legit question here Options

[sammi rules you]

please don't post like "EEWWW!!!!11 OMGZORZ THATZ SICK!!!!1111". if you can't handle discussing sexual things, i suggest you get out of this topic.

due to the suggestions of others, i'll post this here.

i was recently giving my boyfriend a blowjob. every time i have, he tells me to stop before he cums (which i think is quite nice of him, i certainly don't want that junk down my throat), and the last two times, he's squirted reeeeally far. like, almost across the room. is this normal? has this ever happened to you? (when giving one, getting one, etc.) he was a little scared by it, as was i (since i'm kinda new to that kind of stuff..) cause he didn't know he could go that far, or if anyone could. just wanted others' opinions and experiences.

or maybe, this is a more appropriate smiley for the topic:

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It's perfectly normal. Next time just cup your hand over it and let him drip onto himself.

As for me. I don't have that problem. I swallow.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

I haven't done that in a very long time. The times I did it, though, my boyfriend - at the time - didn't cum. Perhaps becauser he knew I wouldn't swallow his shit. But yeah, I'm sure it's normal for it to squirt out far like that.

I remember one time when me and my ex were having sex, he came for the first time, but he pulled out before he came, and it reminded me of a damn hose... it came out far and hard

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[Rachel]

Hahaha Sammi, I love it when guys are considerate. My boyfriend knows to pull his "member" out before he comes. I would suggest doing what Roxanne said OR have a box of tissues nearby. Those are pretty helpful too, keeps everything nice n clean.

PS Roxanne, I don't think I could handle swallowing again. Yuck =X

[*AngelicEyz00*]

I made my ex lick his own stuff off of my stomach one time I find it amusing now.

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[sammi rules you]

he tried to do that to me!!! he was pointing it towards my stomach and i was like "WHAT ARE YOU DOING NOT TOWARDS ME!!!"

hahaha.. oh boys..they're funny creatures..

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Were you naked?

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[Rachel]

Hahha that they are. They watch too many porn movies. Well, too many badly made porn movies.

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I would suggest doing what Roxanne said OR have a box of tissues nearby. Those are pretty helpful too, keeps everything nice n clean.

PS Roxanne, I don't think I could handle swallowing again. Yuck =X

Ahhh, not tissues! They can stick to him and thats not cool.

And you get used to swallowing after some time. Just practice it and you'll learn to swallow everything down faster so you won't taste it as much. It's worth it. It's much cleaner and convenient. Plus guys love that.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

And you get used to swallowing after some time. Just practice it and you'll learn to swallow everything down faster so you won't taste it as much. It's worth it. It's much cleaner and convenient. Plus guys love that.

I refuse to go down on Armond

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I refuse to go down on Armond

whoa! how come?

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Because... I feel... weird. I wont even let him go down on me.

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[Rachel]

I personally like giving more than recieving.

[sammi rules you]

Were you naked?

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no, but my shirt was up.

and i have tasted it, cause during it, there's like eensy little spurts before the big shablam .. it's not really that bad in little incriments. it's salty..kind of like soy sauce. but i wouldn't want as much as he squirts out in the big shablam going down my throat.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

I personally like giving more than recieving.

I like receiving it better... lol

no, but my shirt was up.

and i have tasted it, cause during it, there's like eensy little spurts before the big shablam .. it's not really that bad in little incriments. it's salty..kind of like soy sauce. but i wouldn't want as much as he squirts out in the big shablam going down my throat.

Ah yes, i remember. Salty. Didn't taste so bad

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I wont even let him go down on me.

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[*AngelicEyz00*]

I'm shy, okay... [runs off]

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before Armond, I'd only been with one guy and you remember how LONG ago that was

[sammi rules you]

i haven't gotten it yet..i'm kinda nervous about that..

and i feel inadequate when doing it to him..lol he's kinda large..and i can't even fit half of it in my mouth. i have a small face..which = small jaw..

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I'm shy, okay... [runs off]

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before Armond, I'd only been with one guy and you remember how LONG ago that was

Can you orgasm without being eaten out?

