends...but it turned out dat he likes mi best friend instead of me...so we kinda felt a lil awkward wit each otha now... but tell him how yoo feel... and i agree wit da ppl up there...and follow ur heart... ><