getting girls Options

[mrvegas]

jw

[Paradox of Life]

Um, talk to them and become friends with them? I think that's the best way. You can't "get a girl" without being friends with them and getting to know them first.

[Eryi]

Go straight forward and ask for their number.

[racoons > you]

Um, talk to them and become friends with them? I think that's the best way. You can't "get a girl" without being friends with them and getting to know them first.

you have clearly never been to falaraki.

be confident

[biglamchops]

straight up and just approach them and say hi. Be confident... It's that easy...

[yupimchuck]

why would you want a complete stranger?

[ichigofan]

you shouldnt always be friends with them cuz then theyll think of you as a cuddly teddy bear and not a "hot" guy you would go out with, just try to talk to them, for ex if you have a class with her or something in common just bring it up and start from there dont just come out of nowhere cuz thats scary =P

[*mipadi*]

Give them shots isn't an option?

[XaZnX07]

first just start looking at them and if they see you looking and look back at you smile or something, then as time passes alittle go up to them and talk to them lol i did that once in my life lol

.:tony:.

[iheartsimba]

It's easy. Just go up to them, and bring up a simple conversation. "what school do you go to?" "whats your name" "what grade are you in"....IDK. That's how I met Sean#3 haha. And it worked. Oh and that's how I met the lifeguard

[*Weird addiction*]

Be straight forward. Like

boy: hey, i'm (your name) and blah blah

[shortiiex]

i hate it when strangers just walks up to you and start flirting...i dunno it seems perverted for some reason

[Chii]

umm...i don't think your supposed to pick up chicks on the street if you want a serious relationship...

quite frankly, i'd never allow myself to be picked up on the street because i have a wonderful boyfriend and they'll only want me for what i look like because that's all they know when they try to hit on me.

[EddieV]

I never talked to a complete stranger, my gfs were all hookups or just friends...

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Oh man, I hate it when people out of nowhere go like. "Hey, my friend thinks you're cute." *thumbs up* heh heh =\

[fameONE]

I meet strangers perfectly fine.

The difficulty I have is opening up past a certain point.

Sr. Venturas, this is what you do...

Be friendly but not honry, confident not cocky and strong but not macho. Calmly walk up and introduce yourself. If she stops and even gives you the time of day, spark conversation or come right out and say that you bashfully would like to get to know her.

[cookieskater2]

I usually start a friendship...

[*suddenly she*]

i don't know about you guys, but why would a guy like a stranger girl (oh that sounds weird)?

in my area and at my age, because she's "hot."

lalalahesoundsreallyshallow and any sane girl would stay away from him.

[ITSBONKERS]

you must be hot.



jp.
just don't use corny pickup lines.

[soulless727]

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[bfleenor]

jump in take chances and mayube u can get somethin x-tra! its AWAYS good if that happens!

[azn cutey chique]

ok, just wanna ask that thing cuz I'm curious about my classmates in school especially those boys, it's private so I just wanna know on how you court a girl.

I'm not homosexual.

[Eryi]

I don't know what it is & I do not understand what the hell your saying.

[bfleenor]

edit.....
i like mess with her like bug her a lot make her smilr and have a good time.....
vv thx dahding vv

[dahding]

^^to both of you, ur not the sharpest tool in the shed, eh?

courting, as in, flirting, asking out, taking interest in, etc etc?

err. flirt a little, get to know them better, be nice to them, romantic, sweet, etc etc, and then after all that crap, ask them out.

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=79329

whatever.

[EddieV]

I actually get down on my knees....

[MrElsewhere]

uhhh...who uses courting still? Haha..anyways..

I usually try to make her laugh, smile at her a lot, umm..and be extra nice.

[berry_lickable]

I actually get down on my knees....

thats so sweet

[SpedMonkee]

teasing, but still acting sweat, gets the job done for me

[*Azarel*]

uhhh...who uses courting still?

Some traditional guys.
Get her parents' approval; that's always a plus.

[*Weird addiction*]

court? i thought that's the old word for engagement? whatever...

