my family, and how much they suck ass Options

[rAwritsgWeg]

alrite my life is good but then there are the bad things most of them come from my depression.

my depression is caused by my family

my brother who is 10 took all my cd's and stepped on them and crushed all of them

my sister talks shit about me to her 8th grade friends

my mom .....well she listens but lately shes been neglecting me

my stepdad.....i hate him
he abuses me he says he will kill me
i cant take it

i already have an idea of what to do but i wanna know what u guys and ladies think

im just gonna run as far as i friggen can

i sorta just wanna die but whatever

[ichiban]

nobodys family is all that great... i know a friend whose parents hate her and never let her do anything to make her happy.. my family causes a whole bunch of depression for me too. i dont think you should run away .. yea..

[dahding]

go ahead. run as far as u can. how far do u think you're going to get in life? how much pain do u think ur gonna put ur family through when they're sick with worry about where the hell u are?

don't say how bad ur family is. i'd trade families gladly. ur brother stepped on ur cds. so burn new ones from ur friends. ur sister talks shit about u to ur friends. so don't care cause it's not gonna do anything to u. when u meet her friends, prove ur sister wrong and show them that ur a great person. you want ur mom to pay more attention to u? you don't sit around whining and saying, "i wanna kill myself." u take it upon urself to actually initiate conversations with her. u got problems? talk to her about it. she's not a mind reader. ur stepdad abuses u? call the cops. and define how he abuses u please.

don't expect things to change if u run from all ur problems. do something about it, and maybe ur "depression" will go away.

[xxtaintedlips]

alrite my life is good but then there are the bad things most of them come from my depression.

my depression is caused by my family

my brother who is 10 took all my cd's and stepped on them and crushed all of them

my sister talks shit about me to her 8th grade friends

my mom .....well she listens but lately shes been neglecting me

my stepdad.....i hate him
he abuses me he says he will kill me
i cant take it

i already have an idea of what to do but i wanna know what u guys and ladies think

im just gonna run as far as i friggen can

i sorta just wanna die but whatever

wow take a breather... i at least dont want you dieing right off.

here is how to releave your stress....

1) forget about your cds it is ok..it is not like it is the end of the world.
try talking to your brother and tell him how you feel about him doing what he did.

2) Talk to your sis remember that family is forever...and nothing will change that.
tell her to stop talking about you and that it hurts you when she says thoes things.

3) your mom is prob having a hard time in her life did you ever stop to think how hard her life is? talk to her and tell her how you feel tell her it is really important and that your issues cant wait. If you need it take out a tissue box, you never know she may be having a hard time too.

4) wow your step dad... well he is abusing you...hmmm what kind of abuse..there are many forms. If it is sexual then i sugest calling a hotline for teenage girls or talking to a guidence couciler at school

5) dont run away...it never works out (trust me on this one) If you need a break from you fam/rents summer is coming and you could sign up for a killer camp...no your style? them spend time with your friends or take out a book and write down all these negative things.

good luck!

ps// if you eva need to talk to someone mail me..

[THiS__CHiCK]

I feel bad for you. Lol your brother's effeng mean. Yes, run away. Or either write them a letter about how you feel. Lol. But yeah. Either one or both.

[The 1 and only J...]

ha! your familly isn't that bad. if wanna know a bad familly then here ill show you

-younger brother stole most of my clothes and money.

-older brother does heroin and smokes weed so he then steals any thing he can from me to get money to buy drugs

-sister not that bad any more but she smokes a lot and blames me for my parents finding out.

-mother took away my dreams of playing basketball and said i had no future at all and wont let me hang out with my friends cause she says that they are evil.

-step father believes that i can only do wrong, stole my computer, and says he will kill me.

-my father is in florida and can't do any thing to help me out.

-grandmother thinks that im the worst kid and thinks that i have "friends" that shoot at her house and throw bricks threw her window.

so there.

[heyyfrankie]

don't kill yourself. me start off by saying that. second of all, if you really want to run away, do it but trust me, you won't get far.

just do all that you can to try to ignore your family. don't worry about your brother and sister because they are just stupid. screw your mom, if she neglects you than forget her...for the time being. and about your dad, you REALLY need to tell someone about that! like a teacher or a police officer!!! and if you have bruises, take some pics or just show the cops in person. that is a really big problem!

[Mileep]

Commiting suicide, I heard that you can go to hell for it. I can tell you have a lot of struggles in your live. Try to deal with the hard times. "Every time there is a storm, there always a rainbow." Try to treat your family better even though they may not do good to you. Just to let you know, what goes around comes around. Good luck!

