i feel bad for liking this guy...he's still in luv, wif his ex...& his ex is mai best friend |
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 Jun 12 2005, 08:23 PM
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there's this guy that i like rite now. he's like the sweetest guy ever and that's why i like him! but here's the problem... he juss broke up wif his gf ( one of mai best friends) a few days ago and he's not ovah her. and i feel so bad for him cus see about a few hours they broke up... a guy ( one of his friends) asked his ex out and she sayd yes, so he's really hurt now. and well his ex is having problems deciding wat to do? to be wif him or stay wif this new guy. and so i feel so bad juss for liking him cus... idk he's still obsessed wif her. he even made up a song about him and her and all the things he ever did to hurt her and how he wanted to take everything back. and i feel bad for liking him cus he's still in love wif his ex and mai friend( his ex if ya forgot) still doesn't know wat to do. and i juss dont wanna interfere wif it. and see i want him to ask me out so idk wat to do.
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Jun 12 2005, 09:33 PM
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You're a pretty shitty best friend for trying to get with her ex boyfriend right away. Give the boy a chance to get over her.
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Jun 13 2005, 12:40 AM
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haha, you're mean. thats true but hey ! at least she is a normal human being who feels bad.
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Jun 13 2005, 03:51 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Ok, wait a sec......she is your best friend, no? Well if she is your best friend then WHY, pray tell, would you go out with her ex, when they just broke up. WHY??! and even if you like this guy and alll, consider him off limits. You don't date your best friends ex. PERIOD. never ever. Unless you wanna lose that friend of yours. I know you like this guy, but he's not worth losing a friendship over. It would be really low of you to interfer with all of this, my advice is stay outta this, or it'll turn into a bigger mess. Trust me. I lost one of my best friends when she did somethan low like that.
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Jun 13 2005, 07:07 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree with everyone above, let him cool down or even try and get over your BESTFRIEND before expecting him to ask you out and she's your bestfriend for crying out loud. it's better to wait
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Jun 13 2005, 07:43 AM
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i don't see what the big deal is? you make it seem like he's not over her but she's over him. when he cools off, yeah take a chance and flirt or something. but, i don't think it will affect your friendship with your best friend from the way you describe it.
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Jun 13 2005, 03:01 PM
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wooah back up for a sec! first of all give the guy time to cool down. i mean he's not over her and he's really upset, and you want to go into a realtionship with him already? yeah not to mention his ex is your best friend. try and think about others and not just what you want.
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Jun 13 2005, 03:04 PM
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 xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
tell you friend how you feel, and if it is ok with her if you ask him out...wait for him to get over stuff and then ask him
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Jun 13 2005, 08:36 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
as long as its ok with your friend to go out with her ex, then flirt and stuff.
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Jun 15 2005, 05:55 PM
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umm imma agreed wit da othas...yoo should give him sum time to think about sum tough stuff... dat hes gone throug....
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