Well, make her laugh/smile/horny

[*mzkandi*]

Its funny you mention courting because my friends grandpa was mentioning his grandson how to court a girl. He said you always ask the parents permission to take the girl out. And if the date is formal you bring flowers for the date and her mother. You always have the girl back home 10 minutes before the parents required time for her be back home. Yeah alot of it is really traditional.

[amhso]

Some traditional guys.
Get her parents' approval; that's always a plus.

So do Chinese subtitles in those romantic comedy movies. (Title: Attractive One)

[waitwaitwait]

What do you know? You're all Asian.

[*Azarel*]

So do Chinese subtitles in those romantic comedy movies. (Title: Attractive One)

... Wait, what?

[Joss-eh-lime]

court? i thought that's the old word for engagement? whatever...

Well, make her laugh/smile/horny

im not sure makng a girl horny is part of courtship.

[*Solipsist*]

im not sure makng a girl horny is part of courtship.

You wanna do her.
You won't be able to if she doesn't feel the same way.

- Solipsist

[emo_in_urpanties]

Im not sure ne "courts" nemore.

[bebopspike14]

I let god take care of it, 'an it all works out.

Trust me.

I would know.

[*Azarel*]

Im not sure ne "courts" nemore.

Completely untrue; my friend is considering courting this girl. Yes. Courting. >:[

[*Weird addiction*]

^ courting as in dating or engagement? i'm confused.

im not sure makng a girl horny is part of courtship.

Don't make her horny then...let someone else do it...you'll lose her...

[T_R_G]

Talk, start singing and making her laugh at my bad voice, etc. etc.

[*mzkandi*]

^ courting as in dating or engagement? i'm confused.

Courting pertainings to dating, seeking the woman's affection. That kind of stuff.

[mai_z]

... Wait, what?

I think they're referring to the fact that the word 'court' is still used in english subtitles for chinese movies.

[*Azarel*]

I think they're referring to the fact that the word 'court' is still used in english subtitles for chinese movies.

Ah, thanks for clearing that up.

[Musouka]

I have actually done what mzkandi stated. It does help. However, my first step was writing a letter that contained a poem about how I felt about her. It was not too sappy, but it was very heartfelt. Then the day after the letter, I asked her out.

[topsyturvy]

You wanna do her.
You won't be able to if she doesn't feel the same way.

- Solipsist

LOL. True. But some girls think its plain funny when guys joke about horniness (sp?!). Depends on the girl, though. If she's old-fashioned, don't ever expect to see her again.

[x3_ken]

courting..? mmm..?

[[Deep]Thought63]

flirt or tease, any will do the trick

[enyceXaddiction]

I don't know what it is & I do not understand what the hell your saying.

lols same here. what are you talking bout?!

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

I'm so lost...
Like when you visit her or something?

[dfly112]

its simple... u gotta talk wit the grl... get to kno her... b her friend.. take it slow... then slowly get her mayb a bouquet of flowers in HER fave color... REMEMBER lil things like her bday n interests and ur set... u juss gotta go slow... chill wit her OUTSIDE of skoo...

[HoodieObsessed]

I actually get down on my knees....

lol

tha'ts uhh overly draumatic?

but then again...it is kinda sweet...

I let god take care of it, 'an it all works out.

Trust me.

I would know.

you make it sound like you're jesus or something.

Not that I'm saying you arn't

lol

[The-Mach-Hare]

not sure, it just come naturally. just be yourself

[silentxcries]

why would you want a complete stranger?

exactly what i want to know.

[*anubis*]

other--

i don't go for the girls.

they usually come to me

it's true

[aera]

^hahaha

i listen to those safety people who came to my elementary school for years. i don't talk to strangers. unless they're giving out free food samples =]

[Rayj]

why would you want a complete stranger?

Thats how it is when you meet new ppl. They are complete strangers, bcus they are "new". But i try to play cool, and let them notice me. Doesnt always work though. Then i make them laugh.

[CrazayChristian]

Other-

For a complete stranger, you simply stand out. Do things other guys don't do. Ask her opinion on something that she might actually respond to (Like womens equality) and then you can tease her about her answer a little. (You can literally walk away without giving your opinion) Judging by how you type, I'll assume that you are in your early teens. In which case, you simply do this, tease her, and within 3 minutes, get her contact information. Something like

"Do you have a pen? No? well here, take mine, Oh and here's a piece of paper. eh...You know what I might want that paper back, I'll need you to pay me for my trouble...Your number? sure."