[rAwritsgWeg]

the problem is that no one in my family will listen

i really am thinking about just well i dunno just gettin away from them

i just dunno

and my stepdad tried to cut me with a knife today

?????

what kind of f**kin dumass is he

[ikn0w ur m0m]

alrite my life is good but then there are the bad things most of them come from my depression.

my depression is caused by my family

my brother who is 10 took all my cd's and stepped on them and crushed all of them

my sister talks shit about me to her 8th grade friends

my mom .....well she listens but lately shes been neglecting me

my stepdad.....i hate him
he abuses me he says he will kill me
i cant take it

i already have an idea of what to do but i wanna know what u guys and ladies think

im just gonna run as far as i friggen can

i sorta just wanna die but whatever

aww that sux but whatever u do jjus dont run away. u will deff get caught. ive already ran away. and ummm jus black mail ur sister to her friends. do soemthin to ur brother then put a lock on ur door. then jus go into exile to ur parents and dont talk to them then why they try to talk to see how it feels. get a recorder and record ur dad sayin shit and turn it in, he is not allowed to touch u.

[rAwritsgWeg]

well i do want him to get into trouble but i'd rather do something to him my self

he has been with me for pretty much my whole life

i need to get revenge

normally its against my nature but i really feel that i should do something

[ikn0w ur m0m]

you really need to. i had a step mom and i got her on sound recorded yellin at me and tellin my dad that im did hit her if i dont do wat she says...then it stoped. have u told any of ur friends?

[Shattered_Hope]

Everyone has problems with family....but running away from home is never the answer. Just sit your whole family down and tell them how you feel around them.

[megan_x3]

Its fine. All family aren't perfect. =)

Even if you are really gonna run out of your family and go to somewhere else, you won't get far. Just to let you know. ^.^ Just talk to your mom about it or counselor at school about your problems. My brother and sister picks on me and leaves me to have no time to myself to play at all. I have to take out my dog , as if its my responsibility? Tell your mom about the abuses and threats your stepdad have made to you. I'm sure it wil help. =)

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Running away will solve nothing, it's like your just hiding from your fears. As qouted from Star Wars "Fear leads to pain, pain leads to suffering, suffering leads to death" =( As for your mother tell her that you love her and treat her like a queen, in time perhaps she will defend you from your stepdad. You sister, just ignore her. Its natural. Your brother, I suggest you lock up your possesions.

[sammi rules you]

well i do want him to get into trouble but i'd rather do something to him my self

he has been with me for pretty much my whole life

i need to get revenge

normally its against my nature but i really feel that i should do something

sending him to jail is hurting him. you don't have to physically hurt someone to hurt them.

[llamalam]

my family is a kick-ass one, cept my 10 yr old sis

[topsyturvy]

^ That was unnecessary.

I agree with Frankie. The rest of your family is okay.. just do something about your stepdad. This is child abuse we're talking about!!!

[demolished]

you must run away before any wrong-doing will occur and you will suffer from the lack of family's love. you should live w/ your friends and be adopted by your friend's mom =] or whatever. just move to another family or friend's home. Life would be alot different and happiness will spread through your mind. thats what i think.

[yukichan]

hmmm..maybe u should try to get proof of that occuring..did ur stepfather do any physical injuries to u?if he did, record it/write and try to take a picture of what he did to u..its probably going to feel strange writing/taking a picture of what he did, but if u do get to a point where u cant take it, ull have proof to show..u cant really change what ur brother and sister do, my brother does the same thing..u just have to ignore it..and ur mom...hmmm..just ignore it..u seriously should talk to an adult before ur stepfather does serious harm to u..i had a similar problem when i was younger and the method i said about writing it down helped solve my problem..if u want to talk, feel free to PM me..

[albusdolohov]

well..
slap your siblings man!
break your cds, i mean, how stupid is that?
and your sister's breath stink eh?!
and...
your mum, i think she's not neglecting you. she might just appear colder because she doesn't know what is happening.

well, aim to be something useful in life, and they will regret what they did to you.
what are you going to live on if you run away.
do you have that kind of money to provide for your own lodging and all that essentials?

[sw33t_rouge]

omigosh...sue them!! or..hrmm report them to a police xpesially aboout your father..

[yupimchuck]

the bus station downtown is alwas nice.
your free when you leave, but eventually youll get caught or go back.

&im sorry your having such a bad time

[CrazayChristian]

Your brother: I have a brother, he's 9. I taught him good and well that I'm not afraid to get mad (even though I am, because I hold my temper in so much that it builds up on a guy and I can be kind of psycho) He knows what will annoy but why the fark did he do that? I mean, my brothers only do crap to me if they have a reason (cept fo a youngest who just doesn't get what he's doing. I say, find a motive on your brother, if you can't find one then you can either(and I know this sounds unorthodox, but let's be real, does it really sound like your going to sit there calmly and question him?):

1.Scare the living hell out of him (tell him, if he ever does this kinda crap again, then you'll <I dunno, insert something that won't physically harm him, but will scare him.>(But don't nessecarily do it.

