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 Apr 14 2004, 09:32 PM
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 Senior Member  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,025 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,051  |
I really like my boyfriend, we have been going out for like 4 months (considered a long time in my school, i'm 13) I really like him a lot but lately he has been a d'ckhead. he is kind of ignoring me, like I'll be standing outside of his next class, talking with my friend or something and he will just walk right by, and not say anything. I dont know if i should break up with him. I still like him, but its not getting anywhere.
 Gah i need help. What should i do?
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Apr 14 2004, 09:40 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
ayyyy~~ ooooOh thats a biggie problem...hmm well i can say is that... wat u shuld do is...talk it out wit him.... jus ask him wats wrong... i dont kno... if i talk it out wit him...i jus get so nervous and get soo scared~~ lols... but u kno... go for it~ lols he might be up to something... so dont break up wit him if u duno wats goin' on...cus thats not a good thing to do....lols.... i mean he might having a hard time~~ or something came up to him...that hes so stressed and maybe forget things u kno? so yeah talk it out with him...and if he says "how abot later?" then go to his house...and tell him "im serious... i need to talk to you...it feels u dun like me no more...can i jus ask...what are you up to these days...it's like im missing something... it's like i dont kno something, so can u pls tell me?" yeah....hehe newais hope i gib u an ok advice^^
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Apr 14 2004, 09:56 PM
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 juicy Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,526 |
you just really need to talk to him about ho wu feel and why he's acting like that, then go on from there. thats pretty much all i can tell you to do.
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Apr 14 2004, 10:16 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
wow thats a huge problem when ur b.f ignores u. thats soo not the way that u should be treated. idk u or him personally at all but i think u deserve better. no one should be ignored. thats just wrong because ur not being appreciated like u should be.
 jackie
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Apr 14 2004, 10:35 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
awww Gypsy eyes!!
i understand how you feel completely...But, it might be that you ignore him a little or he feels rejected because of actions that you are not completely aware of. For instance, you are talking to your friend, right? it is possible that he feels neglected because you're talking to your friend and not him. Guys have feelings to ( i learned that the hard way... and i couldnt go back... ) and its possible that he's not acting that way because he's neglecting you... it could be that he is acting like so because he feels neglected BY you. So i say, either talk to him, or try and talk to him more and hang out. If this doesnt work and he ends up breaking your heart, think of it as a good thing cause that means he just wasnt the right guy.  and its better that way anyways, cause you can check out more guys... you noe? 
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Apr 14 2004, 10:40 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
wow that suks, i think u should tawk to hym about that stuff u jus said
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Apr 14 2004, 10:42 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
first thing i dont think u should be waiting for him afterclass, HE should do that... secondly ask him whats his problem? lol
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Apr 15 2004, 08:25 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
i say tell your boyfriend to listen to a SPICE GIRLS SONG!!!
lol QUOTE If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends (gotta get with my friends) Make it last forever friendship never ends, If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give, Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is. haha..  either that... or go straight up to him and say "hey baby...what`s up?...i couldn`t help but notice that you don`t consecutively say "hi" to me everytime you pass by me as if you were ignoring me...and..it`s bugging me...i really love/like you...and i don`t plan on giving up on you.." and work from there...haha.. men these days...think they OWN us, women...
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Apr 16 2004, 02:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,872 |
hey jaxy babe
 Yes james is BUTTHEAD!! he doooes ignore you  I still say you should dump him, but thats just my opinion. he is too mellow
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Apr 16 2004, 09:18 PM
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 Ph34r with great ph43r Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,744 |
the really only logical thing to do is talk to him. be all "how come youve been ignoring me?" or..if you dont wanna do that, ignore him back. give him to cold shoulder majorly. or maybe..that would make it worse...im not sure
 sorry 
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Apr 16 2004, 09:21 PM
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maybe you should have a talk with him..
to see if he still likes you.. if he doesnt then i think u should break up w/ him |
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Apr 17 2004, 11:24 AM
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 lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
sorry to break this to you..but sometimes that's a sign that means they lost interest...i did that before and i regret doing that now..however you should go up and ask him if he lost interest...that is possible...
good luck to you~ |
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