"Pen? Paper? Your phone number? Great!"

Just examples. I HIGHLY advise against giving them your number. Why? Because you rely on them to call you, and that's not a good idea. Getting email is also a good idea, actually it's a VERY good idea, because not only do you have a conversation, but you have time to think, as well as a log to what she likes/dislikes.

Note: I advise talking to her about 2-3 times a week max, if she calls you, then have a quick conversation and leave like you're busy. This way, she'll know that you have a life, and you aren't going to change just so you can talk to her.

And for muffin bob's sake, don't call her the day you get her number. Wait 3-4 days, then call, so that you don't seem desprate.

I'll stop now before I go into details.

[i_r_hispanic]

i hope one day girls stop coming to you and you have to beg to get a girl...that would be funneh

[SkaironFrenzy]

it depends..i know i aint good with it....lol...

[Trolling]

Hmm for some reason Im too shy to talk to them at first. Then they start talking to me... It dosent make sense.

[parallel]

^That doesn't.

If I were a guy. And I knew that I was hot stuff. Then I'd go up to the girl.
But advice for the guys. Don't just go up to her and ask for her number now.

[Joss-eh-lime]

You wanna do her.
You won't be able to if she doesn't feel the same way.

- Solipsist

that doesnt make any sense. courting isnt about SEX...duh.

[ParanoidAndroid]

Well this guy got me by simply saying hi and I simply thought he looked cute

[xklipse]

Other-

For a complete stranger, you simply stand out. Do things other guys don't do. Ask her opinion on something that she might actually respond to

to me, that's the best way to get my attention. stand out.

[AngryBaby]

well if its at school its easy, but its more of a thing when its at a public places like a mall. usually i dont know what i do, they come to me and start talking and asking me all these questions :shrugs: and then we're flirting

[VarsMOlta]

something thatz nice
like one day in the train someone said "good morning" to me and i smiled at them
or if u see shez holdin lotz stuff you can say "do you need help?"

like im not good at those
but hopefullly yall get the idea

"whatz good ma" ticks chics offfff

itz not even all that much of what do you say
i think itz how you look .. at least you gotta look decent
and then itz yo atttitude.. nice sincere attitude

give the impression that you are a good lookin , nice gentleman.

[sm0kinm0nky]

heh. I'm to shy to do anything

[CrazayChristian]

First, start off the conversation in a way that will make her remember you. DON'T COMPLIMENT HER!

For bloody hell, if you compliment her, you already seen as "another guy". Shoot,there is a guy that walks around and tells a woman her fly is open and walks away. Does she just sit there and take that? NO! She hunts him down and the ice is broken. Doesn't work the same way if you compliment somone.


Do something that she doesn't expect. Escort her, pull out a chair, and when she tries to sit, you sit down as well and say "Oh, you wanted one too?". She'll find that hard to forget.

The trick is to be teasing with your words but chivalrous in action. Keep tension in the air between you, keep her guessing "Does he like me?" "Does he really think my shoes are bad?" "Is he just playing with me?".

That should help.

[xourzest]

^^ Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?

jk...i read that corny one somewhere in the forums...i dont know any pick up lines and i really dont care cuz i dont go bar hopping or anything. i just told the person who i liked straight out that i liked them a lot.

ur werid

[nsmx1korean]

LOL most girls just come up to me LOL

[sunsuke01]

Yah..I don't normally go for girls either, they mostly come for me, but if your not that lucky, I suppose you could always kidnap....

[HoodieObsessed]

Be friends with them first. Going out is scary enough, going it with a complete strange is like

[neKronos!]

I see them in the street and if I lust after them, well I then proceed to stalk them, and have my way.

[misoshiru]

why would you want a complete stranger?

that's what i was wondering.

[*incoherent*]

be yourself and just talk to them. if they dont like you theyll feel unconfortable and move on. its not like youre going to see them much anyways unless they go to your school.

