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 Apr 14 2004, 08:31 PM
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<--asdoua hfkawhekf  Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,373  |
What's your reason for going out with the opposite sex (...or not...)?
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| *krnxswat* |
Apr 14 2004, 08:32 PM
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moved to relationships.
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Apr 14 2004, 08:38 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
becus... we want to love...and to be next to them... we want comfort...
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| *Kathleen* |
Apr 14 2004, 08:38 PM
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Why do people date? For one, it's to have fun with people...feel all special and whatnot...accepted. The bigger reason is to try to find your true love, or someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.
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Apr 14 2004, 08:40 PM
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are you stating we should go out with the same sex?
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Apr 14 2004, 08:51 PM
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i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
HAHAHAHAHA mireh ur so funnY~~ lols...
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Apr 14 2004, 08:57 PM
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 All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 |
sexual attractions my reason. LoL XD
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| *jimmyjackiechan* |
Apr 14 2004, 09:10 PM
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We want to be accepted, understood, have a companion to share emotions and physical attractions, be acknowledge by the opposite, and I think because emotional release to a close person besides a family member~
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Apr 14 2004, 09:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
QUOTE(jimmyjackiechan @ Apr 14 2004, 10:10 PM) We want to be accepted, understood, have a companion to share emotions and physical attractions, be acknowledge by the opposite, and I think because emotional release to a close person besides a family member~ Exactly. Sometimes we just want love in return, y'know? |
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Apr 14 2004, 10:00 PM
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QUOTE(Kathleen @ Apr 14 2004, 3:38 PM) Why do people date? For one, it's to have fun with people...feel all special and whatnot...accepted. The bigger reason is to try to find your true love, or someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. yeah, exactly. the only thing is i never been on a date before :( |
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Apr 14 2004, 10:04 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
people "date", as in going to a restaurant, because they want to get to know the person more..
talk on the phone..chat online...are ways to get to know people...but to actually be up in close, only two people, doing whatever is comfortable...having a nice conversation..is why people date..i say.. or when couples date is when they want to take a break from the real world and just be together for how much time they have.. i wish my man and i could date...sadly...we`re both young..haha.. 
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Apr 14 2004, 10:05 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Yea, Jimmy is correct =)
For me, I date because I just want someone there to have and to hold, to be mines, and to make me feel special. I've only dated 2 other ppl besides Tony (my bf for 1 yr 4+ months) and well, they were more of.. PUPPY love sort of dating lol. Well anyhow, people date because they are attracted to one of the opposite sex (or of the same, which ever way one swings) and they just well... jus wants someone there for them. For me, I wanted someone to love, someone to hold, and someone in which I can prove my love to. Love is a powerful word, so don't say it unles syou're for sure that person is who you want to spend your life with and that you will try your hardest to be with. I can't say that dating is exactly fun when well. I've only been on a few dates w/ my bf right now (I think um.. 5? lol less than 10, for sure!) and well it can be fun depending on who the guy is and what you guys do =P Plus, for girls, if you get scared, you can have a guy to hold onto 
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Apr 14 2004, 10:09 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
QUOTE We want to be accepted, understood, have a companion to share emotions and physical attractions, be acknowledge by the opposite, and I think because emotional release to a close person besides a family member~ yes totally what jimmy said. i want someone there who'd be there for me emotionally besides my friends. and someone who care'd for me and made me feel special and wanted. cuz the greatest thing u'll ever learn is to love and be loved in return. LOL! got that from moulin rouge. lOL.  jackie
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Apr 14 2004, 10:38 PM
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 Retired Posting Whore Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,911 |
Why do I date? Umm... Mostly to get laid.. Secondly to find true love... Thirdly to find friendship.. Fourthly...Umm.. Have fun? Ya, I think thats about it.
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Apr 14 2004, 10:38 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well um the reason i guess pplz dat ish because they lyke the otha person n want to b with em
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Apr 14 2004, 10:40 PM
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 [[one piece :D Group: Member Posts: 2,722 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 795 |
mm... I dunno. Because a lot of people date?
I dunno 
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Apr 14 2004, 10:41 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
because u wanna feel comfort, warmth, and security.. and to knoe that someone out tehre other than ur family cares for u just as much
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Apr 14 2004, 10:42 PM
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[[one piece :D Group: Member Posts: 2,722 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 795 |
QUOTE(conster @ Apr 14 2004, 8:41 PM) because u wanna feel comfort, warmth, and security.. and to knoe that someone out tehre other than ur family cares for u just as much That's what I wanted to say
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Apr 14 2004, 10:55 PM
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i dont date right now (im single heheh...