2.Ground him, Your his big brother, more than likely he needs your help from time to time with little things. Tell him he's grounded from you and you won't do any crap to help him out. He'll realize how much he needed you and he'll learn (worked for me)

Your sister: Blackmail is always good, but diplomacy is EVEN BETTER. I know this is like totally against what I said up there but hear me out. If you black mail your sister, she will counter black mail you or find a way around it. You can't really ground her because she'll find a way to become independent. If you work something out then it will be awesome.(Be sure to do this before or after PMS or your screwed down to the bone)

Your Mom: Sounds like a relationship with a friend of mine I had, she neglected me a bit and stoped talking to me. Turns out she didn't know what she was doing. Let your Mom know what's up. It could just be she's stressed.

Your stepdad: I don't usually cuss but I say GET HIS ASS ARRESTED. This guy needs to take justice to the nuts. All you need is one sign of evidence, or just a testimony. (There are also hotlines of professionals that will walk you through what to do.)

Good luck.

[rAwritsgWeg]

i dont know what to do anymore everyone,even my friends are like not talking to me i cant take it

[rAwritsgWeg]

i really feel like doing something im in class rite now and im about to snap what do i have to do to make it stop


i really cant stand it


i just wanna leave, leave this town this f**king place but where ami i supposed to go?

[Se7eN_x]

hey at least you have your friends right? if they aren't much help you can talk to me^^ or talk to your family about what you've been going through..i mean your WHOLE family..don't run away, it'll just make things worse. if things don't work out well, maybe you can go to a sweet, caring neighbor's home? but if nothing else, i heard there are numbers you can call to talk to a counselor or something..

[Smilessss]

aww plz dont say dat...and dont run away even tho yoo think ur family is bad...but yoo got to live wit it... datz wat i do... even tho i dont have ne problem wit mi family and stuff...but yoo cant just run away and stuff... and plus they myte still love yoo and worry about yoo wen yoo do run away... so running away doesnt help either... why dont yoo talk to dem about it? if they're interested....

[rAwritsgWeg]

i understand what u guys are saying but the thing is that my family will do the exact opposite of what u guys think they will do


i do have one idea but its prety weird

i wanna start livin wit my best friend
his whole family knows me and like im there every weekend
it seems like it would work but then again....

[Smilessss]

hmm..one of mi friends did dat... cuz he kinda had a same family problem as yoo do... well try to talk to ur family about it...if it doesnt work...i would listen to Se7eN...go to da counselor or sumthin...or talk to ur best friend about it... yoo could also talk to me about it... trust me...i knoe bunch of friends who does dis... or at least tries to do it...

[NgocQuyen]

gahh...its okay buddy!!! my family does that too.....because i use to be really really big and they use to always make fun of me and call me fat...and den all my brothers and sister hated me...i didnt fit in no where...its like i was the blacksheep of the family...and nobody cared....i used to be really depressed all the time too....but gahh!! i got over it...i mean...it could be worst right? if i didnt want them to call me fat no more...then i could change that...sooo i did...i proved them wrong...=] dont worry about things so much....i mean...you have friends that obviously care about you if you're willing to move in with them....as for you're brother...i think he's younger than you? SPANK HIM!!!!!!!! lols.....hahahhaa just think on the brighter sides of things...and SMILE...you might think it's a small thing...but smiling can do wonders....


dont think about dying or anything like that!!!!!!!!!! because you know what happens when you do that!!!

[MasterNe0]

your problem sounds like mine except it a bit worst.

My Mom: wants me to be the best I can be. I got a 87 average last semester in High School and she wanted me to get a freaking 95. I thought it was good but she said you are a idiot.

My Dad: He laughs at everything I said. I ask him to fix my TV and he laughs. (He still didn't fix it). I tell him a problem im having and he laughs.

both my parents aren't going to help me pay for college yet they want me to go to college with no money.

My grandmother: She the worst of them all. She gossips about me and my girlfriend so much that it caused me and her to break up because of it. I hate her for that. She also has no manners (don't say hi to anyone who comes to my house, giving them a attitude.) She also disgusting, she goes to the bathroom with the damn door wide open and no light on so if you walk in the hallway, u see her sitting their. NASTY, especially with me and my brother in the same house.

My Aunt/Uncles: Gossips alongside my grandmother.

I also was planning (and sort of still planning) to run away but I can't because I don't have anywhere to go besides the streets.

[enyceXaddiction]

i get the same torture. all the familys are like that. [upset the step dad gosh ignore him and if he abuse you one more time CHILD SERVICE!!!] just deal with it now and when you reach 18 WOOHOO OUT OF THE HOUSE