[itsARIE]

Go straight forward and ask for their number. 

hehe mister cool guy, eh? that's right... just ask for their number... and hope they don't give you the "rejection hotline" hehe... ;)

[Kneuklid Romance]

why would you want a complete stranger?

Actually when you think about it...even if you do date someone you know they are still strangers in a way because love life and friendship are two completely different aspects and it's almost like starting all over again. Also, dating someone that you're very close to can be a very tough and risky experience. o_O!

...I would want a complete stranger because it's a new world to explore. You sort of "start new" I suppose you can say. Finding out new things about someone is probably the most intricate and important growth stage in dating. That's what dating is all about in my opinion.

The love of my life was a complete stranger. We met at school and had no idea who we were.

But people are different and have their ways of dating...some might be compatible with people they already know and then others like me...venture onto other paths.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)--------

[Retrogressive]

I guess just get to know them. That's what all girls want.

[warriors1035]

yea... i tried dating my bff... it lasted one day

[Joss-eh-lime]

i hate it when strangers just walks up to you and start flirting...i dunno it seems perverted for some reason

i dun like it either. its creepy.

and since i only like talkin to people i konw they dont ask me my name or what school i go to.

  Yah..I don't normally go for girls either, they mostly come for me, but if your not that lucky, I suppose you could always kidnap....

lol u sound a bit full of ur self. but lol

[sprezzatura]

Guys are either straight forward or they are too shy to do anything. I know this guy who likes me and just confess it with me but that other guy (I think) is crushing on me because I caught him staring at me all the time.

[sadolakced acid]

hello my name is justin i think your beautiful but it'd be rather shallow for me to like you just because you're beautiful so i'd like to get to you know you look now see i'm rambleing oh crap i think i should stop talking about now... oh well i guess i don't always do what's best for me so... errr... yea hello my name is justin and do you believe in aliens? oh and what's your name?

hey sometimes the bumbling idiot thing may work.

some girls might think it's cute.

[Retrogressive]

^ Well, I just fell in love with you. ^

[Jakelvl100]

i dont know really, i think i would just not act like im trying to get hooked becuase i most likely am not.....

[mrcoolcat]

Too shy to do anything, I am :(

[*mipadi*]

Too shy to do anything, I am :(

Maybe you'd have more luck if you stopped talking like Yoda.

[mrcoolcat]

Maybe you'd have more luck if you stopped talking like Yoda.

This be'eht the truth, it be?

[sadolakced acid]

think yoda is hot, some girls.

[skate88]

go right in for it and start talkin...Dont Be a Puss...!!!

[xwinnie]

I think it will really funny if some guys actually used those cheesy pick up lines. I would use them back just to be stupid :D, but everybody's different so you have to go to some "stalker mode" and know what they like first.

LOL. XD

[miss-_-guitar]

hi im a girl and all u need to do is ask us out. seriously. all the guys at my school are so shy. its so anoying cause if theres a guy u want to go out with u have to ask him and then u get the rep for being a slut. all girls want is a guy that wants them.

[OneOfTheseDayz]

man getting girl is hard

[sadolakced acid]

^ unless man is 40 and has a million dollars with which to woo said 16 girl.

[realest]

Uhh I don't really go up to her and go "WUHTZUPBAYBEE KENIGETCHO NUMBAH FOR REALS?" Uh, I try to make friends with her first, then start with the cute act. I reel them in. But I'm sweet like that.

[KrunkMuzik]

Well, it depends...Usually I go right into it if I just wanna be friends w/her. But if I wanna talk to them seriously, I shyness overcomes me a lil bit.

[d0t0rg]

Make eye contact, smile, then blush.

[steezahh]

wow.. so many ways i know guys have tried [with me]
+ they`re driving, then im walking on the sidewalk, they get out.. "can i holla for a dolla?".. then i go "naw.. its ok." haha.. then keep walking [see that doesnt work].
+ you go straight up to a girl for her name&number. buddie your still a stranger!.. haha..
+ you compliment her and then strike up a conversation and then ask for her number. ding ding. haha.. thats the winning move that always gets me. :]
hope this helps.

[AnnahhbeL]

be friends =]