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 Jun 13 2005, 05:30 PM
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 vat ist dis?  Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 152,500  |
My brother is in college up @ West Point, and when I talk to him on AIM he's like all pysched about coming home and being with me and hanging out, etc.. and it gets me all worked up like for once we'll e hanging out together!
So he comes home right, and I'm ready to go see movies, go to amusement parks etc... and all excited, and then he totally ditches me!!! he doesn't do anything with me! he just hangsout with my other bro or his friends, and it really hurts me.  Does anyone else have this problem with a friend, or family member? or does anyone have suggestions on how to deal with him? Thanx 
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Jun 13 2005, 05:49 PM
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aww imma sry... hey at least ur not da only child like me...sumtimes i feel lonely wen imma da only child...i dont really have da problem yoo have...but imma really sry... ::comforts yoo::
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Jun 13 2005, 06:16 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
i think you should talk to him about it; confront him.
tell him how you feel about him not hanging out with you... hope all turns out well 
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Jun 13 2005, 08:34 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
well, he has friends, and of course, he wants to catch up on what's been happening with them. it's natural. but just let him know that u still wanna hang out. suggest things to him, like going to a basketball game, or amusement parks, or movies, or whatever it is that u want to do. don't wait for him to notice u, make urself noticed.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 13 2005, 09:09 PM
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Oh man that's harsh. Maybe next time ask him if you can come along and if not ask him that you really miss him and that you'd like to go spend some time togeher just the two of you.
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| *krnxswat* |
Jun 13 2005, 10:54 PM
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How old are you? 5?
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Jun 13 2005, 11:42 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Actually, I am very close to my brother and have been experiencing the same treatment since my brother started college six years ago. We've always done things together because while growing up, we were each other's bane of existence as well as each other's comfort and support. I've been resenting his friends for a while now because they constantly draw him away from my family. Lately though, he has been spending more time with his girlfriend... which is natural, I suppose, but hurtful, nonetheless. I go out with my friends, but it's not the same... I feel dejected, but I tell myself that things between us will never change. Circumstances happen, but blood is constant.
You know, this is all part of growing up though. One day you'll find someone who'll distract you away from your brother's lack of attention, and then maybe he'll feel as upset as you are now. The way to deal with this is to talk things out and don't give up. Let him know that you want to spend time with him instead of keeping your feelings inside, which may fester into grudges, I would know. Don't give up when he says he wants to go out with friends. Ask for another time and date and make him promise. Remind him about it. In other words, don't give up after a couple of tries and then think that your brother has deserted you when that is not the case. Anyway, feel better. |
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Jun 14 2005, 01:11 AM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Say, casually, when are you going to take me to go see "blah blah insert movie title here"? casually make hints..and maybe he'll get the picture.
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Jun 14 2005, 01:18 AM
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Jun 14 2005, 10:13 AM
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vat ist dis? Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 152,500 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jun 13 2005, 11:54 PM) How old are you? 5?  What's that supposed to mean? |
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