[*AngelicEyz00*]

How big is he? And don't worry, I could never fit it all in my mouth... and I wasn't about to let it go down my throat.

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Roxy: I don't think I've ever orgasmed >.>

[jordanriane]

I've never really had that problem happen to me.

Whenever I've given my boyfriend had jobs, I usually create a.. barracade in front where I aim his load to go, which creates less of a mess, since most of it goes on the hand I'm using on him, and once awhile ends up just dripping down.

LKJDLKJSDF. never use tissues. haha.
i felt like being an ass once, so i used a tissue, and let it papermache on him. Wasn't too pleased with that, let me tell you.

Whenever I've given him blowjobs, I honestly know that if I didn't swallow, it would probably fly all over the place. For some reason he enjoys blowjobs alot more, since it's more.. personal to him apparently.

With sex, I wouldn't know, I'm on birth control, so we don't do that "pull out" shit. I'd imagine it'd be a fierce load of hell and fury coming out.

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and i feel inadequate when doing it to him..lol he's kinda large..and i can't even fit half of it in my mouth. i have a small face..which = small jaw..

Well, you don't need to fit the whole thing in your mouth. The head is the most sensitive area so you should just focus on that area the most. As for the shaft, just wrap your hand around his member below your mouth.

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LKJDLKJSDF. never use tissues. haha.
i felt like being an ass once, so i used a tissue, and let it papermache on him.  Wasn't too pleased with that, let me tell you.

Agreed. Use a towel, cloth, or his socks instead.

[jordanriane]

Well, you don't need to fit the whole thing in your mouth. The head is the most sensitive area so you should just focus on that area the most. As for the shaft, just wrap your hand around his member below your mouth.

From my personal experiences, it's best when you suck on it with up and down motions as well as using your hand. With your hand you want to spiral it as you're going up and of course down.

I've never had any complaints about that.

I got that from watching HBO's Real Sex. They had an episode with a blowjob specialist, and ever since that episode where they showed that technique, I've always used it.

Agreed. Use a towel, cloth, or his socks instead.

Yeah, we've got a jizz towel for such occasions.

After I've cleaned him up, I usually give him one last good suck to just tease him, and clean it up quickly.

[sammi rules you]

he's 7.8 if i remember correctly. he measured once when we were making out cause it was like bigger than when he'd done things to himself or something? he's italian..heh..they're known for being big..

and elba, you haven't? ..even i have. not from him but uh..you can do that stuff to yourself..

[Rachel]

I got that from watching HBO's Real Sex. They had an episode with a blowjob specialist, and ever since that episode where they showed that technique, I've always used it.

I TOTALLY WATCHED THAT EPISODE. I love Real Sex <333

And Elba my love, your time will come. It takes a freaking lot to get me to orgasm. Rawr.

[*chaneun*]

EEWWW!!!!11 OMGZORZ THATZ SICK!!!!1111

It shot past the whole room? :

[sammi rules you]

no..but it was pretty far. almost across the whole room.

[*chaneun*]

[jordanriane]

Elba, don't even worry if you've never had an orgasm during sex or from oral sex. I haven't been a virgin for three years, and this year was the first time I've had an orgasm. Well, an orgasm from sex/oral sex, as I've had far too many pleasurable times on my own, ;P


I think with sex/oral, I didn't want to let go, so I just faked it -cough-. The sex with my past partners were good, but I don't know.. But with my current boyfriend, I decided to let my inhibitions go and well, he ended up being the first guy to get me to orgasm through sex/oral.

I TOTALLY WATCHED THAT EPISODE. I love Real Sex <333

YES! I've been searching online everywhere to download episodes, but so far no luck.
Right now, since I moved into my apartment, we don't get HBO, so I don't even know if they still air Real Sex. I used to watch it religiously, and some of the stuff they had was just . Actually, now that I think of it, I haven't checked out ebay to see if there's anything on there, perhaps a dvd set or something..

[*nightmare4taki*]

*Listens*

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Yeah Elba. I've learned that some women aren't capable of orgasming til their early 20's. As long as the sex is good, right?