 ) cause i justed needed a break from it all i guess. i ono... it just messed up my whole perspective on life because i got really confused and just agitated and hurt...  but that doesnt change my view on dating...the rason why people date: (or my opinion anyways) people want to be cared for. everyone has to realize it one way or another, but everyone wants love, no matter how much they deny so. By dating, you share a common love with the opposite gender( also because of opposite gender attraction) and it is comforting to have the same common love being shared which causes a bondage like no other. this bond is helpful for the soul because it helps us go through difficult times when we need support by the other mate. also, it helps up enjoy life because we can share happiness together and share joy together as well. although this seems like a load of bs, most of it is true for many people. so there. 
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Apr 15 2004, 06:53 AM
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I guess it's because when you date, you feel appreaciated and loved. It's so fun to be with someone who's constantly making you laugh and smile.
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| *grrfield* |
Apr 16 2004, 03:25 PM
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you'll have someone there for you when your friends are backstabbers or your family just turned away or soemthing...
not that I date xD |
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Apr 16 2004, 05:43 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
when you know yourself and you're ready to offer what you are to another person. dating someone is a committment between someone that you are attracted to whether it be physically, mentally or emotionally.dating is a great experience and it teaches you a lot about life and you often end up learning more about yourself as well. it's a healthy part of growing up and maturing.
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Apr 17 2004, 08:57 AM
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i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
QUOTE(NvieDi3ai3yGrL @ Apr 16 2004, 3:43 PM) when you know yourself and you're ready to offer what you are to another person. dating someone is a committment between someone that you are attracted to whether it be physically, mentally or emotionally.dating is a great experience and it teaches you a lot about life and you often end up learning more about yourself as well. it's a healthy part of growing up and maturing. omg u have the words to stay stuff like this!! true relationship changes ur life and u can learn a lot of things~~ cus feelings are about relationship...wait am i confusing myself agen??? omg.... ack!!! noo!! lols... yeah feelings and emotions are about relationship... lols!! if u got the feelings and the emotionally..meaning u got a relationship...omg wat am i talkin' abot...ok i shuld get some sleep~~ lols wait 2 more left! |
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Apr 17 2004, 10:48 AM
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 Ph34r with great ph43r Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,744 |
i thinke everyones right on why people date the opposite sex. acceptance..love..all that stuff
and as for the same sex...i think that sometimes your friends with a person so much, that you want to show how you feel and appreciate them (actually that could go for dating the opposiet sex as well  )
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Apr 17 2004, 11:37 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
its FUN!!! iono i love datin hehe i mean i hate bein single. its like when ur in a relationship u knoe u have someone to turn to n somethin to look forward to n someone to think bout n care bout n feel special
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Apr 18 2004, 12:02 AM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
QUOTE(AzN_AssAul') [',Apr 14 2004, 7:31 PM] What's your reason for going out with the opposite sex (...or not...)? a reason - well i dotn know maybe its cuz we liket hat other person and wahnt tobe together withthem to have some time together i dont know lol. j/k is just to spend time and to get to know each other and also cuz we/all etc like to be witht hem =) |
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Apr 18 2004, 12:04 AM
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There's a REASON?
I think it's natural to be attracted to the opposite sex. Or the same.. whatever. |
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Apr 19 2004, 05:54 PM
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 ForGetAllThePain Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,942 |
b\c it gives u a feeling that someone cares about u...we want to know that someone we care about cares back and they can show their love...
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Apr 19 2004, 07:41 PM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
QUOTE(Apr 19 2004 @ 5:49 PM) ADVENTURE! FUN! The feeling that its right to be together. The purpose of letting everyone know that you are TOGETHER and enjoying it. thats right! i def agree |
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Apr 20 2004, 01:10 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
I date people to find out how they are and if we have any interest in each other...and also how it would be if we were going out...haha....yupee
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Apr 25 2004, 06:01 PM
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 :+:SnuggleMe:+: Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,832 |
#1 (Quote by a relative) "You can't help it if you fall in love with someone."
#2 (Quote.. i duno by who) "The best thing is to love and be loved." Personally.. being with someone makes me happy.. i have some who's there for me, will listen to me when i'm down, and keeps me company when i'm bored. I've tried not dating before.. guys start liking you and don't leave you alone..  pressure builds on you from them, school, and home. Dating gives me time to get away from all my problems and spend time with my bf/really close friend. Sometimes it's nice just to get a hug when you're down.. 
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Apr 25 2004, 11:42 PM
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 createblog.com n00bie Group: Member Posts: 620 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,321 |
QUOTE(LQ_Darksoul @ Apr 14 2004, 10:38 PM) Why do I date? Umm... Mostly to get laid.. Word from a guy. He's right. Guys look for sex in relationship. |
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Apr 26 2004, 03:16 AM
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I like meeting new people. I think it's one of tha few greatest things of life in general. Dating is just an opportunity to meet ppl and find that special person
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Apr 28 2004, 09:53 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
to be loved... besides with firends and family.... a diiferent kind of love.... i guess so we can fun.... ooo and making out wont hurt either...
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May 12 2004, 11:33 AM
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*blink blink* Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,585 |
To feel like you're accepted to the world that's beyond your family. To feel a sense of security, importance, happiness and most importantly, love.
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