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 Jun 15 2005, 06:26 PM
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hahaha. just wondering . but i think the answer is quite obvious
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Jun 15 2005, 07:00 PM
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i broke up wif mai boyfriend. it was the first relationship i was in. i was so nervous and scared of breaking up wif him. i was like shaking so much! i needed mai friend to come up wif me and stay there while i stuttered everything i wanted to say. i was so scared... i didn't finsih everything i wanted to say! so mai friend had to finish it up for me. i left and i started to cry for hurting him. and i heard from a friend that mai ex ran away and started to cry too! idk if it was cus i broke up wif him and broke his heart or he was being teased so much for being dumped. idk. but breaking up wif someone is so hard!
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Jun 15 2005, 07:48 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, my first boyfriend broke up with me. Somehow, I knew it was coming, yet I couldn't be the one to do it.
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Jun 15 2005, 07:54 PM
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my last boyfriend, i broke up with him. i just didn't like him as much as ai thought i did. he's still a really good friend though..
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 15 2005, 08:06 PM
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Well I get scared, so i usually end up asking my friend to tell him for me =\
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Jun 15 2005, 08:31 PM
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my last boyfriend...well...i broke up wit him...b/c hes being so mean to mi friends lately...he kinda acts like a jerk to me too...so i broke up wit him...
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Jun 16 2005, 12:09 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
I usually am the one to break up with the boy. Rawr, I don't like being hurt. I have only been "dumped" once.
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Jun 16 2005, 05:03 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
i broke up with my ex cause things weren't working out. she just wasn't mature enough to be in a real relationship. otherwise, i would've stayed with her.
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Jun 16 2005, 09:31 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,607 |
bah . maybe it feel slightly better that you're the one hurting the other person rather than the other person hurting you
 ~ so it's really normal that we break up right ? 
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Jun 16 2005, 09:47 PM
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I have never been broken up with. I usually am the one to call the relationship when I see that it isnt going anywhere.
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Jun 16 2005, 09:51 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
With my first real bf, he broke up with me. I knew all along that our relationship couldn't last...but somehow, I just didn't have the heart to break up with him. So he did it. And it hurt me a lot...because I knew that if I had been the one to break it off with him, it would've been a lot easier.
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Jun 17 2005, 04:23 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
ums, he dumped me. i knew things werent working out, but i really didnt have the heart to dump him, even when i saw it coming.
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Jun 18 2005, 04:01 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
her ...........
.:tony:. |
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Jun 18 2005, 11:23 AM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
He broke up with me. I guess I was kinda stupid because I felt the relationship struggling so instead of breaking up with him I was going to try to work things out. That same day he dumped me.
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Jun 18 2005, 04:30 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
I broke up with my boyfriend; a long time ago.. i guess it was pretty stupid, it was clear that we were over and I just wanted to be the one to do it. and why so stupid? because we pretty much decided we really were right for each other weeks later, but he couldnt get over that i would dump him like that
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Jul 3 2005, 04:04 PM
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 wings turned to ashes Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 146,950 |
she left me for the guy she was chaeting on me with. I didn't know that at the time, though. >.>
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Jul 3 2005, 10:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
i broke up.. he broke up with me... either way [doesnt matter]
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Aug 2 2005, 12:49 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I've only been in one other relationship, and it was a mutual decision. We both talked it through and decided it would be for the best to end the relationship and walk away peacefully. It definitely wasn't a choice on one person's part.
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Aug 2 2005, 08:08 AM
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 Senior Itis Group: Member Posts: 806 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,007 |
I've had 6 girlfriends:
3 Broke up with me 2 I broke up with 1 The girl's nosy friend ruined it |
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Aug 2 2005, 06:27 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I had 4 bf (not including my current one)
2 broke up with me. One because we were better off friends and the other was because he said I was lingy and he would become a junior so he needed time for school. 2 I broke up with. One because we were better friends and the other guy cheated on me. |
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Aug 2 2005, 07:48 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
I had one real serious boyfriend, and well, I broke up with him cause he kept calling me fat and his bitch.
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Aug 2 2005, 08:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Aug 2 2005, 7:48 PM) I had one real serious boyfriend, and well, I broke up with him cause he kept calling me fat and his bitch.  what an assfu_k...i hate it when cause call girls bitches...they really treat girl liek dogs |
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Aug 2 2005, 10:08 PM
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i'm the one to break up :\
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Aug 3 2005, 06:25 PM
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 Ms. I Can't Tell Pants From Math Group: Member Posts: 371 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,034 |
I break it off w/ my bfs....I've felt terrible for hurting them or breaking their hearts, but my last bf...Hah, I broke it off w/ him && he said, "I was about to dump you after I was done playing Halo!"... I can't have friends do it for me....It's disrespectful. Umm, none of the guys I've dated wanted to end the relationship at the point I did, so they never saw it coming.
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Aug 3 2005, 06:58 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
i dont see how it's obvious...but it all depends on who lose's feelings for the other
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Aug 4 2005, 03:11 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
I usually do the "dumping". I'm a bit high maintenance and do expect a lot from someone I'm dating.
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Aug 4 2005, 03:15 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
my first bf, he broke up with me...
After that, I'm the one who breaks up... |
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Aug 23 2005, 08:52 PM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
I ussually break up with them
Heh But i ussually come back crying Hahaha It's because i can never make up my mind EEk I gotta work on that |
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Aug 26 2005, 08:23 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
QUOTE(linke3 @ Jun 15 2005, 5:48 PM) Well, my first boyfriend broke up with me. Somehow, I knew it was coming, yet I couldn't be the one to do it. Exactly how my first relationship ended up. It was inevitable and I was torn up about it for quite a while. Time heals all wounds. |
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