[*AngelicEyz00*]

he's 7.8 if i remember correctly. he measured once when we were making out cause it was like bigger than when he'd done things to himself or something? he's italian..heh..they're known for being big..

and elba, you haven't? ..even i have. not from him but uh..you can do that stuff to yourself..

o0o, he is big. That's great And I'd rather not do that to myself, lol... i feel qguilty afterwards, lol.

I TOTALLY WATCHED THAT EPISODE. I love Real Sex <333

And Elba my love, your time will come. It takes a freaking lot to get me to orgasm. Rawr.

Yeah, I guess it'll take a lot for me too. i told Armond his goal is to gimme one, haha.

Elba, don't even worry if you've never had an orgasm during sex or from oral sex. I haven't been a virgin for three years, and this year was the first time I've had an orgasm. Well, an orgasm from sex/oral sex, as I've had far too many pleasurable times on my own, ;P

Yeah =\ I mean, when I first had any sort of sexual act, I was really young... and I didn't know what an orgasm was. my boyfriend asked me "did you get one?"... i didn't know what to say... perhaps I did, perhaps I didn't... I will never know... -_-

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Yeah Elba. I've learned that some women aren't capable of orgasming til their early 20's. As long as the sex is good, right?

Yeah, as long as the sex is good. Last time with Armond, I wasn't really in the mood, so that kinda sucked

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[sammi rules you]

do you feel..dizzy at all? feel the blood going towards your..lower pleasure area?

[jordanriane]

Yeah =\ I mean, when I first had any sort of sexual act, I was really young... and I didn't know what an orgasm was. my boyfriend asked me "did you get one?"... i didn't know what to say... perhaps I did, perhaps I didn't... I will never know...

It's always so hard to explain what an orgasm is, but I'll try my best from what I've experienced:

- Your face starts to get really hot.
- You start to feel a small tingling in your girly parts.
- It then spreads all over your body.
- If it keeps going, your legs might start having little convulsions or well, explosions of lurrrve.

God, that was an awful explanation.

You could always try masturbating, and you can find out from doing that what an orgasm feels like, that way should you know you're close to one during sex or oral, you can keep going in that same exact movement, and you'll explode lovely 'gasms.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Hmm... okay, so maybe I did orgasm the first time I experienced that sexual act. But after that, I don't think I have =\ And that was close to three years ago.

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[*chaneun*]

Whats with the
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[lilliannnn]

*Listens*

ditto.


i can't really say anything on either the topic of swallowing/orgasming.
but alls well.

[*mzkandi*]

Hmm... okay, so maybe I did orgasm the first time I experienced that sexual act. But after that, I don't think I have =\ And that was close to three years ago.

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Thats normal too. My friend was telling me she was having a problem with obtaining a orgasm after the first time she actually had one. I read somewhere apparently alot of women experience that.
As for Sammi questions, yeah its normal...I asked myself the same thing the first time.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Whats with the
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Did you click them?

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Did you click them? 

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Ahaha..Elba I didnt even notice that...clever..KEKE

[Rachel]

Hey quick question, do you ladies get "the glow" after you do the nastttty <3?

[*mzkandi*]

Rach, whats the "the glow"?

[Rachel]

You know, you can't stop smiling, you are in a better mood, your face glows...or at least that is what I'm told....

[*mzkandi*]

oh haha...hell yeah. I stay with three girls (seperate rooms) they can always tell when I "got some"

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Sure. And I get red lucious lips

[hi-C]

I get a "glow" even before that. The thought of what's about to happen...*sigh* I hate guys

[jordanriane]

Hey quick question, do you ladies get "the glow" after you do the nastttty <3?

Does wild sex hair count?

;)

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Hey quick question, do you ladies get "the glow" after you do the nastttty <3?

That's funny you ask cuz my ex-boyfriend used to say something about that. He said my skin looked brighter and I was smiling more. And in a better mood overall for the next few days.

[*chaneun*]

I never noticed that they were links.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

ess eeh exx

damn, at least sammi's pleasuring her man



i couldn't do it